Relationship Talk: Not Having S*x Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? (Page 3)

Date: 05-10-2015 3:45 pm (8 years ago) | Author: Bayo Nelson
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 07:15 AM (8 years ago)
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Any marriage without sincerity is bound to crumble.  The man lied to the girl by not telling her all about him, only this has disqualified him as a believer.
Posted: at 6-10-2015 07:15 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cletus1992 at 6-10-2015 07:21 AM (8 years ago)
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No matter how we want to twist it. Sex is worth waiting for after wedding. Though being humans we might falter but that doesn't justify that it should happen before wedding. Truth be told, apart from pleasure, sex is a procreative event where children are the results and they are meant and also have the right to a father and mother within the context of a family
Posted: at 6-10-2015 07:21 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 07:33 AM (8 years ago)
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You can never every thing about  life except God who creates and recreates according to His wishes.  Life is a mystery
Posted: at 6-10-2015 07:33 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 07:38 AM (8 years ago)
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Had it been you want to know all before marriage, God might hide many things from you and you see yourself entering into pit you can never out from except by the help of God. 
Posted: at 6-10-2015 07:38 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 07:49 AM (8 years ago)
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The lady should have walked out of the marriage because it  has faulty foundation (LIE).     The man does not worth living with her because he is a deceit
Posted: at 6-10-2015 07:49 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 07:59 AM (8 years ago)
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There is a case at hand now, a friend of mind got married to a man after having all you call sex before marriage.  The husband do have erection, he can sex her the way she wants  but the problem now is that NO SPERM COMES OUT OF THE MAN'S GENITAL  and this girl did not notice it before marriage.   So it is better to be on the Lord"s side in anythng concerning marriage and be sincere to your partner.
Posted: at 6-10-2015 07:59 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xjiggy at 6-10-2015 08:17 AM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Marson on  5-10-2015 03:58 PM
My take is .... We should draw the line between A WEDDING CEREMONY and MARRIAGE we sometimes confuse both words
 
and in our ignorance, we are actually advocating SEX AFTER A WEDDING CEREMONY .... As being right

marriage means the willful joyful harmony that exists among two individuals of different sex  that results in an upward spiritual and inner striving and enoblement

the WEDDING BEING AN EARTHLY SOCIAL ACTIVITY

but MARRIAGE HAPPENS BEFORE THE WEDDING ... SOMETIMES AFTER ... MOST TIMES NEVER ... Some people are wedded and not MARRIED  
OGA, u fit define am as u like but if u Neva pay dowry, u neva marry. If u dey warehouse person pickin u better desist from it bcos the day wey dem go put gutless for your shoulder, na naijapals here we go read am
Posted: at 6-10-2015 08:17 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xjiggy at 6-10-2015 08:18 AM (8 years ago)
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Bible say if u no fit hold body do what is right, marry. Shekena
Posted: at 6-10-2015 08:18 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 09:38 AM (8 years ago)
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There is a case at hand now, a friend of mind got married to a man after having all you call sex before marriage.  The husband do have erection, he can sex her the way she wants  but the problem now is that NO SPERM COMES OUT OF THE MAN'S GENITAL  and this girl did not notice it before marriage.   So it is better to be on the Lord"s side in anythng concerning marriage and be sincere to your partner.
Posted: at 6-10-2015 09:38 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 09:40 AM (8 years ago)
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So better  abstain from it, God is in charge
Posted: at 6-10-2015 09:40 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 09:48 AM (8 years ago)
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You shouldn't defile your marital bed before the actual marriage will take place.  That is how God made it.
Posted: at 6-10-2015 09:48 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 09:59 AM (8 years ago)
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The lady made a mistake by not opening to her family about her ugly experience with her Pastor husband. They may have proferred solution that would have prevented her situation now.
Posted: at 6-10-2015 09:59 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 10:02 AM (8 years ago)
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They also suppose to go for medical check up before tying up the knot.  The Doctors may have found this segxwal problem of the man
Posted: at 6-10-2015 10:02 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- china4jessy at 6-10-2015 10:05 AM (8 years ago)
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I prefer doing what God wants than what the world want.  He knows everything and He will be able to save me in time of trouble. Afterall marriage is a package, You cannot know what is inside until you open it.
Posted: at 6-10-2015 10:05 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HoneyGold at 6-10-2015 12:26 PM (8 years ago)
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Its a sin to engage in d act before marriage but its not a sin to talk abt it. Ask ur man. Have u ever been erect. Can u perform. Do u ever feel horny. R easily tempted wen u see me? Talk abt everything talkable cos a sin is a sin. Nothing will make a sin less of a sin.
Posted: at 6-10-2015 12:26 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dickieponga at 6-10-2015 05:30 PM (8 years ago)
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"I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying."....
Go snatch d man na...
Posted: at 6-10-2015 05:30 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- dickieponga at 6-10-2015 05:32 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: maha-raja on  5-10-2015 04:31 PM
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of the country problem yet they don't want
us to have BIAFRA,am greater than you all
bc THE OIL THAT is feeding the north and
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a northerner wants to be the minister of
petroleum found in east to steal money to
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in north Hausa Fulani's would go,I hate
Britain for making me share my nationality
with Yoruba and Hausa muhamed Islam
terrorist parasites depending on our crude oil,Yoruba's and Hausa fulanis came to Igbo land and killed my forefathers that
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that are about to die for what we believe in we hail you oh
BIAFRA

So wetin u wan do about am...?
Posted: at 6-10-2015 05:32 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- dickieponga at 6-10-2015 05:35 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: china4jessy on  6-10-2015 09:48 AM
You shouldn't defile your marital bed before the actual marriage will take place.  That is how God made it.
Where in d bible does it say no sex b4 marriage...?
Posted: at 6-10-2015 05:35 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- dickieponga at 6-10-2015 05:36 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: collins calculus on  6-10-2015 06:00 AM
i am advising young people to zip up, just like we did when we were young
Wen u were young na ashy u dey poke so dem no need ur advice...Dat's double standards...
Posted: at 6-10-2015 05:36 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- dickieponga at 6-10-2015 05:38 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: china4jessy on  6-10-2015 06:57 AM
I am not in support of having sex before marriage because I am a strong believer  in God

So r u married now, just asking..?
Posted: at 6-10-2015 05:38 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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