PALS PLS UR ADVISE IS IMPORTANT HERE FOR SOLUTION

pls pal my friend is confused she is married with two kids but the husband family will not allow her husband to face his own families problem like good food for the children, good education etc.why? because everytime the family will called him for different kind of expenses and he had to send it to them. my friend will keep quiet so that the family will not say she dont want him to give them money because that is how the man has been doing blf married but now that is married he dont want to adjust to meet up with his own family pals pls what must she do.

Posted: at 3-06-2010 02:09 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

let her divorce him

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Posted: at 3-06-2010 02:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

divorce is not a solution to a malfunctioned, self-centered, hatred and bittered family/ in-laws.

Posted: at 3-06-2010 02:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Dont mind Teeco...........divorce ko, divorce ni.........

I want to believe that this ur friend's husband is the 1st male or probably the one dat is well to do amongst his siblings.....She needs have a heart to heart talk with him, he needs know she is not trying to stop him from helping the extended family, but he should know dat his immediate family is his 1st priority!....Meanwhile she should pray that God strengthens her husband so dat he would be able to meet most of their needs, both for the immediate and extended family!

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Posted: at 3-06-2010 02:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

And your friend need to help the hubby too...........let her not forget that when a woman marries a man, she marries plus his relations!....dats how it is in Nigeria (let me not say Africa)

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Posted: at 3-06-2010 02:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

i rest my case

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Posted: at 3-06-2010 02:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

let the husband talk to whosoever dat is disturbing him, let dem know dat hes other responsibilities

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Posted: at 3-06-2010 02:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero