should i take her back?

Date: 18-08-2007 10:26 pm (16 years ago) | Author: HENRY
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- at 18-08-2007 10:26 PM (16 years ago)
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my girlfriend is very rude. she insults me even in the presence of my friends. when she comes to my house. she always switches off her fone, only God knows why. she does not believe anything i tell her. she keeps telling me i have other girlfriends. am tired of all these.

Posted: at 18-08-2007 10:26 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- Oluwatoyin001 at 18-08-2007 10:48 PM (16 years ago)
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Have you asked yourself why she's rude? If it's no fault of urs, cos atimes women give back the shit men give to them.........you get what you give. Some ladies have got so much anger in them to express at every slight opportunity and it's so hard to help them. Try having a word with her and see if it makes any difference........although I doubt it.
Be realistic it won't work, firstly she doesn't trust you maybe her hands are not clean (else why is her phone switched off when she's in your house....flat battery). secondly, every woman no matter who you are should be under a man......as in submissive and start learning it in relationships b4 marriage (don't miss understand me....that doesn't make a woman a wash hand basin), if care is not taken it will get out of hand and by the time you're married you will be misreable.
It sounds like you're not happy at the moment with her, cos you didn't mention your feelings for her. The rule is "DON'T DATE SOMEONE YOU CANNOT MARRY"
Posted: at 18-08-2007 10:48 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- herre at 19-08-2007 09:12 PM (16 years ago)
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first of all is see absolutely NO reason why she should even raise her voice at you in front of your friends talk less of insulting?! you.....dats crazy man!you really need to call her to order on that one cause i'm sure if she has anything to sort out with you she could always wait till you guys are alone and talk about it...shoutin and insults only make the problem worse. and honestly i cant really say why she is switching of her phone..realise dat if could be for any reason...maybe she just didnt want any disturbance wen she was wit u...have u considered dat possibility?
Posted: at 19-08-2007 09:12 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 20-08-2007 03:40 AM (16 years ago)
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if u really love her u gotta talk to her....if not GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP....nobody needs a rude partner...couples deserve mutual respect for each other....u may speak out your feelings or shout only if there is a reason for it (and i really mean reasonable reasons)...she accuse of things maybe bcoz she herself has been doing it behind ur back so she is guilty consciuos and she is afraid u might do it too....to off the hp....hhhmmmm....strange and suspicious...a few times maybe coz of low battery is possible but always....u gotta start putting on ur thinking cap boy.....i wish u good luck though.... Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 20-08-2007 03:40 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wales at 28-08-2007 08:29 PM (16 years ago)
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Men, you said she keeps her fone switched of any time she comes to your house and you still go out with her or call her your girl friend, o boy you better wake up from your sleep now be4 it is too late. she is having some other you know.  Grin
Posted: at 28-08-2007 08:29 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Vixenx at 2-09-2007 10:14 PM (16 years ago)
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Well..switching off her phone could either be that she's having an affair with someone else, or It could also mean  that she does not want any interruptions when she's with you. But as for the insults and rudeness, I mean no one deserves to be disrespected in a relationship. Both of you really needs to sit down and talk about the relationship, and if the insults and rudeness continues, then you know it's time to leave.
Posted: at 2-09-2007 10:14 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- madukaomo at 4-09-2007 05:44 PM (16 years ago)
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Guy! d beautiful ones re not yet born.Move on with ur life... Wink
Posted: at 4-09-2007 05:44 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 23-11-2007 07:17 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on  2-09-2007 10:14 PM
Well..switching off her phone could either be that she's having an affair with someone else, or It could also mean  that she does not want any interruptions when she's with you. But as for the insults and rudeness, I mean no one deserves to be disrespected in a relationship. Both of you really needs to sit down and talk about the relationship, and if the insults and rudeness continues, then you know it's time to leave.

This would be the most logical thing you've posted among all I've read. No disrespect intended but I statrted thinking you didn't have it in you.
Guy you know what to do. people usually ask such questions to gather alibis to their causes. The Vixen girl is right... Wink
Posted: at 23-11-2007 07:17 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- daryl at 10-04-2008 10:42 PM (16 years ago)
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dude, soji mehn! gal is playin you.
Posted: at 10-04-2008 10:42 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lucabracci at 10-04-2008 11:06 PM (16 years ago)
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dude,the gurl is using reverse pshycology fo you and  atack is the best form of defence...u know at the back of your mind that she isnt real..free her now b4 u r in too deep
Posted: at 10-04-2008 11:06 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- slimshaddy at 11-04-2008 05:50 AM (16 years ago)
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tins re really obvious, insulting u even in presence of ya frnds, switchin off her fon in ya house, bringin her frnd inbtwn u guys.......pls discharge her b4 she hurts u? its nt jst wrkin out, she is lookin 4 d slightest excuse 2 turn u down rudely.
Posted: at 11-04-2008 05:50 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- ugodaniels at 11-04-2008 06:06 AM (16 years ago)
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and you're still telling us...DUMP HER SORRY ASS...though something tells me she's the one wering the panties in the relationship Angry

Posted: at 11-04-2008 06:06 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 11-04-2008 10:03 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: ugodaniels on 11-04-2008 06:06 AM
and you're still telling us...DUMP HER SORRY ASS...though something tells me she's the one wering the panties in the relationship Angry


what if she don't wear panties....

Posted: at 11-04-2008 10:03 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- freda at 11-04-2008 01:55 PM (16 years ago)
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no way!
A giril that switches off her phone whenever she is with u mean she is either cheating on u, or her battery always run down,  men!

forget this girl cos you sound very unhappy.

let urszelf go and goodluck!!!
Posted: at 11-04-2008 01:55 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- ugodaniels at 11-04-2008 02:43 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 11-04-2008 10:03 AM
Quote from: ugodaniels on 11-04-2008 06:06 AM
and you're still telling us...DUMP HER SORRY ASS...though something tells me she's the one wering the panties in the relationship Angry


what if she don't wear panties....

freda can you make him happy instead as he's a very unhappy man...mind you both of you are at same location! Grin Cool

Posted: at 11-04-2008 02:43 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 12-04-2008 06:16 AM (16 years ago)
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thats why...someone should take out dem panties....

Posted: at 12-04-2008 06:16 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Vixenx at 12-04-2008 06:28 PM (16 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 12-04-2008 06:28 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 14-09-2008 05:07 PM (15 years ago)
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some girls r plain rude or she is playing u. she has another man
Posted: at 14-09-2008 05:07 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Sheeroz at 14-09-2008 05:26 PM (15 years ago)
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NO with capitals! See a woman not just a woman anyone who disrespects u is just not worth it! if there's anything wrong u've done she could talk to u bout it instead of slammin and cursin u out infront of ur friends. The reason why she never believes what u tell her is cuz she is lying to u...ever heard of "the guilty ones are always suspicious"?
Posted: at 14-09-2008 05:26 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- williewillie at 14-09-2008 05:30 PM (15 years ago)
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Huh.............gud thinking....gud talk
Posted: at 14-09-2008 05:30 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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