My personal view is that SOME women mature faster than most men... and that SOME women have a SIDE of them that matures faster than most men.
All women don't mature faster than all men.
But there are those women that DO mature faster... and these younger women can be VERY interesting to hang out with.
The point?
Younger women are more likely to feel ATTRACTION for a man who is older.
This principle has proven itself to me over and over... and the more I look around, the more I see it in action.
1) Damn smart, high standards, and on the path to bettering herself.
This young woman will often respect you and admire you for your experience in life, and look to you for approval, advice, and input.
She will probably get a thrill from being with a guy who is mature, sophisticated, and who knows how to make her feel good physically.
This woman might be the daughter of a strict and/or religious family who is now experimenting with her independence.
2) Attractive, and overly-concerned with what others think... very competitive, life revolves around boys.
if you meet a woman who is between 18 and 23, and she's a model, actress, dancer, or other "entertainer", you'll often find this personality type...
Often these girls like to PARTY.
Drama usually isn't far away.
These women often enjoy the thrill that being with an older guy brings.
They are often found on the arm of rich, playboy types... because they like the attention and material gifts and advantages.
WARNING: These women, in my experience, are more likely to be users, cheaters, and the types that turn your emotional life upside-down with all kinds of unimaginable drama.
3) The nice girl who likes you. Maybe not stunning, and maybe not a super-genius, but likes the fact that she's met a man who is a MAN... and who makes her feel good.
Most of these women have a common realization that guys their age just don't "get it".
They're tired of hearing about dumb "guy stuff", and they are fascinated by a man who is both clearly in control of himself and his environment, and very aware of how to treat a woman... how to make her feel good... how to take his time.
These women can be great fun, and they can be a real joy to be around. They often bring a fun, spontaneous energy to the relationship, and they make things a little unpredictable.
Now this isn't a complete list.
And it's not exact.
But it's pretty accurate, and if you use these categories as general guides, you'll begin to understand and have more success in your interactions with younger women.
1) Be Cool, Dude.
When most older guys meet a younger woman that they feel attracted to, they immediately begin to act WEIRD.
They stop acting like "themselves".
Now, women don't know what you're like "normally", but they can tell INSTANTLY if you're NOT ACTING LIKE YOURSELF.
Us guys do all kinds of subtle and not-so- subtle little things when we're feeling nervous... and these things give women the HEEBIE JEEBIES!
So be cool.
Relax.
Don't act like a Wussbag.
2) Treat her like a BRATTY LITTLE SISTER.
Now that you're being "cool", take it to the NEXT LEVEL...
Use one of my favorite personal techniques, and treat her like your BRATTY LITTLE SIS.
Tease her.
Make fun
It's OK, go for it.
Say all the things you never had a chance to say when you were a freshman.
Now's your big chance!
And don't worry about it when she plays "fake mad". Just turn it up some more.
Oh, and call her on everything she does or says that's immature.
I can't go into all the reasons why this is a great idea, but it is. You keep your power, you have all kinds of opportunities to be Cocky & Funny, and you can always keep things interesting and challenging.
Oh, and it's COMPLETELY different than the way most Wussies treat her... which is good.
3) Don't try to follow or get her to lead.
Women in general are not attracted to men who don't take the lead... and younger women are no exception.
In fact, younger women have less experience in life, so trying to get them to lead and tell you what they want you to do is just a horrible idea.
Don't do it.
You lead. You decide where you're going. You make the rules.
If you try to make her the boss, you'll run her off faster than you can say "I touch myself"
4) Don't try to take advantage of the situation.
Most attractive young women have had at LEAST one "icky older guy" that "tried something" with her.
Younger women are HYPER-ALERT when it comes to sketchy behavior.
If you try to take advantage of the situation or try to "make a move" too early, you'll most likely signal to her that you're a "perv" and that you aren't to be trusted.
Lean back.
Chill.
Give her room.
When you walk down the street with her, bump into her and push her AWAY from you.
Tell her not to walk too close to you... tell her that other people might think something.
If you're alone with her in your living room, don't sit right next to her.
If she touches you while talking, don't touch her back... or even make fun of it and say "Keep your hands off the goods".
5) Don't intrude on or interfere with her life.
You must remember that younger women have lives of their own.
Often they're very close to their families, and they're unsure of how their families would respond if they found out that their pride and joy daughter was dating an older guy.
Remember, she just got FREE of the overbearing father... and she doesn't need a new one.
Don't call her at work, don't show up to see her unexpectedly, and don't embarrass her.
If you want to make an attractive young woman perform magic (the instant disappearing act), just interfere with her life.
She's free, so let her be free. Encourage it, even. Don't interfere.
6) Let her come to you... don't chase her.
If you want to make friends with a cat, the best tactic is to IGNORE IT.
Cats are interesting creatures.
Have you ever noticed that if you chase a cat, it will run... but if you sit and ignore it, you'll soon find yourself pushing it off of your lap?
Same goes for younger women.
Like I just mentioned, younger women have often just "escaped" from controlling parents, structured lives, and zero freedom.
If she's attracted to you, it's not because you're creating the environment that she just left... it's because you represent something different.
You'll find that if you call her all the time and chase her, she'll be harder to get a hold of, and less likely to continue to see you.
If you let her go, let her live her life, and make yourself more scarce, you'll be more likely to have her pursuing YOU.
Be the man that she's always dreamed about, and then don't chase her.
7) EXPECT her to change.
If you're dating a woman between the ages of 18 and 23, you need to remember that her life is probably going to change DRAMATICALLY over the next few years.
You need to keep an open mind, and not try to restrict or hinder her options.
You need to expect and even encourage her to grow, change, and become all she can be.
The reality is that the chances are SLIM that she's going to be with you in a few years.
In fact, the chances are slim that she's even going to be the same person in a few years.
Get over it, and be OK with it.
Challenge her to grow, achieve, and be her best... and don't accept second-class behavior from her.
But she's going to change, so expect it.
Be CHIVILROUS.Most younger women have had VERY FEW men in their lives who even know what the word "Chivalry" means.
If you're one of those men, then you need to LEARN what the word means.
Opening doors, walking on the outside of the curb, and pulling out chairs makes a BIG impression on younger women.
When you combine a masculine, powerful presence with chivalry, you will stand out and make yourself VERY intriguing and attractive.
9) Stay totally calm in the face of drama.
Younger women often have a lot of drama happening around them, and they often act dramatic.
I could write an entire book about all the things that a young woman has going on around her that are TOTALLY UNSTABLE...
And the most influential one is the other people in her life.
If she freaks out about something, don't let it get to you.
Stay cool and calm.
Don't try to fix all her problems, and don't try to stand in for her dad.
She isn't looking for advice, so don't give it to her (unless she asks seriously, and in a non-emotional tone).
One of the things that makes you attractive as an older man is the stability that you bring.
So BRING IT.
10) Be conscious of how often you see her and speak with her.
Younger women are less in-control of their emotions... and can become attached more quickly and easily.
The "trigger" for a woman "becoming attached" is how often you see her and talk to her.
If you want to trigger the "relationship" mechanism, spend a lot of time with her.
If you DON'T want to trigger those emotions, you need to limit the time you spend with her.
As a rule of thumb, don't see her more than once a week, and don't talk to her more than once or twice a week unless you want her to start becoming very attached to you.
And I don't care what you SAY... it's the AMOUNT OF TIME you spend with her that makes this determination.
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