I am A Student On Scholarship Abroad, Yet My BF Wants Me To Buy N93k Shoe For Him. Pls Advise

Date: 21-09-2015 1:00 pm (6 years ago) | Author: kaygee
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- at 21-09-2015 01:00 PM (6 years ago)
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"My boyfriend said I should buy him Gucci Driver shoes worth N93,000 when I am coming home for Christmas break, said he will give me the money when I come back. This is going to be the first time we will meet since we started our fragile relationship 9 months ago. We knew a bit in University few years ago.

Severally, I have told my boyfriend prior to now that I cannot afford it. Last before now, he said "but you can start saving now and you will get the money before your arrival". So this time, to be the virtuous girlfriend, I had to go all out and check up the prices for this shoe.

I think he assumes that because I am a self-sponsored student abroad, I am Dantata's love child.
Anytime i debunk this claim, he goes like "haba".

Now, I am a student, furthering my studies. And he is working, he has worked for sometime too.


Okay, so I have some money that I am saving to do something later next year, when I will be graduating. But my fear is that he doesn't sound like he will give me back this money. Two, I have a problem with him wearing a 93k shoe in this harsh economy knowing that the money can be saved and invested in something of worth.

Do you think I should buy it??? "


Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:00 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- hackynoni111 at 21-09-2015 01:09 PM (6 years ago)
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Let me think i will comment later
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:09 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- suberah at 21-09-2015 01:15 PM (6 years ago)
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Don't buy it he will not give you the money back. And again is not responsible guy as I hear from what you wrote. What will he wear during your marriage? Don't buy it.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:15 PM (6 years ago) | Newbie
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- beautysharp at 21-09-2015 01:22 PM (6 years ago)
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Babe u will regret it if u try it. if he is serious let him send d money. As for me I no fit after all he's both ur husband, think twice
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:22 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ken1230 at 21-09-2015 01:41 PM (6 years ago)
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You are a stupid girl for even thinking about buying the shoe for a gigolo like him. You are in Malaysia and you want to fall mugu to the guy that you have not even met since you started this your so called relationship. Anyway, give me your number make I come see you now.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:41 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Machealex at 21-09-2015 01:51 PM (6 years ago)
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That guy is upto something,shoes of that much money l no see any seriousness for dis type of guy. Just don't buy it. If I may advice. He just want to use you.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:51 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ken1230 at 21-09-2015 01:58 PM (6 years ago)
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And the boy is direct by telling her not to make him what he is not as he is not her husband. Keep your money and you will see surprise about him when you travel to Nigeria as he is just a gigolo.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:58 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gogoman at 21-09-2015 01:59 PM (6 years ago)
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very good na so girls dey do as well, im glad it men turn now.. go buy am the shoe na LOL
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:59 PM (6 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Blessed75 at 21-09-2015 02:01 PM (6 years ago)
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let him go to hell
Posted: at 21-09-2015 02:01 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jereva at 21-09-2015 02:03 PM (6 years ago)
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Dude sounds like a psychological bully as well as a pathological liar. You should probably end the relationship, he doesn't sound like the type of guy who'd wanna associate yourself with. Money dey grow for tree??
Posted: at 21-09-2015 02:03 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ebukkkason at 21-09-2015 03:04 PM (6 years ago)
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Just tell him u can't afford it
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:04 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 21-09-2015 03:06 PM (6 years ago)
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This type of question you are asking shows your level of mentallity.  
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:06 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 21-09-2015 03:07 PM (6 years ago)
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This man has not proposed to you and you are fumbling like this.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:07 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kudoson at 21-09-2015 03:09 PM (6 years ago)
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This girl na idiot ooo, so if dey allow you, u will use ur hard end money to buy dat kind of shoe for just boyfrend u dnt kw wht his doing here in nigeria since u tralled, just luk at his tatement. Mind u he is just a boyfrend to u nt husband" my dear be wise" if his reasnable enough he will send d moni , by d way his working nd u are still a student
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:09 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- china4jessy at 21-09-2015 03:09 PM (6 years ago)
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This man has not proposed to you and you are fumbling like this.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:09 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- livingstone80 at 21-09-2015 03:18 PM (6 years ago)
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Foolish question, no,buy it even buy different color
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:18 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- demo4u at 21-09-2015 03:23 PM (6 years ago)
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Don't worry so far you are in China you can go to train station in guangzhou and buy him the lowest grade and he can't know just to keep the relationship intact.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:23 PM (6 years ago) | Newbie
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- rara4romSA at 21-09-2015 03:25 PM (6 years ago)
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don't buy anything yahoo boys full of shit
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:25 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- china4jessy at 21-09-2015 03:26 PM (6 years ago)
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Are you a fool?    How can a student be thinking of buying such an expensive shoe for someone that is not your fiance not to talk  of  husband?
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:26 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 21-09-2015 03:36 PM (6 years ago)
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don't buy anything yahoo boys full of sh*t

Let them sap her so that she will learn
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:36 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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