Many Women Are The Cause Of Domestic Violence – Commissioner For Women Affairs In Lagos, Lola Akande

Date: 31-08-2017 8:10 pm (6 years ago) | Author: Mister Jay Wonder
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The Lagos State Commissioner for Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation, Dr Lola Akande, on Thursday, said that many women, by their actions, are the cause of the rate of domestic violence in Nigeria

Akande, who was represented by Mrs Olushola Falana, Director, Women Development Department, WAPA, made the observation at a programme on Management of Domestic Violence, organised by the ministry in Lagos.

According to her, negligence, sophistication, misguided utterances, infidelity, use of abusive words and gullibility on the part of the women, are factors that drive domestic violence.

“It is no longer news that many women have lost their lives through domestic violence. The more we try to put the blame on the men folk, the more we will continue to turn blind eyes to the fact that many women are the cause of the domestic violence we see today.
This is because we fail to understand some important aspects of how most men are wired. Some women also cause violence by using abusive words and misguided utterances that can provoke the men.
But let me also state that a man who beats a woman is a beast, and does not deserve to live with humans. No matter how provoked you may be as a man, please, never raise your hand to beat your wife,”
she said.

The commissioner advised men and women to be understanding, tolerant and communicate more, to prevent violence in marriages.


Posted: at 31-08-2017 08:10 PM (6 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- gogoman at 31-08-2017 08:14 PM (6 years ago)
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Thank you, madam, a better woman will talks true...
Posted: at 31-08-2017 08:14 PM (6 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Floyd29 at 31-08-2017 08:22 PM (6 years ago)
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Not all the time. China talk
Posted: at 31-08-2017 08:22 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- angesco at 31-08-2017 10:18 PM (6 years ago)
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WRONG women for the post.

When will we STOP putting ROUND pegs in SQUARE HOLES!

I really give up on Nigeria. What STATISTICS is she quoting from to come up with this CONCLUSION!

MOST men saw their OWN mothers being BEATEN UP by their fathers and think that is what MARRIAGE is.

A REAL man WALKS AWAY when provoked by his wife!

So if WOMEN  ARE RESPONSIBLE- we have NO need for the Women Development Department??

Her COMMENTS have given NIGERIAN MEN the RIGHT to KILL their wives with NO FEAR OF ARREST!!!!

GOOD LUCK to ALL Nigerian women.

Posted: at 31-08-2017 10:18 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ejikeiyo at 31-08-2017 10:30 PM (6 years ago)
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WASTED GENERATION
Posted: at 31-08-2017 10:30 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Upbendel at 1-09-2017 04:06 AM (6 years ago)
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Quote from: angesco on 31-08-2017 10:18 PM
WRONG women for the post.

When will we STOP putting ROUND pegs in SQUARE HOLES!

I really give up on Nigeria. What STATISTICS is she quoting from to come up with this CONCLUSION!

MOST men saw their OWN mothers being BEATEN UP by their fathers and think that is what MARRIAGE is.

A REAL man WALKS AWAY when provoked by his wife!

So if WOMEN  ARE RESPONSIBLE- we have NO need for the Women Development Department??

Her COMMENTS have given NIGERIAN MEN the RIGHT to KILL their wives with NO FEAR OF ARREST!!!!

GOOD LUCK to ALL Nigerian women.

        Flies must support shit, truth is hard to take/ absorbed by most women, because they always tend to have alternative of been a married woman...............so sad for young African women!!!
Posted: at 1-09-2017 04:06 AM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ejikeiyo at 1-09-2017 09:04 AM (6 years ago)
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WASTED GENERATION
Posted: at 1-09-2017 09:04 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kachasi at 1-09-2017 09:12 AM (6 years ago)
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A reasonable n exposed woman have said it all. if and only if the women folk will understant what she said. the world will be a better place. take time to learn your own man. you can manage him easily....sane men are not difficult to handle. some women can spit fire. i mean real fire.
Posted: at 1-09-2017 09:12 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugarbaby2392 at 2-09-2017 10:59 AM (6 years ago)
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shut up woman..  when a woman shouts n insults her man, he should do same, no violence please...
Posted: at 2-09-2017 10:59 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tegonwa at 4-09-2017 07:28 AM (6 years ago)
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Good.If They Doubt It, Let Them Ask Tonto.Nawaa O!
Posted: at 4-09-2017 07:28 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Novic at 26-09-2017 12:25 AM (6 years ago)
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This is serious ooooo..... make I just dey waka pass..... abeg I dey waka pass, I will come and comment later.
This one weak me ooooo, well life must goes on.
I dey waka come bare
Posted: at 26-09-2017 12:25 AM (6 years ago) | Hero
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- BournIdentity at 26-09-2017 05:21 AM (6 years ago)
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Roll Eyes                                                                           
Posted: at 26-09-2017 05:21 AM (6 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- BournIdentity at 29-09-2017 04:27 AM (6 years ago)
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Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes                                                                     
Posted: at 29-09-2017 04:27 AM (6 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- officynero at 2-10-2017 08:46 AM (6 years ago)
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seen
Posted: at 2-10-2017 08:46 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kixme at 30-10-2017 01:32 PM (6 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes ::)okaayy so some of this  ladies dey inherit am from their parent??...like patience Ozokwor, kai imagine say chinwetela Agu come be the girl papa??
Posted: at 30-10-2017 01:32 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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