Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship ?

Date: 21-10-2009 10:18 am (14 years ago) | Author: PRINCE OBINECHE
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- at 21-10-2009 10:18 AM (14 years ago)
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This is sort of a different spin off another thread I just read. Here's what I'm wondering if you are willing to share:

Who here has had sex on a first date or knows someone who has had sex on a first date and it ended up turning into a deep loving relationship? Notice I did not say it ended up turning into a sex friends relationship.

I myself need to care about someone however I'm really curious if it is possible to make it work after you have done so much so fast. My hypothesis is it is rare. I'll share my ideas about why later.

Thanks for sharin

Posted: at 21-10-2009 10:18 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- gimac at 21-10-2009 11:14 AM (14 years ago)
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well i had never had sex in first date since my life and i dont ask my friend about that too
so i cant ans you because if  you said those who had it
Posted: at 21-10-2009 11:14 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 21-10-2009 11:22 AM (14 years ago)
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WHAT IS EVEN SEX........
Posted: at 21-10-2009 11:22 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 21-10-2009 11:24 AM (14 years ago)
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Maybe they have known each other a long time before deciding to go out on a date... that can end well

Posted: at 21-10-2009 11:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kemoprosper at 21-10-2009 11:37 AM (14 years ago)
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it's rare i guess the person is just lucky.
Posted: at 21-10-2009 11:37 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ceejay58 at 21-10-2009 11:06 PM (14 years ago)
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it 'll rather pour some fuel into already burning bush...........  Grin
Posted: at 21-10-2009 11:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 21-10-2009 11:18 PM (14 years ago)
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S*x Mate?

Posted: at 21-10-2009 11:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ezecyyyy at 21-10-2009 11:19 PM (14 years ago)
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i don't think is easy,hence is not sex friends.
Posted: at 21-10-2009 11:19 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- debbiecakes at 21-10-2009 11:20 PM (14 years ago)
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no not really it depends on y da sex occured actually..if u had sex based on lust and not like den da relationship is not goin anywhere...if u do it cuz u really liked each other or hope to have a relationship den it builds da relationship rather than destroyin it.
Posted: at 21-10-2009 11:20 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- dandandan at 21-10-2009 11:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: debbiecakes on 21-10-2009 11:20 PM
no not really it depends on y da sex occured actually..if u had sex based on lust and not like den da relationship is not goin anywhere...if u do it cuz u really liked each other or hope to have a relationship den it builds da relationship rather than destroyin it.

Sex on the first date is definitely based on lust. But that doesn't mean it can't develop into a loving relationship. I had sex with my girlfriend on the first date, and we have a strong, loving relationship.
Posted: at 21-10-2009 11:49 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 22-10-2009 12:08 AM (14 years ago)
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ok

Posted: at 22-10-2009 12:08 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mandla at 22-10-2009 12:38 AM (14 years ago)
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Agreed Debbie....much depends on the y of that first-date sex...if its all physical then the relationship will flounder...but if caring and deep feelings are involved and mutual then chances are u will go further.

Sometimes waiting for some time b4 putting out.......makes u value the person u are with more........there is also time for you to learn more about each other so that whan the sex comes you both ready for it.....w no regrets!!

At other times though....lust of the body develops into an attraction of the heart...when people begin appreciating each other for who they are......this however may much depend on the results of that 1st-date sex. if it was good for both.....it opens chances to explore other feelings further....if it was a flop, then it may put paid to the whole thing!
Posted: at 22-10-2009 12:38 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Keffejude at 22-10-2009 12:43 AM (14 years ago)
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from my own ideology sex bonds relationship
Posted: at 22-10-2009 12:43 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ugofly at 22-10-2009 01:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: debbiecakes on 21-10-2009 11:20 PM
no not really it depends on y da sex occured actually..if u had sex based on lust and not like den da relationship is not goin anywhere...if u do it cuz u really liked each other or hope to have a relationship den it builds da relationship rather than destroyin it.
Baby what are u doing online this late night? u to be on bed by now....lol
Posted: at 22-10-2009 01:01 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- ksurrina at 22-10-2009 01:34 AM (14 years ago)
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Is sex the substance of a relationship. Some persons have sex for the first date but they know each other long time and then after sex they get married. Then you will have persons who will have sex after 6 months and the relationship ends the next day. So I don't think that having sex on the first date is a problem. The problem would be if you make it a habit of doing it with everyone you go out with.

Posted: at 22-10-2009 01:34 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 22-10-2009 01:37 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ugofly on 22-10-2009 01:01 AM
Quote from: debbiecakes on 21-10-2009 11:20 PM
no not really it depends on y da sex occured actually..if u had sex based on lust and not like den da relationship is not goin anywhere...if u do it cuz u really liked each other or hope to have a relationship den it builds da relationship rather than destroyin it.
Baby what are u doing online this late night? u to be on bed by now....lol
na ur wife?.........she dey here with me u dey talk nonsense

Posted: at 22-10-2009 01:37 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kenyawest at 22-10-2009 02:11 AM (14 years ago)
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Sex on the first date usually does not work with men. Women who have sex on the first date usually do that because they really like the guy.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 02:11 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 22-10-2009 02:30 AM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm

Posted: at 22-10-2009 02:30 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- KOKOSEN at 22-10-2009 06:57 AM (14 years ago)
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sex on first date depend on a lot of things, 1 is it you met the girl on the road talk to her, took her to your house and have sex with her. 2 either you saw her once exchange contacts like phone numbers and you called her on regular basis until the day you have sex with her?. well !  i had sex with a girl on first date but go no were, its ended the next morning.
if you need a good relationship don't be in a rush to have sex, take your time and study the relationship you may found out thing you wouldn't have notice in a rush. but don't be too slow it may too dangerous.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 06:57 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- grass at 22-10-2009 07:06 AM (14 years ago)
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to have sex is just to shell emotional feelings to each other so relationship with love is the most wanted love which grows in someone s life. it keeps long.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 07:06 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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