How to approach a woman anywhere

Date: 10-11-2009 12:51 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Succeed
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- at 10-11-2009 12:51 PM (13 years ago)
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What do you think we might be able to figure
out if we just took a few minutes to explore what
that attractive woman's PRIVATE life is like?

   Here are a few things that I've come up with:

1) Most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR
MINDS by most men. One of the reasons for this is
that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run
into an attractive woman, so they do the same
default thing: Dumb look, compliment.

2) As I've said before, and I'm sure I'll say
many, many, many times in the future: You can't
BORE a woman into feeling attracted to you. If
she's most likely got a boring life like everyone
else, and you do something that every one of the
other 499 guys she's going to walk by this month
did, then you're probably not going to attract any
special attention.

3) If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING
WHAT OTHER GUYS DO you will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of
the game.

   Wow, this is fun, isn't it? Bet you never
thought you'd be thinking like a woman, did ya?

   So, what are a few things you might do?

   Maybe NOT be like the other 499 boring,
predictable, "nice" loser guys she encountered?

   And maybe BE interesting, attractive,
attention-getting in a way that makes her feel
like you might actually be someone to provide her
with a pinch of spice in her life?

   I thought you'd never ask...

   And, as you may have already predicted, I have
a few more ideas of my own (but don't let that
stop you from thinking about this on your own as
often as you get a chance).

   To start with, you'd probably want to get rid
of the "Wow, you're a beautiful woman, and I'm
just an average guy admiring you" vibe. That's not
helping.

   Next, you could take a moment and think about
how a guy that she would feel ATTRACTED to might
act... then choose that style.

   My experience is that if you take an attitude
of "I guess fate has good taste putting us in the
same place, now let's see if you have a
personality to match your looks", then stir in a
generous portion of Cocky & Funny, you're likely
to do well.

   Here's a variation of something I've used
myself once or twice:

YOU: "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?"
(leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool
and slow)

HER: "Sure"

(pause.. pause.. pause for suspense)

YOU: "Are you single?" (stone cold straight face)

HER: "Well, um..."

YOU: "I'll take that as a yes..." (nodding, sly
smile)

HER: (Laughter)

YOU: "Well, I just happen to know someone that I
think might really like you... if you're more than
just a pretty face, that is... He's funny, has
great taste, and I think you'd like him... I'd
love to sit down and get your life story, but I'm
on my way somewhere... do you have email?" (very
cool, calm tone of voice)

HER: "Yes."

YOU: Great... (takes out pen)... write it down for
me, and I'll have, uh (clears throat) HIM send you
an email."

(Get email and wish the lady a good day.)

   Now, let's talk about what just happened here.

   First off, did I give her any compliments? Did
I act like the other 499 guys? Did I instantly
communicate that "I'm not worthy"?

   HELL NO.

   I said, "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?"
in a very laid back, almost too relaxed and
mysterious tone of voice (your body language is a
VERY important component of this approach... and
if you'd like to learn how to use body language to
create MASSIVE attraction, then you should go and
check this out... it will really help:


   Anyone will respond to that with a "yes".

   Next, I did something kind of fun: I asked her
DIRECTLY if she was single.

   LOL... I really love this one. It's so fun.
Most guys will say, "Uh, I'll bet you have a
boyfriend, huh?" or "So, do you have a man?" or
some other lame thing.

   The question, "Are you single?", takes women
off guard. It's great. And then being assumptive
when she hesitated with an answer... in a cocky &
funny way... magic.

   Next, I followed up with a cocky, funny, semi-
confusing little bit about "knowing someone" that
might find her interesting. Now, she might think
that it's really ME, but she won't know FOR SURE
until she gets the email.

   And even then you might play with her a bit...
"So, what did you think of my friend? I think he
might like you..." etc.

   The point is, I can pretty much guarantee you
that this particular sequence hasn't happened to
her lately.

   She's still trying to overcome her sheer awe
about how many guys in a row can ask "Don't I know
you from somewhere?"

   This kind of fun approach will be a welcome
breath of fresh air.

   Now, I want you to do something. Go back and
READ IT AGAIN... VERY CAREFULLY. Imagine it
happening exactly like it's written. Try to
imagine it in a few different settings. Work on it
until you can clearly see it happening in your
mind's eye. (The reason I can see it clearly is
because I've done it so many times in real life!)

   OK, so now you know how to approach women.

   Fantastic.

   I can remember when I first learned how to
start approaching women... I thought that if I
could just start conversations easily, the rest of
it would be a snap.

Posted: at 10-11-2009 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- Toks-E at 10-11-2009 12:56 PM (13 years ago)
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wats dis?

Posted: at 10-11-2009 12:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- lovemar at 10-11-2009 01:05 PM (13 years ago)
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no time,
Posted: at 10-11-2009 01:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- umide at 10-11-2009 02:16 PM (13 years ago)
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no time e ye e ye e ye
Posted: at 10-11-2009 02:16 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 02:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 10-11-2009 12:56 PM
wats dis?

dis is arrant nonsense.......
Posted: at 10-11-2009 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- gimac at 10-11-2009 02:35 PM (13 years ago)
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too long to my liking
Posted: at 10-11-2009 02:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 02:39 PM (13 years ago)
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na so na
Posted: at 10-11-2009 02:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 10-11-2009 02:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 10-11-2009 12:56 PM
wats dis?
i donno o

Posted: at 10-11-2009 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- size1 at 10-11-2009 02:56 PM (13 years ago)
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passing
Posted: at 10-11-2009 02:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 03:01 PM (13 years ago)
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passing to?
Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- umide at 10-11-2009 03:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 10-11-2009 02:50 PM
Quote from: Toks-E on 10-11-2009 12:56 PM
wats dis?
i donno o

swagga swagga swagga
Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:03 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- umide at 10-11-2009 03:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 10-11-2009 03:01 PM
passing to?


Alata Alata
Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Akpan01 at 10-11-2009 03:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: umide on 10-11-2009 03:03 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 10-11-2009 02:50 PM
Quote from: Toks-E on 10-11-2009 12:56 PM
wats dis?
i donno o

swagga swagga swagga
ok o i get it now Grin

Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 10-11-2009 03:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: umide on 10-11-2009 03:06 PM
Quote from: blings_is_back on 10-11-2009 03:01 PM
passing to?


Alata Alata

where dat one dey?.... na for inside Ajegunle?
Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- umide at 10-11-2009 03:13 PM (13 years ago)
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how you dey my guy Akpan01
Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:13 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Akpan01 at 10-11-2009 03:15 PM (13 years ago)
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i just dey swimmin arround sha..nothin much u nko?

Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- umide at 10-11-2009 03:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 10-11-2009 03:11 PM
Quote from: umide on 10-11-2009 03:06 PM
Quote from: blings_is_back on 10-11-2009 03:01 PM
passing to?


Alata Alata

where dat one dey?.... na for inside Ajegunle?

Ijebu Igbo
Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:16 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ebony_cutie at 10-11-2009 03:20 PM (13 years ago)
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how many gurls have you u won their heart using this approach??Poster
Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- umide at 10-11-2009 03:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 10-11-2009 03:15 PM
i just dey swimmin arround sha..nothin much u nko?

ok that is nice how you tke see my swagga swagga  Grin
Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:21 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- umide at 10-11-2009 03:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ebony_cutie on 10-11-2009 03:20 PM
how many gurls have you u won their heart using this approach??Poster

Is for business.. sha but i wont mind if you can also be inpart of the game.........'SWAGGA SWAGGA"..
Posted: at 10-11-2009 03:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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