My Husband Always Beats Me With Belt Over Small Misunderstanding (Photos Inside)

i am so angry right now,my elder sister is suffering in her husband's house,he beats her with head of belt at will,she bleeds all the time,she has 3kids for him,my sister is a very decent woman,was never wayward but accused her that the children might not be his,he took all of them for DNA,and all came out 99.9 his,he was dumbfounded,and looked for another one to hold,saying she doesn't cook for him.

I've been to their house before and she cooks,he just doesn't eat her food,lying up and down,told my sister and i not to visit them I said ok,just last night look at what he did to her?

Funny enough she has had enough and wants to leave but trying to cover the shame that will be on my family especially my dad and might block the way for my sisters and i since we are of marriageable ages now,but after yesterday's beating,God forbid.
She is willing to leave damning all the consequences and we are all behind her,the only problem is that she didn't do a court wedding,she did traditional marriage and church wedding,and the church certificate isn't the one from court,like other churches e.g Catholic,and she is a stay at home mum,had issues with her admission in her final year and so she had to leave,she is so helpless now,
Please anybody that has a lawyer that can advise her on remedies,she is married to him for 8 years now,and it's been hell,Please she needs a good lawyer to help her out.

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Posted: at 2-04-2015 12:21 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

help her out with what .
her type of marriage is recognized by the law, so she can ask the court for a divorce.

Posted: at 2-04-2015 12:50 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

What is so big about this. If you are tired of it all, go to court and seek devoice, simple. But didn't you guys date before marriage.

Posted: at 2-04-2015 01:31 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 2-04-2015 01:54 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Divorce can take place later but right now she needs to move out asap. You don't need papers before you save ur life.  Never leave ur kids behind, take them with  you and she needs to value her life more than trying to impress people by staying in abusive relationship.

Posted: at 2-04-2015 02:17 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

na waoh,,,,i understand what your sister is passing through,,,,,some men are unpleaseable,,,,i use to date a guy like that who complains about everything,,,,even when i am at home or at work,,,he will call me and say he saw me an hour ago kissing some guy in the train station,,,,,i know your sister noticed this signs when they were dating but she overlooked them thinking he will change after marriage,,,,,i hope people will believe the fact that patners dont change after marriage,,,and the phrase:-----till death do us part does not mean that you should die in the hands of your husband.....

Posted: at 2-04-2015 02:35 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

na waoh,,,,,,i understand what your sister is passing through,,,,,,,some guys are naturally unpleaseable,,,,,,i once dated a guy who complains about everything ,,,even when i am at work ,,,he calls me and say he saw me kissing some guy a minute ago,,,,some guys can make you be doubting yourself and have psicological problems,,,,,and i am sure your sister noticed his behaviours but believed he will change after marriage,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i hope people will believe that patners dont change after marriage,,,,,,,,,,,,,and the verse:----till death do us part,,does not neccerssarily mean your patner should kill you

Posted: at 2-04-2015 02:42 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

As long as they live together for more than 6months, She is eligible to go for court....Marriages without Love is Useless... So let her separate because am sure the man is seeing another girl.

Posted: at 2-04-2015 05:59 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Run 4 ya life asap

Posted: at 2-04-2015 08:21 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

Na wa oo. Leave b4 he kills u

Posted: at 21-08-2015 04:54 AM (9 years ago) | Hero