If marrying in 2015 or soonest is your desire, you must make an effort to make it a reality. First you need to ask yourself, why am I not married, am I marriageable? If am marriageable why are men not showing interest in marrying me? Why are men who showed interest in me suddenly disappeared and never come back but went and married someone else?
Of a truth, one of the restraints or what is preventing some ladies from getting married is spirit husband. You never can tell, so don’t rule it out or wave it aside as nonsense because this could be the cause why you are still single.
I said this going by the testimony I received recently in my e-mail from a lady who wrote me to testify that she got married three months after her deliverance from spirit husband. According to her, she got married to a man she met at the venue of her deliverance in Abuja.
So I wish to counsel you, why not do what I call spiritual x-ray or check up to be double assured that you don’t have a spirit husband following you around and chasing away men who wish to marry you. You do this by presenting yourself for deliverance, this is the first thing you should do if marching to the altar in 2015 is your utmost desire.
After confirming that you don’t have a spirit husband, the next thing is to fine tune your character: Your character should be your greatest asset if securing a life partner is your desire. What some ladies fail to realize is that the first thing men look for in a woman they desire to marry is her character. Yet some ladies never pay attention to it but are busy projecting and promoting their beauty.
Note one thing, beauty alone may never fetch you a husband that is why some beautiful ladies are stuck while some other ladies that may not look beautiful, men are struggling to marry them. As one musician rightly puts it, beauty is not edible.
The BIBLE equally puts it this way in Proverbs 31:30 “Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.” So I counsel you, ensure that there is no trait in your character that are repulsive that are repelling men away from you.
After fine tuning your character and have started drawing notable men and eligible husband, the next thing is to prove to these men that you are an asset not a liability. Ladies who are quality are really an asset to men and that is the kind that men wish to marry.
Moreover, realize that first impression on first date counts or matters a lot. On your first date, be conscious of your actions and demands never behave as if you have never eaten certain type of food or drank certain kind of drink.
I said this because I once confronted a young man and demanded to know the reason he dropped the lady he wanted to marry for another lady. The man reported that the former lady was demanding for money from him to do a Brazilian Hair do. That even if he has the money, that he will not spend such kind money just to do hair. So be conscious of the series of demands you make to the man who shows interest to marry you.
Finally, after all said and done, a man accepts to marry you in 2015, I counsel you to be conscious of the kind of man who is marrying you. Don’t compel the man go beyond the resources available for his disposal and the kind of wedding ceremony he can afford. I said this because a lady nearly committed suicide because the wedding gown and other material the man got for her wedding was later used by another lady instead of her.
What happened was the kind of wedding ceremony she was expecting from the man, while the man was gathering money to execute the kind of wedding ceremony the lady was insisting on? The man met another lady who he feels was better, which he married in place of the former lady. So don’t lose out because of wedding ceremony, because the level of your wedding ceremony does not determine how success or failure your marriage will be.
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