we ve been so close for like 7-8 yrs though we weren't dating, even though we have so many things in common, he got married and we still pally as we used to only for him to tell me few weeks ago that i was the love of his life and that he wanted me be his wife but i never gave him the opportunity. But the truth is that for all these years he never told me anything about love, dating or to be his wife how come he is talking of opportunity?
Posted: at 20-05-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 20-05-2010 03:51 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Probably he was afraid of rejection..........Do you know what a rejection from a close friend can do?...anyway he missed his chance too..........and he is not alone in this, so many married couples later realise their mistakes years later.........but am sure you arent considering becoming a 2nd wife!
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Posted: at 20-05-2010 03:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
we ve been so close for like 7-8 yrs though we weren't dating, even though we have so many things in common, he got married and we still pally as we used to only for him to tell me few weeks ago that i was the love of his life and that he wanted me be his wife but i never gave him the opportunity. But the truth is that for all these years he never told me anything about love, dating or to be his wife how come he is talking of opportunity?
would u have acepted him if he asked u out then?
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 20-05-2010 03:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
we ve been so close for like 7-8 yrs though we weren't dating, even though we have so many things in common, he got married and we still pally as we used to only for him to tell me few weeks ago that i was the love of his life and that he wanted me be his wife but i never gave him the opportunity. But the truth is that for all these years he never told me anything about love, dating or to be his wife how come he is talking of opportunity?
would u have acepted him if he asked u out then?
he never asked, maybe because we get along very well and he respects my opinion on issues,always has passion for my dreams.
Posted: at 20-05-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
are u proposing on his behalf???.........that question of yours doesnt arise anymore.......it wont change anything now!
why should i do that? I only asked cos i knw if as at then the poor dude decided to take the friendship to another level girls being what they re, she would probably say NO and come up with possible reasons like "i see him like a brother and friend not a lover". Now the dude is married and freely opened up to her, she's now feeling she've lost the chance. Abeg no had feelings jor u guyz re difficult to understand.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 20-05-2010 06:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
the issue now is that he wants me to always hangout with him, he wants to talk to me everyday, he get jealous when am receiving calls and ask me some silly questions, he wants to know what i will be doing by weekend, he wants to know if i can workout a trip with him in any of his outside work, he wants me to start a swimming class with him to keep fit infact he keeps on asking me when are you gonna start d class, all these things he never did when he wasn't married o. I'm trying so much to avoid him but he keep asking me what bad have i done you? i don't know how to tell him my mind without hurting him.
Posted: at 21-05-2010 11:05 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
chudy1800 at 21-05-2010 12:11 PM (13 years ago) (m)
He has to live with it,for me I think is too late for all those things he is doing and you have to remained him that he is married tell him your mind, as a friend you dont want to break his marriage.
Posted: at 21-05-2010 12:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
He has to live with it,for me I think is too late for all those things he is doing and you have to remained him that he is married tell him your mind, as a friend you dont want to break his marriage.
i can never dream of that, cos i wont want any woman to break mine in the future.................the funniest part of the whole thing is that he doesn't hide his feelings for me from his wife, can you imagine that the wife specially invited me for his last birthday, according to her that it will make him much happier if he sees me. Why this love come dey shark am now?
Posted: at 21-05-2010 12:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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