10 Tips for Approaching Single Women

Published On: December 25, 2009, 3:49 pm (10 years ago)
Author: kenny
What do you do when you see a woman you are attracted to? Do you run and hide? Do you use some canned line that you read on the Internet? Do you stand there in fear trying to think of the right thing to say? What is the right thing to do?

When approaching a woman, most guys make the mistake of thinking too much about what to say. They believe there's one magic line that will work in all situations. They rehearse this magic line, and when they deliver it, they hope the woman will become instantly attracted to them.

Unfortunately, rarely does this approach work -- because most of what you say is irrelevant. To catch a woman's attention, it is all about the confidence you display when approaching her.

Here are 10 surefire ways to intrigue her every time:
1. Observe something. Make a comment about something you observe in the environment. This is especially effective at the grocery store. For example, if she is ordering a turkey sandwich, ask her if the turkey is good here. Make your comment immediate to the situation and it will seem perfectly natural. No matter where you are, there is always something interesting to comment on.

2. Smile. This shows her that you are friendly and confident. A genuine smile not only feels good to you, but will put her at ease while creating openness in the interaction -- a requirement for building rapport.
3. Do not hesitate. If you hesitate in your approach, this tells her that you are not feeling confident -- an immediate turn-off. When you see her, walk over to her within a short period of time (the three-second rule). Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.

4. Positive body language. If you approach hunched over with your head down, you are sending negative information about yourself, which makes you dead in the water before you begin. Stand up straight, with shoulders back and chest out, and use a firm yet relaxed walk.

5. Not too fast. If you walk over too fast, you could likely trigger her internal alarm. A calm, casual approach is usually the best way to make her feel at ease with you.

6. Keep eye contact. Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching. When you use strong eye contact, she will feel more drawn to you. With practice, you can master this.

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Posted: 25-12-2009 03:49 PM | Newbie
shantybaby97 shantybaby97 (f) at 25-12-2009 05:23 PM
Posted: 25-12-2009 05:23 PM | Upcoming
Toks-E Toks-E (m) at 25-12-2009 06:14 PM
*passing nd practising my back wheelie @100 mph"

Posted: 25-12-2009 06:14 PM | Addicted Hero
gabon gabon (m) at 25-12-2009 06:48 PM
mr. lectural
Posted: 25-12-2009 06:48 PM | Upcoming
brightossy brightossy (m) at 25-12-2009 07:26 PM
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Posted: 25-12-2009 07:26 PM | Gistmaniac
OB3ICE OB3ICE (m) at 25-12-2009 08:06 PM
Too long I no fit read. When I see a girl I like, I walk up to her and toast her

Posted: 25-12-2009 08:06 PM | Gistmaniac
smile4ken smile4ken (m) at 27-12-2009 03:56 AM
sometimes,, its good to read from a professional point of view
Posted: 27-12-2009 03:56 AM | Newbie
Toks-E Toks-E (m) at 27-12-2009 03:58 AM
so u be professional for dat kain tin?

Posted: 27-12-2009 03:58 AM | Addicted Hero
myragonza myragonza (f) at 27-12-2009 06:42 AM
thats 10 tips to lure woman away

Posted: 27-12-2009 06:42 AM | Addicted Hero
bolakj bolakj (f) at 27-12-2009 07:41 AM
the worst  tip so far but u can be recommended for advice  and tips  on how to  approch a single woman ....
Posted: 27-12-2009 07:41 AM | Newbie
bexbone bexbone (m) at 27-12-2009 09:48 PM
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Posted: 27-12-2009 09:48 PM | Newbie