A woman gets raped by a total stranger. She did nothing to bring this on. It was a random rape. It could have been a home invasion type of rape or she might have been leaving the mall and was attacked/ambushed. Fast forward a few weeks and she finds out she's pregnant. She does the math and it cannot be her husbands baby. She decides to not have an abortion for either personal reasons or religious beliefs. The baby comes into the world. He looks exactly like her attacker. Everytime she looks at the baby she's reminded of the horrible event because the baby is the spitten image of her rapist. What about her husband. Can he accept his wife's decision to keep the baby and raise it as if it were his biological child or would he walk away because he couldn't live with her decision. The baby is certainly an innocent victim as his mother. Can someone overcome such an obstacle. Will the marriage crumble. How many marriages would survive such a thing. This is where the marriage vows come into play. For better or worse. How many husbands would stand by their wife's decision? How many men would stay only if she chose to give the baby up or have an abortion?
Posted: at 20-11-2009 05:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Hmmm when u r pregnant...ya feelings r not the same..even as she get the pregnancy through rape her feelin as a mother will grow in her...It means she will find it difficult by soul to abort..and secoundly it fit harm her body as well...and third that child is an inocent soul...u cant blame it...so for myself...i think to leave the babe...or at least to born it and if the housband no ready to accept dey can give the child to adopt...
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 20-11-2009 05:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:44 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-11-2009 05:43 PM
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:41 PM
U RITE....
YEH I THINK SO...BUT IS EASYER TO SAY IT, MORE THAN TO DO IT U KNOW
YES OOOOO
JUST IMAGINE THE HOUSBAND FEELINGS AS WELL...AS HER STOMACK DEY GROW MONTH BY MONTH AND HE KNOWS IS NOT HIS BLOOD...NO EASY SHA...AND HE HAS TO BE THERE TO SUPPORT HER..LIFE NO EASY MOST EXSPECIELLY THE RIGHT WAYS
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 20-11-2009 05:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:44 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-11-2009 05:43 PM
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:41 PM
U RITE....
YEH I THINK SO...BUT IS EASYER TO SAY IT, MORE THAN TO DO IT U KNOW
YES OOOOO
JUST IMAGINE THE HOUSBAND FEELINGS AS WELL...AS HER STOMACK DEY GROW MONTH BY MONTH AND HE KNOWS IS NOT HIS BLOOD...NO EASY SHA...AND HE HAS TO BE THERE TO SUPPORT HER..LIFE NO EASY MOST EXSPECIELLY THE RIGHT WAYS
HE GOT NO OPTION TO SWALLOW IT UP....
Posted: at 20-11-2009 05:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:51 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-11-2009 05:47 PM
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:44 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-11-2009 05:43 PM
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:41 PM
U RITE....
YEH I THINK SO...BUT IS EASYER TO SAY IT, MORE THAN TO DO IT U KNOW
YES OOOOO
JUST IMAGINE THE HOUSBAND FEELINGS AS WELL...AS HER STOMACK DEY GROW MONTH BY MONTH AND HE KNOWS IS NOT HIS BLOOD...NO EASY SHA...AND HE HAS TO BE THERE TO SUPPORT HER..LIFE NO EASY MOST EXSPECIELLY THE RIGHT WAYS
HE GOT NO OPTION TO SWALLOW IT UP....
HMMMMMMMMMMM
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 20-11-2009 05:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:51 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-11-2009 05:47 PM
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:44 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-11-2009 05:43 PM
Quote from: around_d_corner on 20-11-2009 05:41 PM
U RITE....
YEH I THINK SO...BUT IS EASYER TO SAY IT, MORE THAN TO DO IT U KNOW
YES OOOOO
JUST IMAGINE THE HOUSBAND FEELINGS AS WELL...AS HER STOMACK DEY GROW MONTH BY MONTH AND HE KNOWS IS NOT HIS BLOOD...NO EASY SHA...AND HE HAS TO BE THERE TO SUPPORT HER..LIFE NO EASY MOST EXSPECIELLY THE RIGHT WAYS
HE GOT NO OPTION TO SWALLOW IT UP....
HMMMMMMMMMMM
HAAAAAAAAAAAA
Posted: at 20-11-2009 05:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 22-11-2009 03:07 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: princemech on 20-11-2009 05:22 PM
A woman gets raped by a total stranger. She did nothing to bring this on. It was a random rape. It could have been a home invasion type of rape or she might have been leaving the mall and was attacked/ambushed. Fast forward a few weeks and she finds out she's pregnant. She does the math and it cannot be her husbands baby. She decides to not have an abortion for either personal reasons or religious beliefs. The baby comes into the world. He looks exactly like her attacker. Everytime she looks at the baby she's reminded of the horrible event because the baby is the spitten image of her rapist. What about her husband. Can he accept his wife's decision to keep the baby and raise it as if it were his biological child or would he walk away because he couldn't live with her decision. The baby is certainly an innocent victim as his mother. Can someone overcome such an obstacle. Will the marriage crumble. How many marriages would survive such a thing. This is where the marriage vows come into play. For better or worse. How many husbands would stand by their wife's decision? How many men would stay only if she chose to give the baby up or have an abortion?
yes i quite agreed with you that the baby is inocent , but so not the mother , and the earlier the husband throws them out right now , the better for him , other wise that very boy might be the one that will terminates his life when he grows,but actually this cannot be a rape case ? like she willingly make her self available for the charity show
Posted: at 29-01-2010 12:30 AM (14 years ago) | Grande Master