How effective is the vow, "for better and for worse" in nowadays marriage?

At times u hear the story about ladies who vowed for better and for worse, only to change the rhythm of the music as things become worse; should these ladies be trusted in future relationships?

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Posted: at 7-11-2009 10:42 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Its as effective as when you want your marriage to be enjoyable,i mean,if you want peace,progress and prosperity in your marriage then you should take that vow very seriously.

Posted: at 7-11-2009 11:10 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Agreed, but it could only work out when both parties involve are serious about the union

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Posted: at 7-11-2009 11:58 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

irresponsible ppl make vows dat they cant keep..nd the worst abt it...is dat the vow is been made to GOD

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Posted: at 8-11-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

It's unfortunate some people do no longer keep to the vows the took before God, What a pity that we take God for granted

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Posted: at 9-11-2009 12:58 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

its laughable, more like for better i stay for worse i go.

Posted: at 9-11-2009 07:28 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

So who is decieving who? the wife or the husband?

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Posted: at 30-11-2009 01:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

there's no problem with the vow. the problem is with couples these days. the vow should remain and couples should be scrapped.

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Posted: at 1-12-2009 01:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i think that vow should be scrapped cos couples no longer abide by it...

Posted: at 1-12-2009 02:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Humble y are u always attackin ladies? ah! anyways, b4 u take wed her, ask God to tell things about your partner. u r not just takin a vow bcos u love her, the vow is stronger than any mountain, and its for God not for her. takin that vow means that u r not goin to disapppoint God for makin the two u = 1. no matter to condition the two of found yourselves in, u r not goin to break the vow. u will make variety of mistakes, quarrel, etc...but still u two r like an unseparatable ocean. so my dear, no matter how u love her, seek God ist. am sure u will live your life to the fullest. dont just jump into it, if u dont wat the Creator of the vow means. God said its not good a man to stand alone!

Posted: at 1-12-2009 09:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero