Listen Guys, God made women and He called them weaker vessels. women have this nature that when they complain about their mate, you quickly believe them and rain insult on the man not even caring to hear from him. This is wrong. Some women have the ability to provoke a man and still wonder why the man is angry.
Base on my past experience my friend, if you claim your past is your past, never do anything that will make your man to recall your past. Show to him in word and deeds that they are your past. For example, do you lie unnecessarily? Do you come home late? Do you have guys you talk to and refers to them as just friends? do you say you are in Kaduna when actually you are in Lagos? Like someone said, do you compare him with your ex's? are you loyal and honest? are you truthful to him. Remember, it takes many years to build trust but just one day to loss it. When you loss your trust, it will take you many years to regain that trust. You must be plain to him in black and white. Open and honest. If you do something bad, own up. This will help you build your trust back.
NO ONE CAN HIDE HIS/HER PAST FROM YOUR BOYFRIEND. NEVER. When you hide your past, you are simple dishonest. Believe me, one day, when the love is so sweet, you will open up. Most times, its good to open up to him or her early on in a relationship. If he is a mature man, he won't use it against you but provided you didn't give him any reason to. When some past are known well after marriage, it spoil a whole lot of things. Its better to spoil while in the friendship zone than in the marriage stage.
Now, if you think from your very heart that you haven't given him any reasons for him to recall your past, Then like others said, don't go into the marriage unless you can endure it in marriage.
(i have an experience thats exactly as yours. if you want to hear it, inbox me. Thanks )
Posted: at 2-08-2016 01:32 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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