Reading through your comment, i noticed you where actually making same point as her (Domestic Violence is both ways - Emotional or Physical) of which either party could be a victim....The only diff. is that she (Empress Njamah) was bold enough to speak the raw truth exactly the way it should be told, while you (Juliet Ibrahim) was shy enough to see the truth in what she said and had to tailor ur own point of view based on the hard truth she just hit you with............the fact that WOMEN make the loudest noise when it comes to Domestic violence doesn't mean they're the most victim. Its just a case of "FIRST TO DO, NO DEY PAIN" Your assertion " NO REASON IN THE WORLD FOR A MAN OR WOMAN TO GET PHYSICAL ON ANOTHER Person!" is the opposite of what is obtainable in the society. The absence of LOVE brings in HATRED, when hatred steps in, EMOTIONS are tampered with....So getting physical is just one of the expression of the INVISIBLE EMOTIONS which is only felt.... So being EMOTIONALLY OUTRAGED is a reason to get PHYSICAL
...................Bottom Line.......Don't start what u can't complete (Men & Women)
Juliet Ibrahim broke up with her husband under very controversial situations, you cant take her testimony as a yardstick in this situation, to be honest, people shouting you need to have experience to speak on domestic violence, blah blah blah, its a known fact that everyone will always speak well of themselves when things go wrong, you cant expect a woman to come out and start saying she was trying to stab the man and he knocked the knife out of her hand e.t.c, she will go on, he hit me so hard, I was bleeding, I was just dying, I didnt know where I was, only God saved me e.t.c - which are all lies but in reality she was trying to attack the man.
Someone said earlier, domestic violence, infidelity etc are all signs that there is no longer love in the relationship, a relationship without love should be ceased! simple, no long thing
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