I think its high time i voice out, i need help (Page 6)

Date: 13-05-2010 3:56 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Olumide Vincent
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- ejibond at 16-05-2010 02:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Posted: at 16-05-2010 02:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- endur4real at 16-05-2010 03:24 PM (13 years ago)
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my brother have hope in god he will do it in ur life again
Posted: at 16-05-2010 03:24 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bisma4luv at 16-05-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago)
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i think u should live all thing 2 God.if there is life there is hope wait 2 God time
Posted: at 16-05-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- ifymifan at 16-05-2010 10:43 PM (13 years ago)
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My Good friend, You have lost focus in life .the first step is to get your mind together and reawaken your Thinking  , What to do and start making money like others will get into your mind. For now my man, forget woman, when money comes woman will come , get the money first .With money you have choice to make but for more choice make you.   
Posted: at 16-05-2010 10:43 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- mykie at 17-05-2010 12:29 AM (13 years ago)
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Olumbareal... I must say it exactly as it is... with your reasoning and grammer, it will be very difficult for me to employ you. Enterprenuers search for people with a strong can do attitude. Your presentation and grammer lack some features that befit your "graduate" status. I would not have blamed you completely for this. Lack of quality education and jobs are the bane of the Nigerian soceity. Now let's come to my pieces of advice.

Guy, as much as possible try to develop yourself, if you really want to position yourself for some good jobs with mouth-watering offers. The internet can help you. Please spend less time on social network sites.

As per babes, there are various categories of gurls. At your condition, you sure do deserve someone to massage your neck. I wonder why all these guys will advice you to avoid babes. I really wonder how you'll be able to manage. So look for a girl within your category and get your fun with her. But try as much as possible to be nice & true to her. There's a girl for everyman. As per your girl that left you, take heart. Such is life. But don't tell me you intend to tie an innocent girl down when you are out of school. Then come to the public and paint her bad because she left you. A girl has got some needs and really have to move on. That's quite comical. Please don't blame her. She was so good to you in school and you enjoyed it while it lasted.

You might think about relocation if your current city has not provided some strong promises. You also need to be sure that your choice of study will thrive in your current or selected environment. If you read Zoology and any such course that do not have bearing in the Nigeria of today, your best bet is to quickly seek for any means of self employment.

All, I am surprised at the rate Nigerian men lost faith in their ladies. Babes this is an issue of serious concern. There must be something you girls are doing wrongly. Please look inwards and change your ways. let's discuss this topic on another forum.
Posted: at 17-05-2010 12:29 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Originalsly at 17-05-2010 01:17 AM (13 years ago)
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My friend, accept the fact that the woman played you. She never loved you but saw a bright future for herself once you obtained a visa. You didn't and she wasted no more time. You were a mere rung on her ladder. Forget her. She was and never would have been good for you. Jobs are very difficult to find but you must be prepared to stoop before you conquer. Swallow your pride and accept the first job...any job just to maintain yourself and your sanity. Or, be self employed.You must have some talent. Seek and you will find. If you can't maintain yourself then you wouldn't be able obtain, maintain or retain a woman. Straighten your priorities.
Posted: at 17-05-2010 01:17 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- wealthy at 17-05-2010 02:35 AM (13 years ago)
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since u ve bn praying and fasting, i will suggest u send ur c.v to the right place and ask God to connect u to the right person. don't loose hope for God is with u.
Posted: at 17-05-2010 02:35 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Shoggyben at 17-05-2010 07:00 AM (13 years ago)
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Bros, what a sympathetic story, but i must tell u, u avnt gon tru half of wat am goin tru. Stop complainin, stand up u ar a man, dnt submit to self-pity or allow any1 2 pity ur conditn, rise 2 d task, face d challenge, it should strengthen u, nt 2 breake u. Let d fckin woman go, if u ar made, dey ll com 4 u, i fil u, u cud b lonely smtims, yes am in ur shoe, bt u no wat i tel masef, dam anygirl dat cnt stand my tribulatn. Jst bliev in ursef, use ur brain, try harder, push harder, use all d drops of blood in u, fight 4 ur future, b aggresiv bt wisely, hey luk around u, u cn actualy c in d dark. Broda, dis s wat our ruler leaders av subjected us 2 bt 4 hw long do we complain. Rmemba, out of distres i cal on my God & he answer my cry, d psalmist say. It is he dat goes 2 war dat s cald a warrior & he dat conqurs dat s cald a conquror. Olumide, there's greatnes in u, find it. Prioritiz ur goals, tak dem 1 afta d oda diligently & persistently. Pple dat c u as burden cud actualy b a savin grac, jst tink broda, dnt liv ur mind idle & abov all dnt liv God out of dis, u nid him real gud & u knw mst tims we actualy our own enemy, think abt dis, & i hope 2 c u giv testimony sun
Posted: at 17-05-2010 07:00 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- betylini at 17-05-2010 08:32 AM (13 years ago)
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you  need  a job you  need  christ
Posted: at 17-05-2010 08:32 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- fabmic at 17-05-2010 08:44 AM (13 years ago)
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tellam 4 me
Posted: at 17-05-2010 08:44 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sexysisi at 17-05-2010 09:55 AM (13 years ago)
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Sorry 4 ur plight.It1st of all 1 of dos tins u go tru in life.I bet u'll 1 da look bck n smile......1st of al,ask urself dis ques....Am i ready 2 move on?Am i ready 2 get serious in life?Will i handle tins in a more matured way?Wat xactly am i looking 4 in life?Wat r my longterm goals?Am i ready2 start small?...........Blive me u gotta move on n 4get bout dat lady cos obviously she has moved on n d last tin u shud b tinking of now is a relationship cos man, u aint got a job so u cnt take kai of urself talkless of anoda.Relationships cum wit sum kindda responsibilities.................R u willing 2 get serious in life?I want a job dsn't mean am ready 4 it.U gotta b ready 2 focus n achieve sumtin.Wen u r,den ur ready 2 get serious.......................If u cnt handle issues,stress,responsibilities in a more matured way,u aint ready 4 anytin.It's nt askin 4 ppl's opinion but how u'll use dis opinions well.Wats ur level of maturity like?................N,wat do u want in life?If u dnt already no dat by now u mite as well go bck 2 sucking ur mama's Bosom ...............In d next 10yrs,wer do u c urself?U gotta ave longterm goals u'll work wit.Dnt jos live 4 d moment...............Will u accept a job dat pays 5k?It's small yes but better dan notin.Will u start small n grow gradually?........................If u can ans dis ques.,ur ready 2 move 4ward.....All d best in life.
Posted: at 17-05-2010 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- docreala at 17-05-2010 10:07 AM (13 years ago)
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if @ dis point wif all the advise & contributions, dis guy still dey demoralized then nuffin go do am again.

so enuff wif the advise mek una just give am job.
Posted: at 17-05-2010 10:07 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ify4life at 17-05-2010 10:20 AM (13 years ago)
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U WILL GET A JOB DON STOP  BELIVING IN GOD.

Posted: at 17-05-2010 10:20 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- satinu at 17-05-2010 10:21 AM (13 years ago)
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 Sad tell me your problem so that i can solve it for you..........
Posted: at 17-05-2010 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- docreala at 17-05-2010 11:03 AM (13 years ago)
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ok satinu well done,God bless & welcome i hope fit solve more wey dey come?
Posted: at 17-05-2010 11:03 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bhl72 at 17-05-2010 11:45 AM (13 years ago)
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Its a phase in life,u'd definitely get tru it.Juz be steadfast in ur prayers,n av faith....Instead of wallowin in self pity,put brain 2 work,n pray God 4 ideas,on wat 2 do,no matter how lil it may be,n if a job cumz along,u grab it....Wish u all d best!

so much has been told u my friend... many of us have been there b4. Usually, it is a phase which u can choose to take as preparatory or see it as an end. Use the time to prepare for opportunities so that when they come, you'll not be found wanting. But one thing is sure, this phase will pass...

Forget the babes now, at least not as your primary focus; get what u need, babes will look for you when u have arrived
Posted: at 17-05-2010 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omoluabi4 at 17-05-2010 12:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Sory brother, thats the reality of naija for you. But who says there are no jobs? I wrote a book on this topic lately. you just need to read it. There are many strategies of securing your choice job. lets talk more on naija pals.Am sure there will be a difference after reading that book.can't give you some hints now since some have paid money to get the books in the market....
Evelyn
Posted: at 17-05-2010 12:08 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- esonu at 17-05-2010 12:21 PM (13 years ago)
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huy poster ur issue is too complicated.. i don't know what to tell u

Posted: at 17-05-2010 12:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Pearl25870 at 17-05-2010 01:17 PM (13 years ago)
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My Brother, Your parents sent you to school to learn how to be independent and assist them too as they are getting aged.
Why wait for a non existing white collar job When you have all limbs functioning very well?
Humble yourself, go in for any menial job that will keep your body and soul together and GOD in his infinite mercy will show you the way where there seems to be no way.
Leave the issue of pleasure and pride for now and all shall be weel with you in JESUS NAME...AMEN...
Keep trusting and wait on HIM alone.
GOD BLESS YOU RICHLY FROM THIS MOMENT HENCEFORT.
Good Luck....
Posted: at 17-05-2010 01:17 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- esonu at 17-05-2010 01:23 PM (13 years ago)
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pearl25870 are u tell him not to f**K because his parents sent him to school? konji go kill himooooooo

Posted: at 17-05-2010 01:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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