How I Got Sophie Momodu Pregnant By Mistake - Davido Writes Lengthy Open Letter (READ) (Page 2)

Firstly Davido u are still at fault no matter wat. Why not use condom to avoid all dis. U cause everything for ur self. I don't understand something, is it dat musicians in fact all celebrities don't use protection or wat. They are over populating dis country. Anyway bak to d matter. Sophie u are a disgrace to womanhood. All those money they are giving is enough to start a nice business but instead u squander it and still demand more. U shld be ashamed of ur self waiting on a boy who can be ur kid BRODA. U have killed so many opportunity u are suppose to have jt cause if dis scandal. Too bad

Posted: at 3-01-2016 07:13 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Well, for those who are too lazy to read, here are the major points Davido made in his letter:

1. When the second trimester of Sophia’s pregnancy was closing, she tortuously announced to me that she was in the family way. My mind was bemused, and so was my soul confused. But I quickly realized that nothing more could be done to alter my status as a father-to-be.

1. I knew that I was not ready to be a dad. Still, I adjusted myself to the realities of my new situation and the consequences of my past personal indiscretions.
2. I also reasoned that my blunder is not enough pretext to make me a husband. I was just 21. And so I decided to be a responsible dad without being husband to the mother of my baby.
3. I never was in love with Sophia neither was marriage ever in the offing.
4. Without knowing for sure that I was the real dad of the baby, I entrusted Sophia to the services of a private hospital for both pre-natal and post-natal medical cares. An apartment at Lekki was leased for 2 years, and paid for by me.
5. No family member of Sophia including Uncle Dele Momodu rose to help nor guide Sophia
6. I own my property at Lekki and had allowed Sophia to stay in the house because she claimed that she knew nobody in Lagos and that her father was deceased whilst her mother was resident in Abuja.

1. For real, Sophia was a drifter without a dime, education nor career.

1. My compassion, ignorance, naivety and poor judgment had combined to make me a victim to a much older lady with super cunning sense that was mixed with a vicious and diabolical nature.
2. All along, I have only been generous with Sophia without knowing for sure I was the father to the baby she was carrying.

1. On May 14, 2015, Sophia delivered her baby named Imade
2. It was after Sophia had delivered the baby that DNA testing medically confirmed that I was indeed the biological father of our child named Imade.
   13. Once this status was obtained, Sophia started to apply maximum financial demands on me. I bought all the baby things and fully furnished her apartment. Sophia knew well how to spend money and yet contributed zero to the vast expenses that I incurred. None in her family contributed even a fake coin to the cost of having Imade.
3. Throughout the many months that Sophia stayed at my house when she claimed she has no family in Lagos, Uncle Dele Momodu and his bossy wife never showed up at my house to say hello to either of us.
4. Uncle Dele Momodu never liked, and still does not like Sophia. He is now just grandstanding because Sophia had a baby for a fairly prominent family and famous Davido.
5. Mrs Momodu certainly not a good person. She put time and energy to prevent my daughter and I, the real father of Imade, from travelling aboard to keep an appointment with the American Hospital, Dubai.

1. At the point of dying in November, 2015 Imade had been rushed to this medical facility in Dubai, where she received helpful and adequate treatment, and was duly returned to Nigeria, without any side excursions.
2. Sophia ain’t a member of our family, period.
3. Surely, Sophia was not with Imade when she first visited Dubai, and yet Imade was promptly returned to Nigeria. And no one said Sophia cannot come to Dubai except that I declared that I don’t want the trip to seem like a spousal get-away.

20, Sophia ain’t my wife and I refuse to let any action conspire to make us look like a couple.

1. She seemed unable or unwilling to pay her way to Dubai. Also, her boastful Uncle, alas, refused to volunteer to pay her way to Dubai.
2. I now say it loud and clear, should my daughter die, this strange couple (Uncle Dele Momodu and his wife) are mainly responsible.

Custody, Lifestyle and Imade’s Loss of Wellness

1. In May, the same month Imade was born, Sophia settled in her fancy apartment for which I paid a hefty bill for a 2 year lease. Her baby was healthy. And she seemed happy. I would take care of all the financial needs of Imade and still pay Sophia a living allowance of 300,000 Naira plus utility bills.
2. Within a matter of weeks, Sophia missing and lusting for the streets of Lagos, especially the glitzy night life.

1. She often left Imade home for clubbing, binge drinking and a life of debauchery and deviant living. She would sleep all day and party all night. When awake, she was addicted to the telephone and cannabis.
2. Imade was in her custody for 2 straight months, unchallenged and uninterrupted, until the baby took badly and severely ill in July.
3. Imade cried, ceaselessly, for 48 hours. She was rushed to the hospital where her condition confounded medical experts. Several tests were conducted on her and later on the mother.
4. Medical reports, proved that Sophia’s blood was polluted to the maximum level with cannabis and she had by the process of Bosom  feeding infected her child with complicated medical conditions associated with the use of alcohol and especially cannabis.
5. The trouble spot for Imade was her lungs. She had difficulty breathing largely because of the contaminated Bosom  milk and the severity of the ‘Second Smoke’ of marijuana inhaled by the poor child.

6. Voluntarily, Sophia, in the attempt to avoid the handing over of the baby to the children welfare authority, agreed to a compromise position that she would transfer Imade to the Adeleke family until the cannabis in the systems of both mum and daughter was completely out and comprehensively cleaned out.
7. Medical expert also indicated that the full damage to Imade’s person could not be ascertained right away and that her mental state now or in d future could not be determined nor predicted until perhaps when she would have attained adulthood. This was why and how Imade was transferred to the custody of the Adeleke family.
8. Soonest, Sophia began to make vigorous demands for the brand new car promised to her by me in May. But I have since had a change of mind on this issue because, of Sophia’s night crawling activities and reckless partying at night clubs.
9. Her clubbing rendezvous escalated. In fact, she had gone to a club on Victoria Island and spent 250,000 Naira in one night. Unashamedly, she told the management of the club to slap ‘Davido’ with the bill. I have refused to pay but till date.
10. Meanwhile, Imade was increasingly worse off in wellness and she had to be flown to the American hospital in Dubai. I wrote a letter of release authorizing my sister to travel to Dubai with Imade. The hospital saved Imade who was returned to Nigeria with a medical equipment that had to be used daily to enable Imade to gain restful sleep and balanced respiratory rhythm.
11. If Imade had not gone to Dubai, it is fair to say that she may not be alive today.
12. The claim has been made that the aborted trip to Dubia was to take Imade to America. This is not true.
13. The great dynamics of lying is that the liar is the first to know that he has told a lie, and the lies told would certainly demolish his integrity and the peace of his soul. Uncle Dele Momodu, beware!

14. So poor in understanding is the cerebral capacity of your cousin or niece that she cannot even operate the equipment that stabilizes her child’s lungs despite rigorous training offered to her
15. I am 23. I ain’t ready for marriage or even fatherhood. But I have accepted my responsibilities as my father raised me to understand life and deal with all its challenges.
16. The only reason why some of us are dancing naked in the market place today is because Sophia’s request to go to Dubai on my ticket was declined. She is demanding for her new car and a raise of her allowance to one million naira per month.
17. From December 23-28, Sophia lived at my father’s Lekki residence in peace except for the first one hour when a medication was misapplied by her and Imade speedily vomited for a fearfully long time.

18. Sophia did not know how to even bathe her own baby. She brought a friend to stay with her in a 3-bedroom flat with a resident professional nurse and nanny.
19. On December 29, less than 24hours of leaving my father’s house, Sophia was at the airport in the company of her uncle and his wife with malice aforethought and the aim to do maximum damage that would obstruct her child from traveling aboard to receive necessary and needful medical care.
20. I offered to buy her a car and suggested a Toyota brand or Hyundai. She lost her cool and told me off. She wanted a fancy jeep and preferably, a Mercedes Benz Jeep. I laughed because she just wanted to be a Lagos Big Girl for nothing. She hardly can cope with the cheapest car much less the ruinous cost of maintaining a Mercedes Benz vehicle.
21. In December she received 500,000 naira as her allowance without doing anything for Imade. Life is not a bed of roses. Neither have I ever promised Sophia a rose garden. Her spontaneous motions of delusions utterly baffle me!

22. Sophia also claimed that she hasn’t seen her daughter in 5 months This cannot be true. Sophie spent every Sunday with her baby at my father’s house since July 2015 when she voluntarily transferred Imade to the Adeleke family after the cannabis incidence.
23. Uncle Dele Momodu, by doing a thing so unlawful over a domestic mater between a 23-year-old boy and your niece is a bothersome slight that proved your niece must have learnt her sleazy ways from your own accomplished slap-happy conduct.
24. Your recordings cannot alter the fact that I am ‘Davido’ father of Imade and it cannot force me to be the husband of your cousin.

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Posted: at 3-01-2016 08:49 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Make up for the sake of the innocent baby.

Posted: at 4-01-2016 07:51 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Davido is a foolish fool

Posted: at 4-01-2016 02:29 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Davido talk too much like a kid i even read some words he poured out the last time saying that he give his baby mama 300k and blar blar blar all that is normal okay my guy some guys do more that you have done for your baby am really getting ashamed of your too much talking

Posted: at 4-01-2016 04:21 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming

Davido, you are a foolish fool

Posted: at 7-01-2016 09:11 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hmmmmm,still on this topic? I
never end or abi the matter never
close?Davido! Davido!!
Davido!!!,how many times wen I
don call you? Stop this nonsense
abi madness,you said that you love your daughter but you don't
love the mother of your daughter
which means you wish her
dead&you will take your
daughter,Davido,a boy of 21 or
23yrs no be small boy,just stop all this nonsense you are
writing&talking,reconcile with the
mother of your daughter,all she
needs is your love&attention,the
time wey you de phyuk her wasn't
there,na now you no say the woman is older than you&she no
go school,my kidbroda is 21yrs old
with a wife(uganda)and son,they
both live in india.(New delhi)

Posted: at 10-01-2016 08:36 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Davido,a boy of 21 or 23yrs no be small boy,just stop all this nonsense you are writing&talking,reconcile with the mother of your daughter,all she needs is your love&attention,the time wey you de phyuk her wasn't there,na now you no say the woman is older than you&she no go school,my kidbroda is 21yrs old with a wife(uganda)and son,they both live in india.(New delhi)

Posted: at 25-01-2016 03:35 AM (8 years ago) | Hero

Hmmmm.... Davido,  I just read ur
open letter. Honestly, I felt sad and
pity the innocent child Imade for d
secondhand cannabis which u
claimed has affected her health. If
true, this could have been prevented cuz u knew all along
that Sophie was smoking canabis.
Ur doctors were absolutely right! U
never can tell how the Cannabis
will impact on Imade's wholistic
health in the future. But I pray she will be perfectly alright. I pray everything goes well 4 her.
I'm sure u know if this happened in
some countries, Sophie will not
have access to that girl again! With
ur evidence, she has lost d right to
care for d vulnerable child. My heart bleeds for u Imade that u
have to go tru all this. I couldn't
stop d tears rolling down my
cheeks upon sighting d evidence. I
pray she will recovers from d
breathing issues especially when her lungs are fully developed. Davido I can understand ur
situation and that of ur family as
well. It's a pity u have dragged
other family members into this
mess. Again this could be
prevented if u were vigilant and careful enough. Ti omode ba pa
eku a da ję, sugbon to ba pa aro
gidigba, o ma gbe wa sile........ This is a lesson for other men out
there. Davido, I hope u have learnt from
ur mistakes. This is a very
sensitive issue and I truly
empathise with those who are
honestly  trying to protect the little
angel and Imade herself. God will see u through and stand
by u. I'm glad u are doing
everything within ur capacity to act
in Imade's best interest. That's d
most important thing right now.
That girl must neva be subjected to any form of abuse. God will
protect and grant her good health.
God will continue to bless u so u
can give Imade and ur potential
family the best they desire in life

Posted: at 26-01-2016 06:17 PM (8 years ago) | Hero