Would you allow your wife to seek greener pasture abroad? (Page 4)

Date: 25-04-2010 6:16 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- eve991 at 26-04-2010 06:58 PM (13 years ago)
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ths is superstory

Posted: at 26-04-2010 06:58 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lonelysnow at 26-04-2010 07:03 PM (13 years ago)
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we live together we die together.......she goes no were
Posted: at 26-04-2010 07:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- prince316 at 26-04-2010 07:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 05:26 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 10:43 AM
God sef dey ves for lazy man, a man should go out and work and take care of his wife and kids... i don see alot of girls and woman in italy doing prostitution and their husband dey africa dey enjoy, y his wife dey the so call abroad dey suffer for inside cold dey send the money go give the useless man for 9ja.... this is y i keep saying i like the Igbos am not am igbo man, but they are hard working people.. they will not allow their wife to go out and do the hustling y they stay at home to take care of they kids... shame to any man when dey do that kind thing.... and in his nest life he will not be a man he will come as a woman y his wife should come as the man!!!!

Prince one hand cannot clap nor can one finger kill lice. I would never allow my husband alone to burden with all the financial aspect of the family. God said by the sweat of your bow you shall eat bread. He wasn't talking to Adam alone. Women should be independent but not at the expense of neglecting and embarrassing their family.



well that is why am working hard now to take care of my wife and kids, when the time come?
Posted: at 26-04-2010 07:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ksurrina at 26-04-2010 07:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 07:05 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 05:26 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 10:43 AM
God sef dey ves for lazy man, a man should go out and work and take care of his wife and kids... i don see alot of girls and woman in italy doing prostitution and their husband dey africa dey enjoy, y his wife dey the so call abroad dey suffer for inside cold dey send the money go give the useless man for 9ja.... this is y i keep saying i like the Igbos am not am igbo man, but they are hard working people.. they will not allow their wife to go out and do the hustling y they stay at home to take care of they kids... shame to any man when dey do that kind thing.... and in his nest life he will not be a man he will come as a woman y his wife should come as the man!!!!

Prince one hand cannot clap nor can one finger kill lice. I would never allow my husband alone to burden with all the financial aspect of the family. God said by the sweat of your bow you shall eat bread. He wasn't talking to Adam alone. Women should be independent but not at the expense of neglecting and embarrassing their family.



well that is why am working hard now to take care of my wife and kids, when the time come?

 Grin Grin Grin With the way how infatuation (which causes devaluation of our money) is eating out our money worldwide do you think your MILLIONS going to still be it. By the time the wife and kids come those millions maybe is thousands, hopefully not hundreds. Be realistic there is no way in this life that a husband can provide only. Wife and husband has to work as a team if they want to have a good financial freedom. So my dear that stubbornness that is not pride will have to start being open. Hugs

Posted: at 26-04-2010 07:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- prince316 at 26-04-2010 07:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 07:13 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 07:05 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 05:26 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 10:43 AM
God sef dey ves for lazy man, a man should go out and work and take care of his wife and kids... i don see alot of girls and woman in italy doing prostitution and their husband dey africa dey enjoy, y his wife dey the so call abroad dey suffer for inside cold dey send the money go give the useless man for 9ja.... this is y i keep saying i like the Igbos am not am igbo man, but they are hard working people.. they will not allow their wife to go out and do the hustling y they stay at home to take care of they kids... shame to any man when dey do that kind thing.... and in his nest life he will not be a man he will come as a woman y his wife should come as the man!!!!

Prince one hand cannot clap nor can one finger kill lice. I would never allow my husband alone to burden with all the financial aspect of the family. God said by the sweat of your bow you shall eat bread. He wasn't talking to Adam alone. Women should be independent but not at the expense of neglecting and embarrassing their family.



well that is why am working hard now to take care of my wife and kids, when the time come?

 Grin Grin Grin With the way how infatuation (which causes devaluation of our money) is eating out our money worldwide do you think your MILLIONS going to still be it. By the time the wife and kids come those millions maybe is thousands, hopefully not hundreds. Be realistic there is no way in this life that a husband can provide only. Wife and husband has to work as a team if they want to have a good financial freedom. So my dear that stubbornness that is not pride will have to start being open. Hugs

must my wife go abroad to hustle ? i say i will not allow it ok... if i may ask where are u from if u are a nigerian which part are u from
Posted: at 26-04-2010 07:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ksurrina at 26-04-2010 07:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 07:22 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 07:13 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 07:05 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 05:26 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 10:43 AM
God sef dey ves for lazy man, a man should go out and work and take care of his wife and kids... i don see alot of girls and woman in italy doing prostitution and their husband dey africa dey enjoy, y his wife dey the so call abroad dey suffer for inside cold dey send the money go give the useless man for 9ja.... this is y i keep saying i like the Igbos am not am igbo man, but they are hard working people.. they will not allow their wife to go out and do the hustling y they stay at home to take care of they kids... shame to any man when dey do that kind thing.... and in his nest life he will not be a man he will come as a woman y his wife should come as the man!!!!

Prince one hand cannot clap nor can one finger kill lice. I would never allow my husband alone to burden with all the financial aspect of the family. God said by the sweat of your bow you shall eat bread. He wasn't talking to Adam alone. Women should be independent but not at the expense of neglecting and embarrassing their family.



well that is why am working hard now to take care of my wife and kids, when the time come?

 Grin Grin Grin With the way how infatuation (which causes devaluation of our money) is eating out our money worldwide do you think your MILLIONS going to still be it. By the time the wife and kids come those millions maybe is thousands, hopefully not hundreds. Be realistic there is no way in this life that a husband can provide only. Wife and husband has to work as a team if they want to have a good financial freedom. So my dear that stubbornness that is not pride will have to start being open. Hugs

must my wife go abroad to hustle ? i say i will not allow it ok... if i may ask where are u from if u are a nigerian which part are u from

 Grin Am one of the  active Non Nigerian. Am from Jamaica living here as well. You can check out my profile. Well has the article stated what causes the lady to go. What she did was to become misguided and stupid. Not all females are like that.

Posted: at 26-04-2010 07:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- prince316 at 26-04-2010 07:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 07:28 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 07:22 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 07:13 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 07:05 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 05:26 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 10:43 AM
God sef dey ves for lazy man, a man should go out and work and take care of his wife and kids... i don see alot of girls and woman in italy doing prostitution and their husband dey africa dey enjoy, y his wife dey the so call abroad dey suffer for inside cold dey send the money go give the useless man for 9ja.... this is y i keep saying i like the Igbos am not am igbo man, but they are hard working people.. they will not allow their wife to go out and do the hustling y they stay at home to take care of they kids... shame to any man when dey do that kind thing.... and in his nest life he will not be a man he will come as a woman y his wife should come as the man!!!!

Prince one hand cannot clap nor can one finger kill lice. I would never allow my husband alone to burden with all the financial aspect of the family. God said by the sweat of your bow you shall eat bread. He wasn't talking to Adam alone. Women should be independent but not at the expense of neglecting and embarrassing their family.



well that is why am working hard now to take care of my wife and kids, when the time come?

 Grin Grin Grin With the way how infatuation (which causes devaluation of our money) is eating out our money worldwide do you think your MILLIONS going to still be it. By the time the wife and kids come those millions maybe is thousands, hopefully not hundreds. Be realistic there is no way in this life that a husband can provide only. Wife and husband has to work as a team if they want to have a good financial freedom. So my dear that stubbornness that is not pride will have to start being open. Hugs

must my wife go abroad to hustle ? i say i will not allow it ok... if i may ask where are u from if u are a nigerian which part are u from

 Grin Am one of the  active Non Nigerian. Am from Jamaica living here as well. You can check out my profile. Well has the article stated what causes the lady to go. What she did was to become misguided and stupid. Not all females are like that.

Now u r talking
Posted: at 26-04-2010 07:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moneyinbrakemi at 26-04-2010 07:39 PM (13 years ago)
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It will only be possible,if we are happily married with children...
Even at that we needs GODS intervention so that she will not follow Oyibo like Diana!
Posted: at 26-04-2010 07:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ksurrina at 26-04-2010 07:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 07:31 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 07:28 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 07:22 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 07:13 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 07:05 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 26-04-2010 05:26 PM
Quote from: prince316 on 26-04-2010 10:43 AM
God sef dey ves for lazy man, a man should go out and work and take care of his wife and kids... i don see alot of girls and woman in italy doing prostitution and their husband dey africa dey enjoy, y his wife dey the so call abroad dey suffer for inside cold dey send the money go give the useless man for 9ja.... this is y i keep saying i like the Igbos am not am igbo man, but they are hard working people.. they will not allow their wife to go out and do the hustling y they stay at home to take care of they kids... shame to any man when dey do that kind thing.... and in his nest life he will not be a man he will come as a woman y his wife should come as the man!!!!

Prince one hand cannot clap nor can one finger kill lice. I would never allow my husband alone to burden with all the financial aspect of the family. God said by the sweat of your bow you shall eat bread. He wasn't talking to Adam alone. Women should be independent but not at the expense of neglecting and embarrassing their family.



well that is why am working hard now to take care of my wife and kids, when the time come?

 Grin Grin Grin With the way how infatuation (which causes devaluation of our money) is eating out our money worldwide do you think your MILLIONS going to still be it. By the time the wife and kids come those millions maybe is thousands, hopefully not hundreds. Be realistic there is no way in this life that a husband can provide only. Wife and husband has to work as a team if they want to have a good financial freedom. So my dear that stubbornness that is not pride will have to start being open. Hugs

must my wife go abroad to hustle ? i say i will not allow it ok... if i may ask where are u from if u are a nigerian which part are u from

 Grin Am one of the  active Non Nigerian. Am from Jamaica living here as well. You can check out my profile. Well has the article stated what causes the lady to go. What she did was to become misguided and stupid. Not all females are like that.

Now u r talking

Am I? Why saying this because am not a Nigerian or because I stated that the girl become misguided and stupid?

Posted: at 26-04-2010 07:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 26-04-2010 08:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Ksurrina, you dont really know how the family works here in naija. Though its good for the wife to be able to support the family, its a shame to be a man that allows his wife to go out there and shoulder his burden. You must be able as a man to protect your family, but when your wife is thousands of miles away from you, providing for you, you lose your dignity as the head of the family.

Posted: at 26-04-2010 08:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moneyinbrakemi at 26-04-2010 08:11 PM (13 years ago)
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True talk OB3ICE
Posted: at 26-04-2010 08:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 26-04-2010 08:22 PM (13 years ago)
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If I hear provide for the family? Na so we need money reach? How my wife wey i marry go dey another country in the name of money? Money was meant to serve us o not us serve money. My marriage is more important than money and if she refuses to understand that then maybe I'll start thinking she's not the one for me.
Posted: at 26-04-2010 08:22 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- cadanre at 26-04-2010 08:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Why not?

Posted: at 26-04-2010 08:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 26-04-2010 08:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Na phyuk up na! I dey alive and my wife go feed the family! Impossible!!
That means i have failed as a man!
Posted: at 26-04-2010 08:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ksurrina at 26-04-2010 08:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: OB3ICE on 26-04-2010 08:06 PM
Ksurrina, you dont really know how the family works here in naija. Though its good for the wife to be able to support the family, its a shame to be a man that allows his wife to go out there and shoulder his burden. You must be able as a man to protect your family, but when your wife is thousands of miles away from you, providing for you, you lose your dignity as the head of the family.

How can a man lose his dignity when he and his wife set a goal. It was a decision make by both of them. They are looking for a better tomorrow. A tomorrow where they are comfortable not living in poverty nor poorness. A man can lose his dignity as the head of the family even when the woman is still living with him lmao. She is there and he is not providing the way he should and she goes behind his back collecting money from her siblings. This to me is more disgraceful for him than sending her abroad. You know why it is disgraceful because the same siblings will be laughing with him and chatting disgracefully behind his back. Which one would he prefer. The siblings abuse or the greener pastures.

As one that is independent I would go for sending her abroad. It is for her to shut her mind from segxwal urges. Focus on the goals and know that when all is well she and her family will be happy. I don't believe in cheating and am not going to say that am make of iron. I live for years without living with a man and when the segxwal urges comes I masturbate. It is since becoming a christian again I learn to take my mind from sex and from the company that discuss nothing but sex.

You see a man will always uphold his dignity when he does what is best for him and his family. A woman should be one of strength and realized that no matter how hard a situation is when God send a silver lining don't abuse it. Take and turn it into a gold line. In my years being in relationship I never meet a man who think the way I does maybe if I had I would be a millionaire by now.


Posted: at 26-04-2010 08:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 26-04-2010 08:59 PM (13 years ago)
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I don't think it's the best of situations. Nonetheless,  i would be willing to accept the situation if there's a promise of good financial
reward, a more secure future and it's not indeterminate. In the same vain, i'll expect similar support from my spouse if am the one who has
to move for career progression.

Posted: at 26-04-2010 08:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 26-04-2010 09:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Ankwa!!! Support denied. Tongue
Posted: at 26-04-2010 09:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- abbeyy74 at 26-04-2010 09:22 PM (13 years ago)
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it is just a pity that this story is about a woman misbehaving this time,i tell u guys we always here of this most times,for me if such situation happens that one of the partners have to travell i will prefer maybe a shot visa and even if possible the men should go rather than the woman,one is that nobody complain when a man misbehave and have extra family abroad apart from his family back home.2 is that the man should take care of his family not that i wont help but will be very careful the kind of help before it turns out a problem for me.3 is that why should the woman that is surpose to take care of her children leave them alone all becos she wants to make the husband happy which she can not even happen,i tell u from experience some times the more u tries to satisfied a man the more he has one justification or the other about u.4 is that i will not even risk leaving my husband for another woman to help share my bed with him maybe when he feels lonely in the night.so i think this woman have not taken a good step from begining thats is why she fails in her duties as awoman
Posted: at 26-04-2010 09:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- prince316 at 26-04-2010 11:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: abbeyy74 on 26-04-2010 09:22 PM
it is just a pity that this story is about a woman misbehaving this time,i tell u guys we always here of this most times,for me if such situation happens that one of the partners have to travell i will prefer maybe a shot visa and even if possible the men should go rather than the woman,one is that nobody complain when a man misbehave and have extra family abroad apart from his family back home.2 is that the man should take care of his family not that i wont help but will be very careful the kind of help before it turns out a problem for me.3 is that why should the woman that is surpose to take care of her children leave them alone all becos she wants to make the husband happy which she can not even happen,i tell u from experience some times the more u tries to satisfied a man the more he has one justification or the other about u.4 is that i will not even risk leaving my husband for another woman to help share my bed with him maybe when he feels lonely in the night.so i think this woman have not taken a good step from begining thats is why she fails in her duties as awoman

sorry oooo, from what u have experience such is life....
Posted: at 26-04-2010 11:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bazemaster at 26-04-2010 11:47 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmmm, still thinking................

Posted: at 26-04-2010 11:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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