HELP! My Husband Borrowed Everything He Used To Entice & Marry Me - Wife Of 13yrs Cries

Date: 27-08-2016 2:50 pm (8 years ago) | Author: kacy lee
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- at 27-08-2016 02:50 PM (8 years ago)
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A middle aged wife and mother of one, Mrs. Taiye Husu, has revealed to a grade B customary court Oto-Ijanikin, how her husband of 13 years, Francis Husu used borrowed items to lure her into marriage.



According to her, the man she met 14 years ago was living a fake and an imaginary life. She further reveals his friends came and took everything he borrowed from them after their marriage, and that was when her eyes opened to the fact that she had fallen for a ‘borrow pose’.
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Mrs. Taiye Husu filed for the dissolution of her 14 year old marriage to estranged husband on the grounds of frequent fighting, lack of care, irresponsibility, deceit and has no more love to sustain the trembling union.
Giving her evidence, she narrated to the court her awful experience in the hands of the man she called her husband.
According to her, she was actually deceived into the marriage; she fell for his deceit and married him against her parent’s wish, now she is made to bear the consequences of her stubbornness.
“I met Francis 14 years ago, shortly after that, I got pregnant for him. Then we got engaged much later against my parents wish. They had insinuated that Francis was no good to me and that he would in a short run display his true self. I blatantly ignored them and went ahead to move in with him.
Few months later, I realized that, he was a jobless man and all he used to charm me them was actually make-believe. He borrowed virtually all the things he used to entice me and I fell cheaply to his benevolence and enticement. His friends took back all they gave him after we got married,” she recalled.
Worsening it all, Taiye said he took advantage of the fact that her parents were not in support of their union to maltreat her, making her fend for herself and the only child of the union.
Even in the days of her pregnancy, Francis never spares his rod; as he also callously hit her under such pitiable condition.
“At any slightest provocation, he would beat me like a slave. He never takes me for a wife, instead he melts on sorts of pains and abuses on me.
I decided to bear all the consequences of my deaf ears to my parents warning, and endure anything that comes out of the marriage. But it got so worsened after I gave birth to the only child of the union. Although it took us over 11 years to have a child, but I had also thought that he birth of the innocent child would curtail his father’s excesses.

It got to a deadly point, I knew that my life and that of our 1-year old baby was at risk, so I took off and ran away from our matrimonial home.
If I had thought that my leaving the house for him would solve the problem, I goofed, because he had never ceased harassing, molesting and intimidating me anywhere he sight me. That was the main reason that dragged me to court, so I could sever this ridiculous union and gain back my freedom and right to live,” she pleaded.
Meanwhile after all the court summons and notices that has been sent to the respondent to the suit, he adamantly refused to honor it to either confirm or refute all the allegations leveled against him by his estranged wife.
Consequently, the members of the court, headed by Chief S.K Hussien had no other option than to dissolve the 14-year old union based on the evidence and pleas of the petitioner.
The court also ordered that the respondent should provide a substantial amount of money for the upkeep of his tender child and stay from further harassing and molesting his ex-wife or face the law for contempt of the court.


Posted: at 27-08-2016 02:50 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- gogoman at 27-08-2016 03:01 PM (8 years ago)
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madam na wetin u dey find u see, u must stay ok  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 27-08-2016 03:01 PM (8 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Abubu86 at 27-08-2016 03:40 PM (8 years ago)
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It is better for you to walkaway from the marriage life before d man will kill you
Posted: at 27-08-2016 03:40 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- K01abinibi at 27-08-2016 03:49 PM (8 years ago)
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result of been a gold digger
Posted: at 27-08-2016 03:49 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- concentrate at 27-08-2016 03:51 PM (8 years ago)
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The Bible says honour your father and your mother but you blatantly disobeyed your parents because you saw money. Now you want help. You can start by going back to your parents and do whatever it takes to get them to forgive you. I'm sure they have a word for you.
Posted: at 27-08-2016 03:51 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DrSoba at 27-08-2016 03:58 PM (8 years ago)
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The truth is you married the man when things were good, now things have taken a dimension, I meant bad. You are leaving him, remember it was better for worse, in poverty and in wealth.
Posted: at 27-08-2016 03:58 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pissmaker at 27-08-2016 04:05 PM (8 years ago)
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This tori that you have nacked is a funny me, as if you is a funny capenter
You must marriage the managing because you is longer throating

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Posted: at 27-08-2016 04:05 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- benosky4 at 27-08-2016 04:38 PM (8 years ago)
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Most Dependent women fall into this pit often.

Thumb up for Independent women.

Posted: at 27-08-2016 04:38 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- AmazingMarie at 27-08-2016 05:09 PM (8 years ago)
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not all that glitters (blink blink) is gold/platinum. thank God you are now free.
Posted: at 27-08-2016 05:09 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- morgan1 at 27-08-2016 05:31 PM (8 years ago)
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One chance,,,,
Posted: at 27-08-2016 05:31 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- sandler at 27-08-2016 05:37 PM (8 years ago)
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WASTED GENERATION
Posted: at 27-08-2016 05:37 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- senatordee01 at 27-08-2016 06:55 PM (8 years ago)
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that's lust of the eye. ladies shine your phyuking eyes okay, not everything thats glitter are gold.be veryyyyy careful
Posted: at 27-08-2016 06:55 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SOGaiya at 27-08-2016 07:48 PM (8 years ago)
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Long throat
Posted: at 27-08-2016 07:48 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kison at 27-08-2016 08:24 PM (8 years ago)
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NEXT TIME BE careful, be very very careful, CAREFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL……………………………….
Posted: at 27-08-2016 08:24 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- Slimchery at 27-08-2016 08:50 PM (8 years ago)
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haba for 13years anywaey no levle if you can be with him for 13years why complain now abi another person done dey pass back dey enter the house
Posted: at 27-08-2016 08:50 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- zeigbo at 27-08-2016 10:10 PM (8 years ago)
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“I met Francis 14 years ago, shortly after that, I got pregnant for him. Then we got engaged much later against my parents wish.

Although it took us over 11 years to have a child, but I had also thought that he birth of the innocent child would curtail his father’s excesses.

o smell lies

Posted: at 27-08-2016 10:10 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- CHRISETTE at 27-08-2016 10:52 PM (8 years ago)
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Too bad
Posted: at 27-08-2016 10:52 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- dickieponga at 27-08-2016 10:57 PM (8 years ago)
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Na god catch you so you were never in love with him in the first place Na the borrowed items you were in love with.
So the cookie crumbles..
Posted: at 27-08-2016 10:57 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- shinenoyi at 28-08-2016 04:02 AM (8 years ago)
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BUT IF THIS GUY HAVE TOLD YOU HIS REAL CONDITION WILL YOU HV MARRIED HIM?
Posted: at 28-08-2016 04:02 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- Tos2130 at 28-08-2016 07:14 AM (8 years ago)
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I JUST HOPE SAY HIM NO BORROW U FROM UR FAMILY IF NA BORROW MAKE HIM RETURN U BACK TO D OWNER OOOOOOKO
Posted: at 28-08-2016 07:14 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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