My Uncle Had Sex With Me When I Was 16, Now I Can't Control The Urge - 26-Yrs Lady Reveals

Published On: March 7, 2016, 4:02 pm (4 years ago)
Author: CLARA JANCITA
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Read the touching story of the Nigerian youth:
 
I am not going to beat about the bush in narrating what started when I was just 12 years old.

My dad has an only brother who my siblings and I looked up to. He was such a nice uncle who always brought treats for us anytime he came visiting. He was very strict nonetheless, so we were sure never to cross our boundaries with him.

Whenever mum and dad had somewhere to go together, rather than leaving us alone, Uncle Junior was always asked to come baby sit us. I am the oldest of all the kids. One day, while mum and dad were away, Uncle made sure we all went to bed early. While I was sleeping, Uncle Junior came to the room, woke me up and took me to the living room. The TV was on, and porn was showing. My uncle made me watch and of course, I became wet.
 
He touched my budding Bosom s. He didn’t penetrate me that night but he touched and aroused me sexually. I was too scared and confused to tell my parents about the awkward experience.

His act of romantically touching of body parts continued anytime Uncle Junior got the chance to. He would touch me whenever he had the opportunity and he was lucky never to get caught. He finally got his way to have s*x with me when I was 16. Yes, my father’s precious brother sexually abused me and my parents never got to find out.

I got into University and went out of control. My sexual urge being terrible and totally out of control. I virtually slept with anything in trousers and couldn't get enough. I got into a lot of trouble and kept late nights which led to me failing my exams. I was labelled a rebel as I became the bad egg. I ve been so angry with my wayward nature which bores down to my quick exposure to s*x.
 
I’m 26 years old now and still feel the pains of bad habits I can't recover from while my uncle went off to get married. I want to put everything behind me but to do that, I think I need to confront my uncle and tell my dad. I know this could destroy their relationship for ever and the blame would be all on me. So I ask, should I tell my dad or not?
I am at the crossroads currently and I need to get out of this darkness.



Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:02 PM | Hero
Confusing,,
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:23 PM | Newbie
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Imexg Imexg (m)
I am facing the same thing of sexual urge every second and minute that i can't control again but i wasn't molested at early stage. I think its continous exposure to porn videos. Its wel
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:24 PM | Newbie
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I see..Wow...my dear u need deliverance...go to any pastor that is really ordained by God to pray 4 uuu..am rilli sure dat after d deliverance u wil become a new creature in Christ...issokay
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:25 PM | Gistmaniac
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Dear forget the past and move on your life don't destroy people families and relationship after all he didn't rape for first place
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:29 PM | Newbie
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Dear forget the past and move on your life don't destroy people families and relationship after all he didn't rape you for the first place
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:31 PM | Newbie
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Hmmmm,call me so dat we go go met tb joshua for serious deliverance.
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:35 PM | Hero
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i will blame you not your uncle!!!
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:42 PM | Addicted Hero
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really can't tell
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:45 PM | Gistmaniac
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You really need serious deliverance. Find a true man of God and confess your sins. Then you go with him and meet your parents,and tell them
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 04:49 PM | Gistmaniac
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About time u told ur parents and as for u going off the rails, well that's ur fault don't blame anyone for that...
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 05:01 PM | Hero
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sorry eh
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 05:10 PM | Hero
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U should av urself to blame not ur uncle. U should av told ur parent his first attempt with but now, its late already. I pray and hope u get deliverance.
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 05:12 PM | Gistmaniac
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u shud have walk away when he just started..telling ur dad now is too late..he didnt force u, u did what u did willingly..dont break dat family of yours bcos this is ur fault.
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 05:28 PM | Upcoming
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U are a stupid girl. Wen u were 12 and ur uncle did dat to u, if u were a good child u shld have told ur dad wat his younger brother is up to wit u. How can u be arouse at dat age if sex was not in ur thot at 13 already. Now u want to reveal wat I feel shld be forgotten and move on. If u don't want it even at 16 wen he finally penetrate u, u would have resist him and tell ur dad then.
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 05:31 PM | Addicted Hero
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sorry eh
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 05:44 PM | Hero
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If what is published could be true, my comment is YOU ARE VERY SILLY. Not because you had the sex but to brave it and discuss it here. You are sick in your brain.
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 05:49 PM | Newbie
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Confront your Uncle who is the architect of your derailing life, watch his reaction if he is remorseful enough, and willing to assist in raising your life, you need not tell your dad. You should be sure enough not to create any suspicion that will make your uncle suspect you are still bent on letting dad know what really happened, it could be dangerous.
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 05:55 PM | Gistmaniac
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U liked it dat was y u allowed it in d 1st place.buh d damage has already been don n blamin who z 2 b blamed z nt gonna solve d issue.confront ur uncle n let him no wah he did 2 u z wrong n den mov on wit ur life
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 06:23 PM | Newbie
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First, determine within yourself to stop it. Avoid friends that make you engage in such acts. Also avoid reading erotic novels, magazines, stories and watching erotic film. Then take it to God in prayer. I believe this will work for you trust me.
Posted: (4 years ago) on 7-03-2016 06:27 PM | Gistmaniac
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