I met her back 2007,asked her out and she agreed,we ve been good since then with ups and dwn sometimes,but she have never allow me to have sex with her,to my suprise yesterday i forced her to tell me why she have refused to have sex with me, and she told me that she was raped and since then she find it very irritatin to have sex and she has this hatred for men , she wants to change it but still find it very hard,she likes me and want us to be together but what happend to her still worry her a lot that she cant losing up so easily,so dear pals what should i do to make her nightmares let her be??
Posted: at 7-12-2009 06:47 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
I met her back 2007,asked her out and she agreed,we ve been good since then with ups and dwn sometimes,but she have never allow me to have sex with her,to my suprise yesterday i forced her to tell me why she have refused to have sex with me, and she told me that she was raped and since then she find it very irritatin to have sex and she has this hatred for men , she wants to change it but still find it very hard,she likes me and want us to be together but what happend to her still worry her a lot that she cant losing up so easily,so dear pals what should i do to make her nightmares let her be??
so all u want us to do, is to tell u wat u shld do, to make her hav sex wit u?
u betta go to a brothel sha
2.0.
Posted: at 7-12-2009 07:55 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sorry about it man...it's more of a psychological thing...it's not easy to get over. well I'm not for pre-marital sex, I would have given u a clue that works. When u get married to her, i'll teach you what to do. ok?
I met her back 2007,asked her out and she agreed,we ve been good since then with ups and dwn sometimes,but she have never allow me to have sex with her,to my suprise yesterday i forced her to tell me why she have refused to have sex with me, and she told me that she was raped and since then she find it very irritatin to have sex and she has this hatred for men , she wants to change it but still find it very hard,she likes me and want us to be together but what happend to her still worry her a lot that she cant losing up so easily,so dear pals what should i do to make her nightmares let her be??
so all u want us to do, is to tell u wat u shld do, to make her hav sex wit u?
u betta go to a brothel sha
Guy sorry ok, i am nt asking you to tell me hw to have sex with her, she gat a problem which i want to help her out of it, Cos its frustrating her life.
Posted: at 8-12-2009 01:16 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
mugu......so u're dating a gal since 2007 and u never enter the place.......hmmm u must not be my younger brother i'll kill u
what do u think pple will even say if u tell 'em.....look here friend u're what i refer to as classic idiot
Shut up u!! do you think that feeling and relationship is all about sex sex sex,nope i am not like you and i dont and wld never go against her wish,smone is suffering frm a psychological issue here and need help, and you are here calling me names jst Cos i did not try to rape her like the other guy did,nope i cant do dat , and i bet you will be that type of man that goes against girls will and wish,srry mehn 'Cos is not all about SEX, there are more to it ok.
Posted: at 8-12-2009 01:22 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
mugu......so u're dating a gal since 2007 and u never enter the place.......hmmm u must not be my younger brother i'll kill u
what do u think pple will even say if u tell 'em.....look here friend u're what i refer to as classic idiot
Shut up u!! do you think that feeling and relationship is all about sex sex sex,nope i am not like you and i dont and wld never go against her wish,smone is suffering frm a psychological issue here and need help, and you are here calling me names jst Cos i did not try to rape her like the other guy did,nope i cant do dat , and i bet you will be that type of man that goes against girls will and wish,srry mehn 'Cos is not all about SEX, there are more to it ok.
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 8-12-2009 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
sorry about it man...it's more of a psychological thing...it's not easy to get over. well I'm not for pre-marital sex, I would have given u a clue that works. When u get married to her, i'll teach you what to do. ok?
Well thanks brother, ya her problem is more of a pysychological thing,but she really want to change her recent sitiuation but still found it very hard to do Cos the picture's and the scare comes calling whenever she try to get physical with men,i jst want her to be herself so i will appriciate any clue .thanks mehn.
Quote from: Akpan01 on 8-12-2009 01:20 PM
Its just with a lot patient and much care...u have to make her trust u and feel secure in ya hand....be patient with am...
Thanks dear, sometimes i get fustrated but i have to keep doing watever i cld to help her , thanks.
Posted: at 8-12-2009 01:28 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
I met her back 2007,asked her out and she agreed,we ve been good since then with ups and dwn sometimes,but she have never allow me to have sex with her,to my suprise yesterday i forced her to tell me why she have refused to have sex with me, and she told me that she was raped and since then she find it very irritatin to have sex and she has this hatred for men , she wants to change it but still find it very hard,she likes me and want us to be together but what happend to her still worry her a lot that she cant losing up so easily,so dear pals what should i do to make her nightmares let her be??
The Hardest thing to do is to be the Hero dat Turns a Girls Life Around, and when one eventually Does, she Falls so Deep for the Person so dat when the Unfortunate situation of Break up occurs with dat person, She might just Snap and Turn into Violent Wreck
My Bro, if yu know yu're not Gonna Spend the Rest of yur Life with dis Girl, my advice is don't try to be the Hero to her, just slowly drift away
It's always scary to Deal with Girls like dis
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 8-12-2009 09:02 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
diplomatik at 8-12-2009 09:05 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: cjluis on 7-12-2009 06:47 PM
I met her back 2007,asked her out and she agreed,we ve been good since then with ups and dwn sometimes,but she have never allow me to have sex with her,to my suprise yesterday i forced her to tell me why she have refused to have sex with me, and she told me that she was raped and since then she find it very irritatin to have sex and she has this hatred for men , she wants to change it but still find it very hard,she likes me and want us to be together but what happend to her still worry her a lot that she cant losing up so easily,so dear pals what should i do to make her nightmares let her be??
just continue being there for her...mean while figure out what u want..if its just sex or a relationship leading to marriage..
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 8-12-2009 09:05 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sorry about it man...it's more of a psychological thing...it's not easy to get over. well I'm not for pre-marital sex, I would have given u a clue that works. When u get married to her, i'll teach you what to do. ok?
Oyez, stop it, i dont like it when u lie,lol oya, tell the truth.
Posted: at 8-12-2009 11:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I met her back 2007,asked her out and she agreed,we ve been good since then with ups and dwn sometimes,but she have never allow me to have sex with her,to my suprise yesterday i forced her to tell me why she have refused to have sex with me, and she told me that she was raped and since then she find it very irritatin to have sex and she has this hatred for men , she wants to change it but still find it very hard,she likes me and want us to be together but what happend to her still worry her a lot that she cant losing up so easily,so dear pals what should i do to make her nightmares let her be??
so all u want us to do, is to tell u wat u shld do, to make her hav sex wit u?
u betta go to a brothel sha
Guy sorry ok, i am nt asking you to tell me hw to have sex with her, she gat a problem which i want to help her out of it, Cos its frustrating her life.
and ur deffinition of helping her out is that u want to enter her place right?
Posted: at 8-12-2009 11:24 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
I met her back 2007,asked her out and she agreed,we ve been good since then with ups and dwn sometimes,but she have never allow me to have sex with her,to my suprise yesterday i forced her to tell me why she have refused to have sex with me, and she told me that she was raped and since then she find it very irritatin to have sex and she has this hatred for men , she wants to change it but still find it very hard,she likes me and want us to be together but what happend to her still worry her a lot that she cant losing up so easily,so dear pals what should i do to make her nightmares let her be??
Wow! easy does it,you jst need to keep on tryn to help her out Cos she is really in a bad sitiuation, advice her to meet a specialist on dis case, cos she really need help.....gud luck.
Posted: at 9-12-2009 12:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero