Consequence Of Holding On To Sour Relationships - A True Life Story Shared By OAP, Dami Elebe

Okay let me share a true story about love, what it is and what it’s not. Issa thread! LOL. Yes I said "issa" with a serious face.

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

A friend from University. Fine. Smart with a sexy bod. Talented singer. Our own little ‘Tiwa Savage’. Amazing voice! pic.twitter.com/sifKri11QO

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

Never met a girl with so many ‘boyfriends’ in my life. Different guys for different purposes: Driver, Food, Romance, Sex, Shopping... LOL pic.twitter.com/w8IRF2y2dl

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

Got us girls feeling one kind ‘cos she had all the boys in her pocket. Someone asked if she was using Jazz sef. LOL pic.twitter.com/BXnAWO59qa

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

She turned 22 and switched up. Dumped multiple ‘baes’ and settled for just one guy because ‘Love’. Good thing, right? pic.twitter.com/OiGPwKcOvv

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

Story continues here. Didn't know the thread broke!!! https://t.co/JSDoUDMKcD

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

Not even up to a month and uncle becomes scum. Suddenly, he’s got another girl he’s now steady with. Babe started crying on a daily pic.twitter.com/2OXA58cGrY

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

She will bring us to hear fight every day! Very annoying cause we kept telling her to let it go but she was too “in love”. SMH. pic.twitter.com/CIUPJ80eim

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

Valentine’s Day came. No cakes, no food, no gifts. NOTHING. She didn't allow us rest. Making noise everywhere. She swore "It's over!".

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

He didn’t show at the house till 11 PM and we thought it was truly over. But, later that same night, they made up! Again! pic.twitter.com/dJuTalFuAs

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

We were getting tired of her drama. Like “Stop complaining to us ma. We’re not listening again” Haba! Abeg, e don do! pic.twitter.com/aNIYLiBtqL

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

Anyways, she was lost in the sauce for a while... Until we all heard GIST! Uncle got another girl pregnant!

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

She found photos and messages on his phone [Snooping brings wahala. AMEN?]. Heartbroken, she cried and cried… she became suicidal. pic.twitter.com/a9GLnScDEU

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

We had to keep all the sharp objects, pain killers and the likes away from her. No jokes. it was like a horror movie. I was scared for her.

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

It was bad. She stopped taking care of herself, having fun or going out at some point. But we tried to be there for her, as best as we could pic.twitter.com/hTGc71Jzf9

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

She got better. Then he resurfaced, begging! Promising that the ‘baby situation’ won’t change his feelings for her. Otondo, she accepted. pic.twitter.com/muvvAt96AX

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

At this point, we needed help, so we told her older sister who had no idea what had been going on. She came through to warn this uncle! pic.twitter.com/9Wpj2Dl1Rn

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

Still, she stubbornly stayed with him till our last year on campus, even though he kept messing around. Is this what ‘LOVE’ is? pic.twitter.com/PI4HMGwlzh

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

Final exams came, she fainted in the library, she was rushed to the hospital. Turned out she was pregnant too... And HIV positive! pic.twitter.com/KlALeEtLhT

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

Finally her mom came to carry her child because she thought there was something spiritual about it all. We didn't see her till graduation. pic.twitter.com/8biybzqE1h

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

I wanted to react and tackle him… but for home training. Cursed him in my mind though pic.twitter.com/w4aYoL6Q99

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017

To think this guy messed up our friend’s life and few years after, he’s living ‘happily ever after’? *sigh* Life is funny sha.

— Kung Fu Pandami (@DamiElebe) July 3, 2017