Scenario II (Page 4)

Quote from: onchedu on  8-04-2010 04:52 PM

Ladies, Ur man works in CBN and has a promising carrer there. U and him just had the wedding of Ur dreams and U've moved into Ur new home with Ur husband in Lagos. 3months later shortly after Ur very romantic honeymoon Schlumberger calls on U to take up a position that pays N750,000 as basic salary every month in Ghana. Would U take the job? What would u do? Just wondering.

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Posted: at 10-04-2010 08:37 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Sounds to me now like U've made up Ur mind on moving to Ghana for the job and are certain Ur husband will quit his to come get pursue a new career there?

Posted: at 11-04-2010 01:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Tihehehehehahahahahooohooohoo...

Making which money now? Why do U sound like I know U?

Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Goodluck....

Posted: at 13-04-2010 06:21 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Ok, personally, I'd rather this scenario didn't even lead to an argument between me and my wife to whom I've just been married 3 months. I have a good job that pays enough to give us a healthy lifestyle and carter for our unborn children, not to mention the possibility of rising in the ranks of this relatively stable parastal. However I will leave the choice to her and not interfer in whatever decision she chooses to take after I have made my point clear. I'd let her go if that's what she wants and she feels she can play the role of wife and lover thru that distance.

Knowing over ambitious girls that think there's more to get out of life than happiness and peace as I do, I bet she'l come up with reasosn like:

"Oh sweetheart just think of what we can do with more money. N750k is not beans o; plus with that amount of money I can fly back to U every weekend. Infact I'll be on the phone with U as often as possible."

It only gets worse if she goes and discusses with her gf's. She won't be asking U again o, she'll just be telling U what she will do and me my name go turn lukman cos all I'll do is watch in silence if it gets to that, all the while thinking "How this girl dey think sef? Wetin I don  o marry so? Thank God we don't have kids yet."

How it plays out after then is entirely her fault. It feels good to have a woman's permission to be irresponsible should U want to. Plus if she will go I really will not trust her to stay true and I won't kill myself trying to please her. Women are sometimes limited by their 5 ephemeral senses, none of which I can buy into over the distance effectively.

Posted: at 13-04-2010 07:58 AM (14 years ago) | Hero