black and white, cool combination, but when it comes to paper love its soo bad"

Date: 28-01-2010 10:56 am (14 years ago) | Author: susa okeke
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- at 28-01-2010 10:56 AM (14 years ago)
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my husband is nigerian am austrian but he really really loves me so much, he cares for me and our kids so much, while i know white gurls that r not happy at all coz their man run away after they got their documents,,, thanks to God... we r a happy family"!!

Posted: at 28-01-2010 10:56 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- Dguy at 28-01-2010 12:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Good to hear that...

Real African men dont run after girls (white or any color) for reasons other than true love.... but hey, men will always be men at times

Posted: at 28-01-2010 12:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 28-01-2010 03:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: susa_okeke on 28-01-2010 10:56 AM
my husband is nigerian am austrian but he really really loves me so much, he cares for me and our kids so much, while i know white gurls that r not happy at all coz their man run away after they got their documents,,, thanks to God... we r a happy family"!!

Thats good one to hear poster, im glad to read one truth here all this while... I hope those who have negative thoughts abt 9ijaa men will read and learn from u how to love ur man well and live in peace.

Most people that complain in such relationship are the one causing the men to run away, some are in the relationship yet, they dont have respect for the man becos some of them think the man is from poor africa, why would he be the one telling her what to do... while some already like listening to gossip around instead of concetrating to build a good relationship with their man.

Real 9ijaa man, love and care alot for his lady, no matter ur culture, colour or anything.

Posted: at 28-01-2010 03:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- DESMOCOOL at 28-01-2010 08:23 PM (14 years ago)
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 HAPPY 4 U.
Posted: at 28-01-2010 08:23 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 28-01-2010 08:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: susa_okeke on 28-01-2010 10:56 AM
my husband is nigerian am austrian but he really really loves me so much, he cares for me and our kids so much, while i know white gurls that r not happy at all coz their man run away after they got their documents,,, thanks to God... we r a happy family"!!
nice to hear

Posted: at 28-01-2010 08:29 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- GlamourPuss at 28-01-2010 09:17 PM (14 years ago)
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lucky u ar..ma guy is also nigerian but goshh is like he is wit me nt cuz of any love Sad(( most of em lie so much
Posted: at 28-01-2010 09:17 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Beauti4 at 4-02-2010 09:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: susa_okeke on 28-01-2010 10:56 AM
my husband is nigerian am austrian but he really really loves me so much, he cares for me and our kids so much, while i know white gurls that r not happy at all coz their man run away after they got their documents,,, thanks to God... we r a happy family"!!

u must have respect him and not use the fact that he wanted u to help him get document to torment him. Once u do that he will spend the rest his life with u. trust me, i have seen how all these American gurls treated those men who r in needs of document, if she was workin immediately she got married, she will quick the job, and this man will b  workin 24/7, he wont have his own privacy, he cant even go to party with friends, if she is not coming. so encourage those gurls to b respectful cos u they will reap wat they sow.
Posted: at 4-02-2010 09:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- prince316 at 4-02-2010 09:17 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: susa_okeke on 28-01-2010 10:56 AM
my husband is nigerian am austrian but he really really loves me so much, he cares for me and our kids so much, while i know white gurls that r not happy at all coz their man run away after they got their documents,,, thanks to God... we r a happy family"!!
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tell ur friends to change their manners
Posted: at 4-02-2010 09:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- prince316 at 4-02-2010 09:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: susa_okeke on 28-01-2010 10:56 AM
my husband is nigerian am austrian but he really really loves me so much, he cares for me and our kids so much, while i know white gurls that r not happy at all coz their man run away after they got their documents,,, thanks to God... we r a happy family"!!

tell ur friends to change their manners
Posted: at 4-02-2010 09:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 5-02-2010 12:11 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: susa_okeke on 28-01-2010 10:56 AM
my husband is nigerian am austrian but he really really loves me so much, he cares for me and our kids so much, while i know white gurls that r not happy at all coz their man run away after they got their documents,,, thanks to God... we r a happy family"!!

And how long has this been? Grin
Posted: at 5-02-2010 12:11 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Priceless-jewel at 5-02-2010 12:27 AM (14 years ago)
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Dats wonderful.Thank God u didnt meet someone like dirtykid,brightossy or humblej
Posted: at 5-02-2010 12:27 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 5-02-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: susa_okeke on 28-01-2010 10:56 AM
my husband is nigerian am austrian but he really really loves me so much, he cares for me and our kids so much, while i know white gurls that r not happy at all coz their man run away after they got their documents,,, thanks to God... we r a happy family"!!


ok....thank God oooo

Posted: at 5-02-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- GlamourPuss at 6-02-2010 08:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Priceless-jewel on  5-02-2010 12:27 AM
Dats wonderful.Thank God u didnt meet someone like dirtykid,brightossy or humblej

u betta tell how 2meet a faithful naija guy Sad
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- dirtykid at 8-02-2010 09:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Priceless-jewel on  5-02-2010 12:27 AM
Dats wonderful.Thank God u didnt meet someone like dirtykid,brightossy or humblej


Can u explain it better ? are we the baddest dudes in the House?  Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 8-02-2010 09:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 8-02-2010 09:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: GlamourPuss on  6-02-2010 08:46 PM
Quote from: Priceless-jewel on  5-02-2010 12:27 AM
Dats wonderful.Thank God u didnt meet someone like dirtykid,brightossy or humblej

u betta tell how 2meet a faithful naija guy Sad

If i explain to you, will u stick to the few rules and regulations?  Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 8-02-2010 09:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Miss_precious at 8-02-2010 09:58 PM (14 years ago)
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well am happy for you.......one of the lucky ones

Posted: at 8-02-2010 09:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Priceless-jewel at 8-02-2010 10:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Very happy 4 u
Posted: at 8-02-2010 10:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Katerinochka at 8-02-2010 10:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Susa, u say very truthful thing.. i heard about it many times. And u know i have a nigerian husband and in the beginning i also thought maybe he wants a white wife for some  benefits. But now i Know that he loves me very much, we have our pretty mulat and everything is perfect))
and u know... i thought about this situation many times.. and i think that all life, all actions consist of benefits.. we all are selfish so i also had my benefits from my blacky - i wanted mulat so much and i got it! so everything is mixed in life.. i cant deny that maybe in the beginning my husband wanted to solve his problems marrying me.. but the most important thing is now - we are happy)))

But of course to run away from a girl, to use her for papers is impossible((
Posted: at 8-02-2010 10:35 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- luvvy at 13-02-2010 01:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: susa_okeke on 28-01-2010 10:56 AM
my husband is nigerian am austrian but he really really loves me so much, he cares for me and our kids so much, while i know white gurls that r not happy at all coz their man run away after they got their documents,,, thanks to God... we r a happy family"!!

is ur husband UGLY? maybe he tried but girls don't easily fall for WOWOs
Posted: at 13-02-2010 01:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 14-02-2010 02:31 AM (14 years ago)
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Luvvy u funny oo !!

Posted: at 14-02-2010 02:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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