Culture; Love it or hate it

In Nigerian culture, its literally a custom for people to finish education before they actually find love. When you live in countries like the UK, your faced with pressure to be in a relationship especially when you see people younger than you with someone. But seeing as we're still schooling should it be right or wrong and do you think that customs should be broken if we're not living in Nigeria? Like they say; when in rome do as the romans do.

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Posted: at 18-09-2008 03:58 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

There ain't no culture to save you from the Falls or Winter cold.

Posted: at 18-09-2008 07:39 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

I wont say you are totally right, because the word "CULTURE" is used out of context in this writeup. Like you writely said those societies are societies where young adults have liberty to explore and issues such as sex education which some people see as a taboo in our part of the world is being exposed to the young people in those societies. Moreover,most of the instances you might be referring dont end up as success stories, most of them are just what i'll term trial and error.
The thing with the Nigeria scenario is the case of pretence. We all pretend as if this things dont happen in Nigeria.

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Posted: at 18-09-2008 08:23 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

so your telling me i should have a boyfriend and get distracted away from my studies? to be honest it depends on how much respect you have for yourself. and if in rome people go around killing each other, i must follow them and kill as well?

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Posted: at 19-09-2008 08:24 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Some are good while some are bad

Posted: at 27-08-2015 02:08 PM (8 years ago) | Hero