HOW TO LOVE

Date: 12-04-2010 12:39 pm (14 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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Love is a strange feeling that can be one of the most amazing in all the world. Sometimes the emotions associated with love are blissful, and there are times when they can really hurt. In the end, love is something most of us, if not all of us, will encounter. While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself), here is a general guide to loving.
STEPS
Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.

•  Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
•  3
Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
•  4
Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
•  5
Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.
•  6
Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love.


Posted: at 12-04-2010 12:39 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- pinkiestinks at 12-04-2010 01:15 PM (14 years ago)
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u stuipd o, so u think say na u go teach me how to love....get a life boi....lol
Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:15 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Bazemaster at 12-04-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Ok i don hear. UDC

Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- macgreat at 12-04-2010 01:29 PM (14 years ago)
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LOL-LOL

Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 12-04-2010 01:30 PM (14 years ago)
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bazemaster.... UDM

Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Bazemaster at 12-04-2010 01:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Eh! This newbie na total mumu. Dick head!

Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 12-04-2010 01:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Why una just dey insult the girl like that? Chic dem toast U U no gree?

See insults abeg! Guys wetin happen?
Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Bazemaster at 12-04-2010 01:39 PM (14 years ago)
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go ask that idiot wetin she say

Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 12-04-2010 01:42 PM (14 years ago)
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bazemaster... TFU

Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:42 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Bazemaster at 12-04-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Sophiebabyshit, A*#S!

Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 12-04-2010 01:47 PM (14 years ago)
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All these codes ehn UDC UDM.  "U dey craze" and "U dey mad shey?"

Bazemaster, u don tey here. why U dey fight with chci exchange words? haba!
Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Mba5 at 12-04-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Ahc ahc!!! What did she do now???
Why every body wan crucify am???
Just 4 the issue of love???
Posted: at 12-04-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 12-04-2010 02:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Bazemaster on 12-04-2010 01:35 PM
Eh! This newbie na total mumu. Dick head!

no be only dick head..... na honeypot brain too
Posted: at 12-04-2010 02:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Bazemaster at 12-04-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 12-04-2010 01:47 PM
All these codes ehn UDC UDM.  "U dey craze" and "U dey mad shey?"

Bazemaster, u don tey here. why U dey fight with chci exchange words? haba!

na she start am. She wan flex small

Posted: at 12-04-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ade_su_wa at 12-04-2010 02:47 PM (14 years ago)
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insult forum...i pass
Posted: at 12-04-2010 02:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tuks at 12-04-2010 02:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Na wa 4diz kain poster o...
Posted: at 12-04-2010 02:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- size1 at 12-04-2010 02:50 PM (14 years ago)
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kissing
Posted: at 12-04-2010 02:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- luvbug at 12-04-2010 03:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: pinkiestinks on 12-04-2010 01:15 PM
u stuipd o, so u think say na u go teach me how to love....get a life boi....lol
SHE STARTED FIRST ABI? let us play maturely in this forum
Posted: at 12-04-2010 03:01 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- size1 at 12-04-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago)
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gbam
Posted: at 12-04-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- simeonval at 12-04-2010 05:04 PM (14 years ago)
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SHE IS WRITING A BOOK I WILL HELP HER PUBLISH IT
Posted: at 12-04-2010 05:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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