Pastor Chris' Wife, Anita Oyakhilome Talks About Divorce As She Reverts To Maiden Name

Published On: August 16, 2015, 1:03 pm
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In 2014, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and his estranged wife Anita broke the internet with the news of their divorce proceedings in London. The wife of the founder, Believers’ LoveWorld Incorporated, popularly known as Christ Embassy, filed for dissolution of the marriage on the grounds of “unreasonable behaviour”. The divorce case, with Suit No FD14D01650, was filed on April 9, 2014 at Divorce Section A, Central Family Court, First Avenue House, High Holborn, London, United Kingdom, on Anita’s behalf by Attwaters Jameson Hill Solicitors.Since then Anita Oyakhilome shut down from the public glare. And nothing has been heard about the divorce.

In a new development, for the first time Anita who has reverted to her maiden name Ebhodaghe has spoken through her blog on happenings that have changed her life lately, especially with reference to her marriage. Addressed as Pastor Anita, she is set to release a book titled 100 Ways To Cherish Yourself And Get Back On Your Feet.
 
Speaking on her challenges in the blog post, Anita said,”It is my desire to reach out and inspire you especially if you feel vulnerable and in need of a change. I hope to inspire you to believe in yourself no matter the circumstances. I want to help you recreate your life going forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as realising one’s uniqueness as I have done. Life is a precious however, your life can go through different seasons: winter, spring, summer or autumn. Life can hit you with financial loss, disappointments, death of a loved one, a broken relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused or being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but you can do something about it.
 
“Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy irrespective of your age, race, gender, background or financial situation. I urge you to appreciate the gift you are, you are precious and valuable. Never lose sight of who you are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your life. Let nothing stop you from growing every day. My story is not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the best. My journey was not in vain. I can now help others realise that their situation does not define them.

“In order to move on with life, I have come to realise that nothing is permanent. Your problem is not permanent; you can do something to change it by ensuring you do not allow the situation or the person make your life miserable. Pain is a fact of life, it is inevitable but suffering is optional. You can do something to change the pain by over looking every obstacle, take control as a force of nature to grow and expand. Do what is necessary now to use the gift God has given you to unleash your purpose.

 
“My message to all is simple: you have value therefore discover your potential. Do not allow anybody destroy you or rob you of living a joyful life. Your life is not wasted; you have just started a different phase of life. God will show you how to use your testimony to help others and restore their lives to exuberance. Please join me to encourage and inspire others. You have a story to tell, you can contribute and participate in the dialogues here. Let us all learn from one another’s experience and reach others with the gift of love and kindness. Share your experience by emailing me or making a comment. Celebrate your uniqueness because there is only one of you.”

 


-- Wazubia (m) at 16-08-2015 01:21PM
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this one pass me..o! no comment.
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-- Dondube (m) at 16-08-2015 01:27PM
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Second.  Time. Or.    Old.  Story?
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-- Ken1230 (m) at 16-08-2015 02:04PM
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What is she trying to say? Next.
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-- gogoman (m) at 16-08-2015 02:27PM
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All these woman are just useless chai.. so watin come be her gain now?
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-- SwtBabes (f) at 16-08-2015 02:28PM
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Uhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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-- PoliticxGuru (m) at 16-08-2015 02:31PM
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u guys should settle ur differences and swallow ur prides
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-- PaskyWosky (m) at 16-08-2015 02:45PM
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I been think say these guys don settle their matter...in any case I comment my reserve
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-- SOGaiya (m) at 16-08-2015 02:50PM
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Imagine dis long story no reconciliation
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-- dareper (m) at 16-08-2015 02:55PM
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Her biz, getting read for chelsea/man-city match. Man city, una go hear am today. Up blues!!!
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-- DJSNIPPER (m) at 16-08-2015 03:34PM
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Pastor Christ and wife are human beings.What they need now is prayers and not judgement.That belongs to God.Even those that are being judgemental now are also sinning against God.Jesus would rather treat them with love and seek to restore them.Remember he never condemned anyone yet he was perfect.People should not use this as an opportunity to caste stone on them, more so when we all are not without sin.May God forgive and be with them in this difficult time and protect them against the firey wiles of the enemy.Jesus prayed for Peter when the enemy was about to tempt him.I believe the Holy Spirit is also interceding for them.
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-- giftmurphy (f) at 16-08-2015 03:46PM
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nice inspirational blog post but we would really wanna know the unreasonable behaviour that warrant for divorce tho.
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-- giftmurphy (f) at 16-08-2015 03:47PM
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Quote from: DJSNIPPER on 16-08-2015 03:34PM
Pastor Christ and wife are human beings.What they need now is prayers and not judgement.That belongs to God.Even those that are being judgemental now are also sinning against God.Jesus would rather treat them with love and seek to restore them.Remember he never condemned anyone yet he was perfect.People should not use this as an opportunity to caste stone on them, more so when we all are not without sin.May God forgive and be with them in this difficult time and protect them against the firey wiles of the enemy.Jesus prayed for Peter when the enemy was about to tempt him.I believe the Holy Spirit is also interceding for them.
Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
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-- Wazubia (m) at 16-08-2015 04:40PM
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Quote from: DJSNIPPER on 16 Aug 15, 03:34 PM
Pastor Christ and wife are human beings.What they need now is prayers and not judgement.That belongs to God.Even those that are being judgemental now are also sinning against God.Jesus would rather treat them with love and seek to restore them.Remember he never condemned anyone yet he was perfect.People should not use this as an opportunity to caste stone on them, more so when we all are not without sin.May God forgive and be with them in this difficult time and protect them against the firey wiles of the enemy.Jesus prayed for Peter when the enemy was about to tempt him.I believe the Holy Spirit is also interceding for them.

DID YOU REALLY READ THE ARTICLE.
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-- giftmurphy (f) at 16-08-2015 05:02PM
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Quote from: Wazubia on 16-08-2015 04:40PM
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Quote from: DJSNIPPER on 16 Aug 15, 03:34 PM
Pastor Christ and wife are human beings.What they need now is prayers and not judgement.That belongs to God.Even those that are being judgemental now are also sinning against God.Jesus would rather treat them with love and seek to restore them.Remember he never condemned anyone yet he was perfect.People should not use this as an opportunity to caste stone on them, more so when we all are not without sin.May God forgive and be with them in this difficult time and protect them against the firey wiles of the enemy.Jesus prayed for Peter when the enemy was about to tempt him.I believe the Holy Spirit is also interceding for them.

DID YOU REALLY READ THE ARTICLE.
  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
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-- chealseafc (m) at 16-08-2015 06:14PM
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hope you are not encouraging our wives to file for divorce?.
anyway, i trust my own and knows what she can do.
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-- PaskyWosky (m) at 16-08-2015 07:15PM
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Quote from: dareper on 16-08-2015 02:55PM
Her biz, getting read for chelsea/man-city match. Man city, una go hear am today. Up blues!!!


how market?
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-- moralemike07 (m) at 16-08-2015 07:17PM
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Eya!
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-- Powerfulify (m) at 16-08-2015 08:17PM
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Like I always said that any couple that has issues, only two of them knows it and can  settle it by special grace of  God, but if I may ask, is there any sin that is unforgivable in the site of God?
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-- Powerfulify (m) at 16-08-2015 08:18PM
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Like I always said that any couple that has issues, only two of them knows it and can  settle it by special grace of  God, but if I may ask, is there any sin that is unforgivable in the site of God?
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