Weeeeeeeeeeeeeell done dolphinkate,u hit the nail on the head if i may ask u are u an immigration expert?u jus made a valid,important,and educative point.I no the situation is bad everywhere especially at home people wanna get out of there poor situation everybody is desprate to get out.But i wished people will see beyond getin a visa then there will no problem.Its not easy abraod, u will work ten times harder than u would ve worked at home.hard currency is hard to comeby u will work very hard for it u don pick it up on a side or plucked it from a tree.u are a king in ur home country,there is no place like home so to say.
@ uc-1972
Thanks. Iam happy, that this time my words r finding few ears. I have nigerian friends all over the world and i married one illegally one bfore. I got to know all difficulties and problems black african ppl use to get abroad.
Few years back, i used to advice nigerian friends with good jobs in nigeria not to leave the country. I tried to explain them, what they would experience. That they may would never get such good jobs and lifes like they r having in nigeria, in their home country. That most among them r doing low donkey jobs abroad, which they would never do in nigeria. But they would not listen to me. They were thinking, iam not telling the truth, that i may dont want to see foreigners in my country or something like that. But those days i dont have mouth to give such advice again cause nigeria is becoming more worst now. Since longer time even the nig graduates r not getting jobs in nigeria...
I tried to explain to them, that they r getting wrong impression about abroad cause when their brothers and sisters from abroad visiting home nigeria, they r giving wrong impression by checking in best hotels, wearing best clothes and enjoying themselves. But they never know, that s only cause of the low nigerian currency and secondly their nig bros and sis abroad r working the whole year very hard and saving all their money for their visit at home. And when they do visit nigeria, they want to show, that they r successful. No one among them would like to go back to nigeria with empty hands. I also told the nigerian friends abroad, that they r doing wrong by giving wrong impression about life abroad. That they have to educate their nigerian ppl, telling them the truth, that life is not that easy as it s looking like abroad. When u dont hear for long time from ur ppl abroad, or when they dont send money home, nigerians think, that person is not willing to assist. May the bitter truth is, that this person is never settled self abroad. Just living from hand in mouth.
And when a black african is moved away from home once, is difficult for him to go back. On other side he is not complete happy abroad cause missing the nig life style.
Posted: at 30-01-2010 12:58 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming |
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