"How I discovered My Husband’s Secret Wife, Child On Facebook" Wife Narrates

Published 2 years ago by: onuigbo felicia
at 19-07-2017 03:57PM (2 years ago)

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The marriage between Mr Sunday Okafor and his wife, Adetola, was dissolved by an Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Wednesday.
Adetola, 40, had approached the court to end her 13-year-old union over the husband’s unfaithfulness.
She said:
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“My husband has been travelling to his village in the name of visiting his elder brother, not knowing that he had married an Igbo woman because I am Yoruba.
“I got to know about his secret marriage when he forgot his wallet at home, I opened it and found several bank deposit slips he used to send money to her.
“I searched for her name on the Facebook and I found several pictures of the woman, my husband with their baby displayed on her Facebook page.
“When I showed my husband the pictures, he did not deny it. My husband has rented an apartment for his new wife very close to our house,” she told the court.
The mother of three also described her husband as an ingrate, saying she married him 13 years ago when he had no job and he is still jobless.
“I have been paying our rent and the children’s school fees since the inception of our marriage.
“I bought phones and clothes for him; I also gave him money to take care of himself but he has rewarded my good deeds by marrying another woman,” Adetola also said.
The estranged husband, Sunday, claimed that his wife pushed him into adultery.
He said: “My wife’s behaviour pushed me into finding solace in another woman.
“She does not give me happiness, she is so arrogant and does not respect me because she is the one paying our rent and the children’s school fees.
“I was a musical director, she ruined my business because she used to accuse me of dating the women who come to my studio, so they stopped coming and the business crumbled.
“I can’t pick a call in her presence, she will say I am talking to a woman.”
President of the court, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, said it was obvious that the estranged couple were tired of the marriage and all efforts to reconcile them had failed.
“Since both parties consented to the dissolution of their marriage, this court has no choice than to dissolve it.
“The court pronounce the marriage between Mrs Adetola Okafor and Mr Sunday Okafor dissolved today, both parties henceforth cease to be husband and wife.
“Both are free to go their separate ways without any hindrance or molestation,”
Omilola ruled.



victorstic1 at 19-07-2017 04:11PM (2 years ago)
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MR JUDGE WHAT EFFORT HAVE U MADE TO RECONCILE THEM? IS IT NOT THAT U ASK THEM QUESTION IF THEY WANT TO CONTINUE WITH THE MARRIAGE YES OR NO: SO WHAT HAPPEN TO THE CHILDREN?
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ruthie at 19-07-2017 04:44PM (2 years ago)
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MARRIAGE NO BE BY FORCE..BYE BYE
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tegonwa at 19-07-2017 04:44PM (2 years ago)
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Mr Okafor? An Igbo Man?Cheating On His Yoruba Wife?Let Me Come-and-be-going.One Nigeria.Hopeful Of One Nigeria In Mr Okafor's House Too.Hopeful And Not Hopeless.
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benosky4 at 19-07-2017 04:51PM (2 years ago)
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Another marriage dissolved in Igando, God bless the children of these broken homes.

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christianity at 19-07-2017 05:17PM (2 years ago)
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she is so arrogant and does not respect me because she is the one paying our rent and the children’s school fees.
“I was a musical director, she ruined my business because she used to accuse me of dating the women who come to my studio, so they stopped coming and the business crumbled.
 Shocked : who do i believe?what is obvious here is that both of u have been commiting this same crime since she became the bread winner of the family
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rottymore at 19-07-2017 05:39PM (2 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmmmm,,,,,,, When did Africans start all these one wife one man, as an African man, you are free to have more than one wife......let her gooo, Yoruba boy say so.....
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osarobo62 at 19-07-2017 07:54PM (2 years ago)
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Quote from: victorstic1 on 19-07-2017 04:11PM
MR JUDGE WHAT EFFORT HAVE U MADE TO RECONCILE THEM? IS IT NOT THAT U ASK THEM QUESTION IF THEY WANT TO CONTINUE WITH THE MARRIAGE YES OR NO: SO WHAT HAPPEN TO THE CHILDREN?
it is not the duty of the judge to reconcile the couples......he is to officially pronounce them divorced if they so wish.
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Swissnaija at 19-07-2017 11:54PM (2 years ago)
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Quote from: tegonwa on 19-07-2017 04:44PM
Mr Okafor? An Igbo Man?Cheating On His Yoruba Wife?Let Me Come-and-be-going.One Nigeria.Hopeful Of One Nigeria In Mr Okafor's House Too.Hopeful And Not Hopeless.
U no well. Period. Lol
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chizzyG at 20-07-2017 01:28AM (2 years ago)
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Quote from: victorstic1 on 19-07-2017 04:11PM
MR JUDGE WHAT EFFORT HAVE U MADE TO RECONCILE THEM? IS IT NOT THAT U ASK THEM QUESTION IF THEY WANT TO CONTINUE WITH THE MARRIAGE YES OR NO: SO WHAT HAPPEN TO THE CHILDREN?
What would the judge have done?force them to stay married together even when they have had enough of themselves and wanted divorce?
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osayan1 at 20-07-2017 05:34AM (2 years ago)
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Giod job
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Dera at 20-07-2017 07:16AM (2 years ago)
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Quote from: osarobo62 on 19-07-2017 07:54PM
it is not the duty of the judge to reconcile the couples......he is to officially pronounce them divorced if they so wish.

It's not true, he has to make efforts to reconcile them and when that fails he can then dissolve the marriage. Serious consideration has to be given to the fruits of the marriage before dissolution.
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gogoman at 20-07-2017 09:44AM (2 years ago)
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women like to lie to themselves.. which man on earth won marry one woman ..
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