Candid Talk (Page 3)

ok advice your friend, if e happen to him

Posted: at 29-04-2010 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i blv you

Posted: at 29-04-2010 02:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

lol,so gals cant go visit boys again (jst frnds) abi?

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Posted: at 29-04-2010 02:18 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Of course it wont, but the fact is that rape is always followed by some sort of psychological trauma. The lady might have this guilt or uncertainty within her 'does he still love me, does he blame me?' and several depressing questions like that. The guy on the other hand might also have his own worries 'did she cause it, did she enjoy it, was it my fault?' etc. Some people might not be able to cope with such stress, and they might end up having an unhappy marriage cos things might never be the same cos anytime the guy is angry, she might start thinking its cos of the incidence. Let them postpone the wedding, go for psych evaluation and counselling, redicover each other before they take that bold step into marriage.

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Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I'm good. About to attend a friend's wedding. I hate weddings

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Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:19 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I just dont like ceremonies. If you were here, you'd definitely have been invited.

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Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Then you're invited but I'm afraid I'll make a very boring and terrible companion

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Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:28 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Very boring, especially in the presence of a very beautiful lady

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Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

as wetin?

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Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:46 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I'm actually a shy person, but only my close friends know that. I can talk more than you can listen. Boring? Hell no. I dont have a dull moment except at ceremonies where I wont know how to behave, and I just have to watch everything I do or say.

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Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac