how long is adviceable to date a guy/girl be4 marriage (Page 6)

Date: 18-01-2010 2:17 pm (12 years ago) | Author: mercy ilori
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- styles2009 at 24-07-2010 06:27 PM (12 years ago)
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As long as you need, Marriage is not easy task

Posted: at 24-07-2010 06:27 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Salahud at 26-07-2010 10:11 AM (12 years ago)
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as marriage is a life time contract, I think the best thing to do is to take time to study each other and find out how compatible you are otherwise you will regret any hasty decision you make
Posted: at 26-07-2010 10:11 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- tantabanana at 26-07-2010 04:15 PM (12 years ago)
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the importance is not how long but how well u know each other.
Posted: at 26-07-2010 04:15 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Lgee at 27-07-2010 09:23 PM (12 years ago)
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humans are dynamic, so u can have a lifetime courtship there's no time i fink one year is ok.
or a year and half highest should be 2years.
Kiss
Posted: at 27-07-2010 09:23 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- mantoney at 28-07-2010 11:00 AM (12 years ago)
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for me think  2yrs is enough
Posted: at 28-07-2010 11:00 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bestlove53 at 29-07-2010 10:54 AM (12 years ago)
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just has u feel confortable 2 live ur life wit d person
Posted: at 29-07-2010 10:54 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- EYAADAH at 29-07-2010 11:17 PM (12 years ago)
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The ideal length of time for Courtship is minimally six month and maximally nine months this would enable both parties to have enough time to know and understand each other too well also to decide not to continue should any reason arises.
Posted: at 29-07-2010 11:17 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- onyin at 30-07-2010 12:09 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 17-07-2010 06:28 PM
Just as long as you feel comfortable enough to trust the person with your life
Tht's true.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 12:09 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- typicalman84 at 30-07-2010 12:43 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 18-07-2010 03:38 PM
Not all relationships lead 2 marriage i think it's best 4 those that have married or felt 2 marry a partner b4 should answer.


The level of maturity and responsibility play a big role when it come to marriage. If the two people involved are mature enough and know what they want out of life and marriage, I do not think it matters how long they've know each other. IF it is someone looking for too many qualities in a partner, then I think their life is, to break it down to the simplest definition, SCREWED UP. marriage is not as hard as people make it seem. It's just that we as humans are very selfish and would want everything done our way, if not, we see ourselves saying bad tings about the other person and writing down a huge list of behaviors you do not like in your partner.. by the way when you think your list is filled up enough, that's when you leave and jump onto the arms of another man or woman thinking we know what we are doing when Technically, we are being promiscuous.  I only knew my wife for 2 months before we got married. We have been married for a year and half now and no major problems ( I said no major problem because I do not claim to have a perfect marriage. besides all couples have their ups and downs... you just have to know how to get out of the situation and resolve it amicably with a sense of maturity).

Posted: at 30-07-2010 12:43 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- charsako at 31-07-2010 12:06 AM (12 years ago)
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For as long as both are confortable with each other for such adventure. Of course, the outcome of the dating will determine whether they are going to be married to each other or not. Dating does not mean MUST marry. It is a research method. Such a method will be fruitful  and meaningful with a valid result from 3years and above.
Posted: at 31-07-2010 12:06 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- qunodinga at 31-07-2010 10:52 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: tantabanana on 26-07-2010 04:15 PM
the importance is not how long but how well u know each other.

 Roll Eyes
Posted: at 31-07-2010 10:52 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- meczytimber at 31-07-2010 12:03 PM (12 years ago)
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like two to three yrs so u can know each other very well.
am serious

Posted: at 31-07-2010 12:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tsin at 31-07-2010 06:49 PM (12 years ago)
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doesnt av a particular tim ooh

Posted: at 31-07-2010 06:49 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Bismack at 1-08-2010 02:47 AM (12 years ago)
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Till u get tired,dump am find anoda gurl
Posted: at 1-08-2010 02:47 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- XLady at 2-08-2010 08:40 AM (12 years ago)
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Dats so individual!I know a girl she get married after 4 weeks datin a man n know other one she date her man four years n says dats wrong time 4 marriage
Posted: at 2-08-2010 08:40 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Wasdick at 2-08-2010 09:58 AM (12 years ago)
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I need to study whom am going to spent my life with, G6d be with us. [email protected] far? Pls i need ur help on how to upload my pix. Reply me pls.
Posted: at 2-08-2010 09:58 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- oyindabty at 2-08-2010 12:15 PM (12 years ago)
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wht about after like 2years you find out that you are not meant for each other what will you do?
Posted: at 2-08-2010 12:15 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chela at 11-08-2010 06:28 PM (12 years ago)
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atimes marriage without courtship works more dan d one with courtship.i am a witness.marriage depends on luck.
Posted: at 11-08-2010 06:28 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- JAZZLYNN at 20-08-2010 02:47 AM (11 years ago)
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I think 3yrs is enough time 2 date b4 marriage.
Posted: at 20-08-2010 02:47 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- oyindabty at 24-08-2010 10:55 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: JAZZLYNN on 20-08-2010 02:47 AM
I think 3yrs is enough time 2 date b4 marriage.


haa three years is that not too much
Posted: at 24-08-2010 10:55 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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