Women consistently put up with abuse for several reasons. One is their own upbringing which tells them that man is superior and they have to depend on them for a living. Also, the way they were treated as children. They often hold themselves responsible for the abuse even if it has been inflicted by a parent or anyone else.
A lot of women all over the world are subject to domestic violence and yet they do not leave the relationship. The victims of domestic violence are highly resistant to change. Also, the abuser lives like a phantom in the victim's mind and the victim will refuse to do anything without the consent of the abuser.
Women as victims go through several changes in their thinking pattern. They eventually start believing that they are no good, they are not a real person and also they cannot do anything better. All these things are actually a result of the brain washing the abuser has inflicted on the victims.
Domestic violence is an extremely destructive relationship for the woman to have. The sooner she gets out, the better for her. The woman who is in a domestic violence relationship is battered, insulted, humiliated, and controlled. Simultaneously she hopes the partner will change, she believes that trying harder can bring about a change, always feeling that she is walking on egg shells. She also feels that she has no place to go and also is scared of living without support.
These are some of the reasons why she would never leave a relationship.
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