16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity At 16 - Anna Kemarch

Published On: January 2, 2015, 10:38 am (5 years ago)
Author: Daniel Bosai
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“I am sixteen and have already lost my virginity. I truly regret that my first time was with a guy that I didn’t care that much about. Since that first night he expects s*x on every date. When I don’t feel like it, we end up in an argument. I don’t think this guy is in love with me, and I know deep down that I am not in love with him either. This makes me feel cheap. I realize now that this is a very big step in a girl’s life. After you have done it, things are never the same. It changes everything.” Since then I have been involved with other guys and I have learnt a few of lessons. Here are a some:



1. Many teenage girls sleep with guys because they are trying to find love, to find self-worth. But the catch is that the more guys they sleep with, the less self-worth they had.

2. Many girls think that if they really care about guys, s*x will bring them closer together. Indeed, s*x creates a bond. However, 80 percent of the time, the physical intimacy of first s*xual relationship won’t last more than six months.

3. Couples who want what is best for their relationship or future marriage will have the patience to wait.

4. Most of the time, when a girl gives away her virginity, she assumes the relationship will last forever.But study of more than 10,000 women shows that when a girl loses her virginity at that age at 14, she’ll probably have about thirteen more lifetime s*xual partners.

5. Teen s*x frequently causes tension within families because of the dishonesty that usually accompanies the hidden intimacies. Relationships with friends are often strained, and when things turn sour, the gossip and social problems often become unbearable.

6. Everyone talks about how hard it is to say no to s*x, but no one tells you how hard it is when you say yes.

7. It is dangerous for a teenage girl to be sexually active. Because a teenage girl’s reproductive system is still immature, she is very susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases

8. In fact, early s*xual activity is the number one risk factor for cervical cancer, and the second is multiple s*xual partners. A girl’s body, like her heart, is not designed to handle multiple s*xual partners.

9.While a girl might plan on sleeping with only one guy, she could be exposing herself to the STDs of hundreds of people through a single act of intercourse. Here’s how: Scientists studied the s*xual activity of a public high school of about one thousand students. About half (573) of the students had been sexually active, and most of them had only been with one partner. However, when the scientists tracked the web of s*xual activity among the students, it was discovered that more than half of the sexually active teens—without knowing it—were linked together in a network of 288 partners within the school! So if a girl slept with a guy from this school, theoretically she could be in bed with one-fourth of the entire student body.

10.The emotional side effects of premarital s*x are also damaging to a young woman. One of the most common consequences of teenage s*xual activity is depression. Girls who are sexually active are more than three times as likely to be depressed as girls who are abstinent. In fact, the condition has become so predictable that the American Journal of Preventive Medicine recommends to doctors:



Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 10:38 AM | Hero
 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 10:44 AM | Addicted Hero
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Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 10:47 AM | Hero
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Wetin this one come mean.. Mohammed wey marry six year old Aisha nko? for Islam 16years na menopause o..
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 11:14 AM | Upcoming
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Emmanuel14 u no to gt sense at all cos I know know wetin Muhammad gt to do with losing virginity at a tender age..........FOOLISH TIN
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 11:52 AM | Newbie
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Too long
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 11:56 AM | Gistmaniac
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Hmmm
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 12:29 PM | Newbie
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Too late to cry
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 01:39 PM | Hero
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 Grin
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 03:13 PM | Newbie
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Am not a girl.
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 03:30 PM | Gistmaniac
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una don hear na
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 04:25 PM | Gistmaniac
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Where is d remaining 6 points?
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 05:19 PM | Gistmaniac
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@ Emmanuel wat a stupid ingrained u ar .wat as Mohammed got to do wit this. imbecile....
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 05:45 PM | Upcoming
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6. Everyone talks about how hard it is to say no to s*x, but no one tells you how hard it is when you say yes.


This is the deepest and insightful observation !!
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 06:21 PM | Hero
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I see
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 07:06 PM | Addicted Hero
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⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥·̵̭̌✽̤̥̈̊ Ơ̴̴̴͡k.̤̥̈̊·̵̭̌»̶̥-̶̯͡┈̥‎⌣.
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 08:05 PM | Gistmaniac
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Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 10:43 PM | Hero
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Thnk God u learnt ur lesson n sharing wt odas. Hop d unmarried young ones are learning.
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 11:46 PM | Upcoming
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IS VERY EASY FOR A GIRL OF 16YRS TO HAVE SEX WITH A MAN THAN A BOY OF 16YRS TO HAVE SEX WITH A WOMAN
Posted: (5 years ago) on 2-01-2015 11:55 PM | Upcoming
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NICE POST
Posted: (5 years ago) on 3-01-2015 09:52 AM | Hero
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