10 surprising signs that they're interested

Date: 15-05-2010 3:08 pm (13 years ago) | Author: 14_Inches
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- at 15-05-2010 03:08 PM (13 years ago)
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10 surprising signs that they're interested
When someone fancies you, they don’t always show it in the way you’d expect. Miss the signals, and your chance has gone. Next time, look out for these surprising signs – and don’t let ‘em get away.

 

1. They don’t talk to you

They’re so scared of looking foolish in front of you that they don’t risk it. You need to take charge. Start a conversation. Expect some nervous babble, but be encouraging and interested. Their confidence will grow and they’ll soon start to make sense.

2. They tease you

Schoolkids tease their crushes in the school playground, and none of us ever really outgrows the habit. Attack is the best form of defence, in love as in war. If someone you fancy teases you, don’t give them a slap; give them your phone number.

3. They hide from you

As with the teasing and silent treatment, this one is a form of defence. If you can’t see them, you can’t see them fall on their face, blush until they burn, or humiliate themselves in random heartbreaking ways.

4. They don’t seem to remember you

So, you had a brief drunken encounter six years ago, and it has faded from their memory. That’s what they want you to think. They want you to think that they’re far too busy and popular to recall it. In fact, the memory is etched onto their brain and lived out in filthy fantasies every single night.

5. They suggest splitting the bill on your first date
 
If you’re a woman, you probably assume that he’d buy you dinner if he fancied you. If you’re a man, you assume that she’d let you pay if she fancied you. Wrong. When someone’s interested, they’re careful not to seem over-keen, or out to buy affection or sex, or – in the woman’s case – tight-fisted.

6. They push back their shoulders when they see you

It’s not an obvious signal, but it’s a very common one. We respond subconsciously to an attractive person by improving our posture: men puff out their chests slightly, and women arch their backs.

7. They flirt with your friend

Rather than be rejected by you, they’re seducing you by stealth. If they can impress your friend, your friend will spread the approving word to you. Then they can find out from your friend whether you’re interested.
 
8. Their friend flirts with you

They’ve sent their mate on a mission to involve you in a group night out, where they will make their move. Classic strategy.

9. They babble nonsense at you

The power of your attractiveness has short-circuited their brain. Chances are they’re dimly aware that their mouth is spouting nonsense, but it’s out of their control.

10. They ring you up to moan about a terrible date

You think you’re in the Friend Zone, but the truth is that they want any excuse to phone you. What’s more, by whingeing

14_Inches

Posted: at 15-05-2010 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- qunodinga at 15-05-2010 03:10 PM (13 years ago)
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....brb
Posted: at 15-05-2010 03:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 15-05-2010 03:19 PM (13 years ago)
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facts!

Posted: at 15-05-2010 03:19 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Don-ziggy at 15-05-2010 05:57 PM (13 years ago)
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to long man this is note book
Posted: at 15-05-2010 05:57 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chummyli at 15-05-2010 06:44 PM (13 years ago)
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A nice piece of work

Posted: at 15-05-2010 06:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- donsino at 15-05-2010 06:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Interested in what na....i be mumu 4 dis kind matter o una no vex abeg
Posted: at 15-05-2010 06:59 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pires07 at 15-05-2010 07:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Nice1. espcially No.9

Posted: at 15-05-2010 07:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 15-05-2010 08:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Is that so? Nice!
Posted: at 15-05-2010 08:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Bazemaster at 15-05-2010 08:17 PM (13 years ago)
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ok, i c

Posted: at 15-05-2010 08:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- luvvy at 15-05-2010 08:23 PM (13 years ago)
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so after dis wetin go come happen?
Posted: at 15-05-2010 08:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ruffrugged at 15-05-2010 09:11 PM (13 years ago)
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it was long but i read it. all of it.
Posted: at 15-05-2010 09:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Tuks at 15-05-2010 09:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Nice piece!
Posted: at 15-05-2010 09:24 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dre222 at 15-05-2010 10:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Why cant ladies open up,but they have decided to eat up their minds.na waoooo for ladies.
Posted: at 15-05-2010 10:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dre222 at 15-05-2010 10:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Why cant ladies open up,but they have decided to eat up their minds in silence.na waoooo for ladies.
Posted: at 15-05-2010 10:43 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dre222 at 15-05-2010 10:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Why cant ladies open up their minds to men,but they have decided to eat up their minds in silence.na waoooo for ladies.
Posted: at 15-05-2010 10:45 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dre222 at 15-05-2010 10:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Why cant ladies open up their minds to men,but they have decided to eat up their minds in silence.na waoooo for ladies.
Posted: at 15-05-2010 10:45 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dre222 at 15-05-2010 10:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Why cant ladies open up their minds to men,but they have decided to eat up their minds in silence.na waoooo for ladies.
Posted: at 15-05-2010 10:48 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dre222 at 15-05-2010 10:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Why cant ladies open up their minds to men,but they have decided to eat up their minds in silence.na waoooo for ladies.
Posted: at 15-05-2010 10:50 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- misshelly at 15-05-2010 11:43 PM (13 years ago)
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nice one @ poster, am going to copy it for someone special
Posted: at 15-05-2010 11:43 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chrisphemy at 16-05-2010 01:50 AM (13 years ago)
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i wil watch out 4 it
Posted: at 16-05-2010 01:50 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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