hi guys!most times i hear comments of ladies n some guys saying its d duty of a guy to always make d first approach to sm1 we r attracted to or some1 u sight n intends to have a relationship with of any form.but the baffling thing is i guess its about the matured mind of u wanting something why not go for it as most say d lady should do the bodylanguage and d guy shuld do the verbal approach.some do loose out due to this believe being confused of the feeln of may be he or she is down for smtn rather than dying in silence.i feel anyof the two be it the guy or d lady culd do d move,this does not make d lady a loose person.ur views ??
Posted: at 4-04-2010 12:29 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Bazemaster at 4-04-2010 01:27 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Any person can make the first approach
I report from ma BAZEHOOD, niggaz feeling ma BAZESWAG 'cos it's hooded like my nigga HOODEDSWAG coming from BAZESQUAD in da BAZESTUDIOS UNITED.... I AM BAZEMASTER
Posted: at 4-04-2010 01:27 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
darkocean002 at 4-04-2010 06:56 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bali4real on 4-04-2010 12:29 AM
hi guys!most times i hear comments of ladies n some guys saying its d duty of a guy to always make d first approach to sm1 we r attracted to or some1 u sight n intends to have a relationship with of any form.but the baffling thing is i guess its about the matured mind of u wanting something why not go for it as most say d lady should do the bodylanguage and d guy shuld do the verbal approach.some do loose out due to this believe being confused of the feeln of may be he or she is down for smtn rather than dying in silence.i feel anyof the two be it the guy or d lady culd do d move,this does not make d lady a loose person.ur views ??
well, i think it depends on what you meant by first move.. gender roles are still pretty rigid in this society.I don't believe that girls should sit around waiting for guys to call. If you like someone, you should take the chance --with the understanding that you might be rejected. Since we guys are typically the aggressors, we go through this alot. You really have to get a feel for the person. i have experiences and i get along better with gurls who don't have a problem making that moves.i tend to be more open with them. I think some guys find it extremely flattering when a girl makes the first move, and it takes the pressure off of them for a change. .
The bottom line is that you have to be willing to take a risk. If the feelings aren't mutual, so what? If you don't try, you won't know.
Posted: at 4-04-2010 06:56 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bali4real at 4-04-2010 11:33 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: darkocean002 on 4-04-2010 06:56 AM
Quote from: bali4real on 4-04-2010 12:29 AM
hi guys!most times i hear comments of ladies n some guys saying its d duty of a guy to always make d first approach to sm1 we r attracted to or some1 u sight n intends to have a relationship with of any form.but the baffling thing is i guess its about the matured mind of u wanting something why not go for it as most say d lady should do the bodylanguage and d guy shuld do the verbal approach.some do loose out due to this believe being confused of the feeln of may be he or she is down for smtn rather than dying in silence.i feel anyof the two be it the guy or d lady culd do d move,this does not make d lady a loose person.ur views ??
well, i think it depends on what you meant by first move.. gender roles are still pretty rigid in this society.I don't believe that girls should sit around waiting for guys to call. If you like someone, you should take the chance --with the understanding that you might be rejected. Since we guys are typically the aggressors, we go through this alot. You really have to get a feel for the person. i have experiences and i get along better with gurls who don't have a problem making that moves.i tend to be more open with them. I think some guys find it extremely flattering when a girl makes the first move, and it takes the pressure off of them for a change. .
The bottom line is that you have to be willing to take a risk. If the feelings aren't mutual, so what? If you don't try, you won't know.
yeah agree with u.thanks u guys that ve contributed so far.m happy with the response, its just that most in d society dnt c it this way expecially in the quote" the understanding of being rejected" which is smtn that can not be predicted and how well can one handle the outcome when bad.
Posted: at 4-04-2010 11:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Bazemaster at 6-04-2010 01:49 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Ok
I report from ma BAZEHOOD, niggaz feeling ma BAZESWAG 'cos it's hooded like my nigga HOODEDSWAG coming from BAZESQUAD in da BAZESTUDIOS UNITED.... I AM BAZEMASTER
Posted: at 6-04-2010 01:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
The only way you can understand is getting ready for the worst.. Believe me, 99% of guys wld love it.
That's what we guys would say, but the truth still remains, ~if it takes you little or no stress to get a girl, you wont value her that much~ True or False.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 6-04-2010 08:14 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
faithaina at 6-04-2010 02:37 PM (14 years ago) (f)
anyone can make the aproach, the only thing is that allow God to direct you. there is know anything bad if a lady went to a man and said you are my husband when the lady had prayed about future partner and God had show her that the man is her husband. She can make the aproach.
Posted: at 6-04-2010 02:37 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
bali4real at 8-04-2010 01:16 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Pires07 on 6-04-2010 08:14 AM
Quote from: darkocean002 on 5-04-2010 01:36 AM
The only way you can understand is getting ready for the worst.. Believe me, 99% of guys wld love it.
That's what we guys would say, but the truth still remains, ~if it takes you little or no stress to get a girl, you wont value her that much~ True or False.
false.her values depends on her character.
Posted: at 8-04-2010 01:16 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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