A Mistake That "Turns Women Off" INSTANTLY

Date: 10-11-2009 11:52 am (13 years ago) | Author: Succeed
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- at 10-11-2009 11:52 AM (13 years ago)
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I'd like to tell you a story... It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be alarmed. Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman.  At first, she was just another attractive woman... but the more he got to know her, the more he began to feel attracted to her... and the more time he spent with her, the more that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and
affection for her.  But, there was one problem. As his emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, he also grew more and more insecure.
Why? Because he couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way towards him.  Sometimes, she would say things like, "You are so important to me" and "I'm glad that you're in my life"... but nothing ever progressed past the "friendship" stage. There was an occasional hug, an occasional kiss on the cheek from her... and once, she even held his hand for a long time while he talked about an emotional issue.  But, something was wrong with the picture. She just wasn't acting like a woman that was
"falling in love". She was acting like a friend The insecurity that he felt became a spiral
that amplified itself... and the more insecure he became, the more afraid he grew of "screwing things up" by kissing her or asking her to be his girlfriend.  Plus, the more insecure he became, the less time she seemed to want to spend with him. After spending many days and nights obsessing over this girl, the man finally arrived at the conclusion that, if she only knew how HE FELT, she would feel the same way. So, he made a bold move. He TOLD HER how he felt. He confessed that he was in love and that he
would do anything to be with her.  She looked at him with compassion in her eyes
and said, "Thank you... I really mean that... but I don't want to mess up our friendship... you're too important to me...." This only confused the man more.  He didn't know how to take it... Did it mean that she really loved him too, but that she was afraid of something? Did it mean that she wasn't ready for a long term relationship? Did it mean that she didn't love him, but that she was trying to give him a hint?  Did it mean that he hadn't tried hard enough?  Did it mean that he needed to put everything on the line and REALLY let her know how he felt?  He finally decided that he couldn't go on like this anymore... he had to be with her.  He had to make sure that she knew just how much
he wanted to be with her... so, he took a big step - He bought her a symbolic gift and wrote her a long, long letter... again confessing his
feelings. And then, the unthinkable happened.  She didn't reply.  He called her three times a day for almost a week before reaching her.  She made an excuse about being very busy and said, "I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go"... and hung up... but... he never got a call back. Over the following months the man tried desperately to understand what went wrong... and what happened.


Posted: at 10-11-2009 11:52 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 12:04 PM (13 years ago)
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no time for long thing
Posted: at 10-11-2009 12:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- gimac at 10-11-2009 12:25 PM (13 years ago)
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can some1 help me summarize
Posted: at 10-11-2009 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 12:31 PM (13 years ago)
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am coming
Posted: at 10-11-2009 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- RosemaryI at 10-11-2009 12:43 PM (13 years ago)
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passin first.....

i'll be back after the summary Smiley
Posted: at 10-11-2009 12:43 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lovemar at 10-11-2009 01:00 PM (13 years ago)
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@ poster, i dont undstd d conclusion.
was it d fact dat the gurl saw him as a frd n would not want any intimate r/ship.
Posted: at 10-11-2009 01:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 10-11-2009 01:01 PM (13 years ago)
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posted b4


grrrrrr >

Posted: at 10-11-2009 01:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Dguy at 10-11-2009 01:25 PM (13 years ago)
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The poster loves women - TOO much!

Posted: at 10-11-2009 01:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 10-11-2009 01:37 PM (13 years ago)
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too lengthy....
Posted: at 10-11-2009 01:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 02:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: RosemaryI on 10-11-2009 12:43 PM
passin first.....

i'll be back after the summary Smiley

na u wan do the summary?
Posted: at 10-11-2009 02:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ebinyi at 10-11-2009 05:28 PM (13 years ago)
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It has never main to be! u know to be or not to be, have something to do with ur personal reaction at the right time because women are like fish brain. they never wish to pull the trigger but u can make them do with style.
Posted: at 10-11-2009 05:28 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- esonu at 10-11-2009 05:55 PM (13 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 10-11-2009 05:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 10-11-2009 06:01 PM (13 years ago)
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ALL YA TOPICS R LONG..U FIT TALK TILL MORNIN SHA..U TRY

Posted: at 10-11-2009 06:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 06:02 PM (13 years ago)
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no long thing....
Posted: at 10-11-2009 06:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 10-11-2009 06:12 PM (13 years ago)
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What's the point... in this story... What turned the woman off?.. complete this crap jor!..


Posted: at 10-11-2009 06:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 06:14 PM (13 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 10-11-2009 06:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- umide at 10-11-2009 06:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on 10-11-2009 06:12 PM
What's the point... in this story... What turned the woman off?.. complete this crap jor!..



swagga swagga
Posted: at 10-11-2009 06:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- macgreat at 10-11-2009 06:27 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: umide on 10-11-2009 06:25 PM
Quote from: macgreat on 10-11-2009 06:12 PM
What's the point... in this story... What turned the woman off?.. complete this crap jor!..



swagga swagga

What?.. you don't even know. . . stop posting pointless shit Ooo.

Posted: at 10-11-2009 06:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 06:29 PM (13 years ago)
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tell him oh! bcos  i go slap person for here
Posted: at 10-11-2009 06:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 10-11-2009 06:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on 10-11-2009 06:12 PM
What's the point... in this story... What turned the woman off?.. complete this crap jor!..


Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 10-11-2009 06:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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