Two months on and two months off is most familiar in marriages where the husband is an offshore worker and also in some relationship...So why is two months and two months off found in some relationships and in most marriages.Can you cope with such life?
Posted: at 18-01-2010 10:46 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 18-01-2010 10:53 AM (15 years ago) (m)
This pattern in a relationship mostly affect the ladies and it may encourage her to cheat on her husband when he is away!!! I can't even adopt 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off talk less of 2 months;So i will advice the men who does this to be considerate becos their wives will be lonely and may do anything drastic...
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Posted: at 18-01-2010 10:53 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 18-01-2010 11:01 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: MrDon on 18-01-2010 10:50 AM
vague post, more clarity needed poster
Mr Don don't make me laugh,you adopt this system and you are pretending as if you don't know what i'm saying...OK I mean why does 2 months on(i.e SEX),and 2 months off(i.e SEX) exist in marriages and also in some relationship. I gave example that it is found most in marriages where the husband is an off shore worker...Are you clear Mr. Don Simon
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Posted: at 18-01-2010 11:01 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
dirtykid at 18-01-2010 08:38 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 18-01-2010 10:46 AM
Two months on and two months off is most familiar in marriages where the husband is an offshore worker and also in some relationship...So why is two months and two months off found in some relationships and in most marriages.Can you cope with such life?
There is nothing wrong abt that.. when it comes to Marriage, alot of sacrifices are to be made.. 2ndly i believe b4 such marriage will take place, both parties would have known that is how it will be. becos of the nature of the man/ woan job. so if is not ok by anyone, why going into the marriage in the first place.
Personal i dont see anything wrong abt that... as long as we love each other. is even good atimes to give relationship little gap, it makes it more stronger and sweet to last longer.
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Posted: at 18-01-2010 08:38 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 18-01-2010 08:49 PM (15 years ago) (m)
I quite agree with you but in the case where they are both married be4 they start experiencing this what will be ur advice...becos from my own perspection CHEATING will come to stay due to loneliness
Posted: at 18-01-2010 08:49 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
dirtykid at 18-01-2010 10:10 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 18-01-2010 08:49 PM
I quite agree with you but in the case where they are both married be4 they start experiencing this what will be ur advice...becos from my own perspection CHEATING will come to stay due to loneliness
Well in that case, is still where understanding and trust in the relationship they have will have to act stronger and prove their Love for each other. becos the distance came in by some reasons that are avoidable.. both patner should understand and be supportive to each other to overcome anything that can come btw them.
In terms of Cheat, is in nature of all human to do this, but i still dont see it coming in so easily, as long as they Love themselves all those time they have been together b4 the urgent distance came calling. they should often be in touch via phones calls, sms, online chats, thanks to modern communication of computers and webcams. there are lots of ways to close up that gap for that 2months of been offshore and maintain their love in a normal way. thats my own view abt that.
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Posted: at 18-01-2010 10:10 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
dirtykid at 19-01-2010 04:27 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: vivian07 on 19-01-2010 04:03 PM
@ topic, i cant cope with such...besides, such marriages, r/s, are not healthy..cos the man or the woman, will be tempted to cheat..
Then where is the Love... they claim to have for each other? as long as the man/woman is alive somewhere and also reachable... why cant there be patience and scrifice to wait for that person? or are they not part of Love and care we always preach and sing like a song in every relationship. here comes the time to show one in real
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 19-01-2010 04:27 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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