please,do not indulge in abortion.no matter the circumstances.there is away out.why don t you leave the baby to come to the world?who knows maybe the child may be a steping stone for your prayer to be answered. Posted: at 17-02-2010 04:18 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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dirtykid at 17-02-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) (m) IT WAS A THE SAME TOPIC BEFORE Is all depense.Depense on the ladie's feelings and also in her family views.if u think well that kid is an inocent soul and could be a blessing later on...cause of some1 mistake u cant hurt another.i sad it, is all depense on sytuations and feelings.
what about when that Kid will turn not to be a blessings? what will that kid remind the mother often ? sorrows, pains and so on. such Kids make life miserable for even entire family. Believe me a rapiest, thief, drug person, drunkard always end up having kids that copy from them... is in the blood. not all but there is possibilty.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 17-02-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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diplomatik at 17-02-2010 04:28 PM (14 years ago) (f) simple No !!
But must every rape end up with pregnancy? or is it just coincidence?
i had a feeling u would of said no but i will definitely have that kid..and i guess we will part ways
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool Posted: at 17-02-2010 04:28 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Akpan01 at 17-02-2010 04:29 PM (14 years ago) (f) IT WAS A THE SAME TOPIC BEFORE Is all depense.Depense on the ladie's feelings and also in her family views.if u think well that kid is an inocent soul and could be a blessing later on...cause of some1 mistake u cant hurt another.i sad it, is all depense on sytuations and feelings.
what about when that Kid will turn not to be a blessings? what will that kid remind the mother often ? sorrows, pains and so on. such Kids make life miserable for even entire family. Believe me a rapiest, thief, drug person, drunkard always end up having kids that copy from them... is in the blood. not all but there is possibilty. u cant blame the kid cause of the father fault...and u forget that the mother blood is include as well...all depense on how she will trean that child..i beleive sytuation cos a lot bad things not by genetic...and also a lot depense on some1 manners and the trean from home. When a woman pregnant her body and mind will got a lot new feelings and knowledge that abort can cos her more pain and sorrow after...a mother is a mother in any sytuation
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" Posted: at 17-02-2010 04:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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see ya ol morro. Posted: at 17-02-2010 05:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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yes! The bible is clear against abortion and killing other human beeings. Not talking about ur own baby in ur womb. I would never judge any woman for doing abortion cause those women r desperated and not seeing a way out. Majority among them r suffering depression and regretting it later. The case of this woman is very tragic cause the child may will remind her at the horrible night and secondly more bad is, that her husband is not standing behind her anymore cause he is not able to withstand another man´s child in his wife´s womb or having other reason for beeing so hard and demanding abortion from his beloved wife. It´s bad of the man to demand such thing. Is like a 2nd rape then for the woman. For women is always more difficult cause no matter which decision she would take, it would affect her future anyway. The husband should leave the decision with his wife and trying to encourage her to keep it. If the woman is following her christian faith and personal heart to keep it, then she is may losing her husband and ppl would mock her as the stubborn single mother, who wanted to deliver the child by all means. It´s really an ugly situation. It would be good, if the woman could be very strong and go through that hard time of pressure and at least take her decision to keep the baby. Iam sure in future she would be very happy to have kept the baby and that GOD would bless her for it later. Besides the baby is also 50% of her own blood. Her husband should realize that too. And try to accept the baby as his own. Maybe GOD is testing their faith. Posted: at 17-02-2010 05:42 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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dirtykid at 17-02-2010 05:50 PM (14 years ago) (m) IT WAS A THE SAME TOPIC BEFORE Is all depense.Depense on the ladie's feelings and also in her family views.if u think well that kid is an inocent soul and could be a blessing later on...cause of some1 mistake u cant hurt another.i sad it, is all depense on sytuations and feelings.
what about when that Kid will turn not to be a blessings? what will that kid remind the mother often ? sorrows, pains and so on. such Kids make life miserable for even entire family. Believe me a rapiest, thief, drug person, drunkard always end up having kids that copy from them... is in the blood. not all but there is possibilty. u cant blame the kid cause of the father fault...and u forget that the mother blood is include as well...all depense on how she will trean that child..i beleive sytuation cos a lot bad things not by genetic...and also a lot depense on some1 manners and the trean from home. When a woman pregnant her body and mind will got a lot new feelings and knowledge that abort can cos her more pain and sorrow after...a mother is a mother in any sytuation I understand your point.. but what of when the rape is done from an outsider ? maybe someone is attacked by some huddlums or some kind gang rape that result to pregnacy ? wht will be the solution to that?
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 17-02-2010 05:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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xter at 17-02-2010 05:56 PM (14 years ago) (m) hmmmmmmm
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza Posted: at 17-02-2010 05:56 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Akpan01 at 18-02-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago) (f) IT WAS A THE SAME TOPIC BEFORE Is all depense.Depense on the ladie's feelings and also in her family views.if u think well that kid is an inocent soul and could be a blessing later on...cause of some1 mistake u cant hurt another.i sad it, is all depense on sytuations and feelings.
what about when that Kid will turn not to be a blessings? what will that kid remind the mother often ? sorrows, pains and so on. such Kids make life miserable for even entire family. Believe me a rapiest, thief, drug person, drunkard always end up having kids that copy from them... is in the blood. not all but there is possibilty. u cant blame the kid cause of the father fault...and u forget that the mother blood is include as well...all depense on how she will trean that child..i beleive sytuation cos a lot bad things not by genetic...and also a lot depense on some1 manners and the trean from home. When a woman pregnant her body and mind will got a lot new feelings and knowledge that abort can cos her more pain and sorrow after...a mother is a mother in any sytuation I understand your point.. but what of when the rape is done from an outsider ? maybe someone is attacked by some huddlums or some kind gang rape that result to pregnacy ? wht will be the solution to that? for such a critical things is difficult to find solution...for me she should try handle the 2 things seperately..i mean the rape and the pregnancy i know the pregnancy is cause of the rape,but i still no support the abort...if she wish, after she born she can give the child to social workers to find parents to her/him.and she will get clear mind and no regret after on
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" Posted: at 18-02-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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myragonza at 18-02-2010 01:42 PM (14 years ago) (f) would u keep an armed robber pregnancy
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saintdav76 at 18-02-2010 01:48 PM (14 years ago) (m) Capital NO Posted: at 18-02-2010 01:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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myragonza at 18-02-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago) (f) why not...?
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bk4real at 18-02-2010 02:26 PM (14 years ago) (f) EASIER SAID THAN DONE,ITS A DIFFICULT DECISION TO MAKE ,U AVE TO LEAVE EVERYTHING TO GOD TO TAK PERFECT CONTROL.......................... Posted: at 18-02-2010 02:26 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Enockia at 18-02-2010 09:39 PM (14 years ago) (m) no never
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dirtykid at 18-02-2010 09:48 PM (14 years ago) (m) would u keep an armed robber pregnancy
That was actualy my point of question ... really is not an easy thing.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 18-02-2010 09:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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topeclare at 18-02-2010 10:52 PM (14 years ago) (f) 1. if u abort d baby, u av commited murder 2.wat if dt is d last baby u will ever mother.. 3.God has a reason for everytin 4.wat if d baby belongs to ur husband. Posted: at 18-02-2010 10:52 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Starlette at 18-02-2010 11:25 PM (14 years ago) (f) I asked my mum dis question, n her reply was understanding. she said 'd woman sud keep d baby, dat d man was suppose 2 no dat it was his fault 4 d woman not being able 2 conceive, n besides d Bible say we sudn't kill. d man sud just adopt d child as his own. Who knows wat destiny lies ahead of him(d child)'.
De shining star Posted: at 18-02-2010 11:25 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ceejay58 at 18-02-2010 11:46 PM (14 years ago) (m) "akuba adaba" may the almighty never let me see such..... Amen Posted: at 18-02-2010 11:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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ahassan at 19-02-2010 10:27 AM (14 years ago) (m) first of all, I wont wait to find out that i am pregnant,I will attack it early, dnt know how though. and I wont keep it, I wont love the innocent baby like I shld cos I loath its father. Posted: at 19-02-2010 10:27 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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my dear sister no keep the pregnancyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Posted: at 19-02-2010 12:37 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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