Re: Sex At First Meeting! (Page 2)

Then Shame on U Boy if u think so, cos it ain't in ur control when it wants to happen

It is only Bad for Men who think that the lady only has Sex as the Best She can Offer. Saving the Best for Last does not mean the Man is going to be there long after he has slept with you. Sex on a first Date would intrigue me about the girl. Most Men are only looking for Sex from a Girl which is why a good number of Girls delay Sex for at least three weeks to a month before giving in to him. What if he is the kind who looses interest as soon as he has had you? It is a risk I know but, if a girl has more than the sex I  had on the first date, I would definitely want to find out more about her. Besides, Dating in Nigeria can be rather costly so, they guy wants to save himself further cost of running the relationship by bedding the girl as soon as possible and maybe finding another alternative. Though, the lady may want to be careful about delaying too much and having the man spend far more than is needed and then loses interest or resorts to drugging the girl and molesting her when he finds out she is more interested in 'Jollofing' than getting to know him