3 Dangerously Easy Ways to Get Your Ex Girlfriend to Beg You to Come Back

Date: 03-02-2010 3:17 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Adedamola Adedeji
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- at 3-02-2010 03:17 PM (14 years ago)
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It's a classic and sad story. Boy meets girl, boy loses girl, boy just wants girl back. It is so common that you might place an advertisement in the local paper: "ex girlfriend needing to get back, please help."

Even though it occurs everyday that doesn't make it any easier when it's you that's going through it. It is still unpleasant and it still sucks.

You don't need to give up though. There are a couple of things you can do that may make things less complicated, make you a better man and perhaps help you to get your ex girlfriend back too.

One ) The very first thing you want to do is cease all calls, texts, emails, for example. It will be one of the toughest things you've ever done but you've got to stop chasing her. Consider it for a minute. When anyone is chased what do they do? That's right, they run. You don't want to push her further away from you. Back off and give her some space.

Remember, nobody likes a puny, whiny, insecure person. That's just not a turn on. Your ex is no different. Don't cling or you'll only push her further away.

Two ) Have fun. I know that this sounds like ridiculous advice, but it is important. It kind of is related to step one. Go out with friends and try and live everyday to the fullest. If you can do this you will benefit in a couple of ways you didn't even think about before.

For one thing she will hear about all of the fun you're having and she will start to miss the fun the two of you used to have. She will also remember why she fell completely in love with you in the 1st place.

It will also help you to keep your consciousness off your ex for a small while. That could be a good way to keep from going silly in this difficult time.

A word of caution though: don't use this step as a pathetic and childish attempt to make her jealous. That's very immature and doesn't work. If you really care about your ex and you are wondering how to get your girlfriend back, you have to avoid dumb, harmful and childish games. No good relationship can ever be built on those features.

Three ) Try to communicate with her. Don't argue, or badger. Just talk...and listen. This isn't about being right, it's about making an attempt to truly understand where the other individual is coming from. This is a time to put your ego on hold.

If you're feeling like you need to place an advertisement in your local paper that says: "ex girlfriend wanting to get back" than you are pretty serious about getting your ex back. Follow the easy tips I've listed here and you have a far better shot at making that happen. And you are able to save the money on the ad!

Posted: at 3-02-2010 03:17 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
- Akpan01 at 3-02-2010 03:22 PM (14 years ago)
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abeg is too small my eye go pain me

Posted: at 3-02-2010 03:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dammy2002 at 3-02-2010 03:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on  3-02-2010 03:22 PM
abeg is too small my eye go pain me

It's a classic and sad story. Boy meets girl, boy loses girl, boy just wants girl back. It is so common that you might place an advertisement in the local paper: "ex girlfriend needing to get back, please help."

Even though it occurs everyday that doesn't make it any easier when it's you that's going through it. It is still unpleasant and it still sucks.

You don't need to give up though. There are a couple of things you can do that may make things less complicated, make you a better man and perhaps help you to get your ex girlfriend back too.

One ) The very first thing you want to do is cease all calls, texts, emails, for example. It will be one of the toughest things you've ever done but you've got to stop chasing her. Consider it for a minute. When anyone is chased what do they do? That's right, they run. You don't want to push her further away from you. Back off and give her some space.

Remember, nobody likes a puny, whiny, insecure person. That's just not a turn on. Your ex is no different. Don't cling or you'll only push her further away.

Two ) Have fun. I know that this sounds like ridiculous advice, but it is important. It kind of is related to step one. Go out with friends and try and live everyday to the fullest. If you can do this you will benefit in a couple of ways you didn't even think about before.

For one thing she will hear about all of the fun you're having and she will start to miss the fun the two of you used to have. She will also remember why she fell completely in love with you in the 1st place.

It will also help you to keep your consciousness off your ex for a small while. That could be a good way to keep from going silly in this difficult time.

A word of caution though: don't use this step as a pathetic and childish attempt to make her jealous. That's very immature and doesn't work. If you really care about your ex and you are wondering how to get your girlfriend back, you have to avoid dumb, harmful and childish games. No good relationship can ever be built on those features.

Three ) Try to communicate with her. Don't argue, or badger. Just talk...and listen. This isn't about being right, it's about making an attempt to truly understand where the other individual is coming from. This is a time to put your ego on hold.

If you're feeling like you need to place an advertisement in your local paper that says: "ex girlfriend wanting to get back" than you are pretty serious about getting your ex back. Follow the easy tips I've listed here and you have a far better shot at making that happen. And you are able to save the money on the ad!
Posted: at 3-02-2010 03:24 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 3-02-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago)
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That number 2 make sense.. most ExGirls hate to see their guy have fun with others while she's left alone aside. damn .. that kills them.

Posted: at 3-02-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 3-02-2010 03:32 PM (14 years ago)
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aww thank u better Tongue

Posted: at 3-02-2010 03:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- prince316 at 3-02-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago)
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na for lovers... just passing
Posted: at 3-02-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 3-02-2010 06:11 PM (14 years ago)
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this wont work for me.. i have my own format

Posted: at 3-02-2010 06:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sugbedeojobaba at 3-02-2010 11:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  3-02-2010 03:28 PM
That number 2 make sense.. most ExGirls hate to see their guy have fun with others while she's left alone aside. damn .. that kills them.

same wt guys man!
Posted: at 3-02-2010 11:44 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- chrissiebee at 4-02-2010 07:19 AM (14 years ago)
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hmm...

Posted: at 4-02-2010 07:19 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sunnyvidic at 4-02-2010 09:14 AM (14 years ago)
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@poster good format, it works. No 1 and 2 are da bomb.
Posted: at 4-02-2010 09:14 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- GlamourPuss at 4-02-2010 04:48 PM (14 years ago)
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post how 2get a guy back Sad
Posted: at 4-02-2010 04:48 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- diplomatik at 4-02-2010 04:49 PM (14 years ago)
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this poster sef..he get all the answers...hmmm * walks out*

Posted: at 4-02-2010 04:49 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 4-02-2010 04:51 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: GlamourPuss on  4-02-2010 04:48 PM
post how 2get a guy back Sad


hmmm

Posted: at 4-02-2010 04:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 4-02-2010 04:51 PM (14 years ago)
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no ex back past tense

Posted: at 4-02-2010 04:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- smog200 at 4-02-2010 05:19 PM (14 years ago)
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All clues accepted.wat if after u broke up with her,she's engaged in another relationship with another guy
Posted: at 4-02-2010 05:19 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- brightossy at 4-02-2010 05:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Thank God i no get any aids.
Posted: at 4-02-2010 05:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dammy2002 at 4-02-2010 08:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: GlamourPuss on  4-02-2010 04:48 PM
post how 2get a guy back Sad
Alright will get back to you on that.
@Diplomatik, no be my fault,  its just beacuse i have a pink heart if you knw what that meant Cool
Posted: at 4-02-2010 08:03 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sweetnoxy at 5-02-2010 01:46 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on  3-02-2010 06:11 PM
this wont work for me.. i have my own format

post urs na make other guys learn too
Posted: at 5-02-2010 01:46 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sweetnoxy at 5-02-2010 01:49 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: smog200 on  4-02-2010 05:19 PM
All clues accepted.wat if after u broke up with her,she's engaged in another relationship with another guy

why not look for another girl since shes already engaged
Posted: at 5-02-2010 01:49 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- seunosunyomi at 22-02-2010 10:57 AM (14 years ago)
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i just lost mine recently but she refused to accept my apology i will follow u advices hope she comes back i can't just let her go. thanks a lot
Posted: at 22-02-2010 10:57 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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