"I Was Raped By a Popular Spiritual Leader" - BBNaija BamBam

Published 2 weeks ago by: Daniel Bosai
at 08:18 AM, 30/06/2019 (2 weeks ago)

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Big Brother Naija star, Bamike popularly known as BamBam, has also revealed that she was raped by her ex-boyfriend and a spiritual leader.

This is coming in the wake of the rape saga between Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of Commonwealth of Zion Assembly (COZA) and singer Timi Dakolo’s wife, Busola.




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My heart has been heavy since this rape situation started. Like I feel physical pains in my heart. I’ve been truly sad and have never wished that justice be truly served to these heartless! insensitive! brutal! unrepentant rapists!!!

Cos I have been there, I know what it does to the mind and self esteem of the victim.

It was with an ex boyfriend and a spiritual leader I trusted. Took me meeting another man who saw me for me before I healed completely. Sadly I couldn’t end up with him, but God used him.

Be kind to women, some men have been raped too. Truly be kind to people, you don’t know what true love and true transfer of kindness love and light can do to another person. I’m in tears as I type cos it hurts really bad just remembering and knowing how victims feel.

Cos when you take the body of another without their consent you mentally scar them too! Yo! I trust God and want to trust the law to do the needful!

I tried not to relate this to my personal self but when you hear experiences you lived, you become restless, memories hunt you. I have been refreshing all the updates on the movement/protest for tomorrow.

Something in my head keeps ringing would justice be served this time? Another is hoping and praying that it is truly SERVED rightly! I cannot overemphasize how a win for Busola will be victory for all!

Lord help us all.

Such a sick perverted generation.

For the longest I didn’t realise I haven’t fully healed and mentally/emotionally dealt with what those events did to me. I repressed them. Repressed the memories shared with no one.

It’s important to surround yourself with kind people who listen and understand you. It helps to heal properly. And please don’t repress, prayerfully talk to the right people.

I look forward to Nigeria having a functional rehabilitation center for victims of rape.



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Darita at 08:28 AM, 30/06/2019 (2 weeks ago)
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kaposky at 08:32 AM, 30/06/2019 (2 weeks ago)
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E BE LIKE SAY NA RAPE ALLEGATIONS AND ACCUSATION DEY INVOKE NOW FOR ALL THESE STUPID LIE LIE GIRLS, LADIES AND WOMEN. NDI ARA, MAD PEOPLE
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SweetDaddy1 at 08:57 AM, 30/06/2019 (2 weeks ago)
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Religion is a business SCAM formed using the name of God. Some steal in the name of God and some kill in the name of God. Most religious leaders are rapist, some have gangs of armed robbers, kidnappers, terrorists, tugs and scammers working for them. Even in Europe and North America Children who were raped by pastors over 30 - 50 years ago came out to name those who abused them and the pastors beg for forgiveness and resigned. The religious business body organization paid compensations to the victims.
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Baye77 at 10:18 AM, 30/06/2019 (2 weeks ago)
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It's really a crazy one...a lot of people dont kno the damage rape does to people psychologically...I kno that because I have been with people that were abused sexually...its a crazy experience that no one should have to go thru...
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Knowman at 12:06 PM, 30/06/2019 (2 weeks ago)
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I was raped by oprah Winfrey,  please I want justice not money . Help me !!!!!!!!
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ikpotokin at 01:39 PM, 30/06/2019 (2 weeks ago)
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YORUBA PEOPLE WANT TO IMPORT THIS WHITE MENTALITY OF RAPE TO NIGERIA AND IT WILL LATER BECOME A BUSINESS TO THE IGBOS
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negyy2010 at 08:04 PM, 30/06/2019 (2 weeks ago)
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Na rape come dey on board na abi?
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fineboy77 at 11:45 AM, 1/07/2019 (2 weeks ago)
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Quote from: ikpotokin on 01:39 PM, 30/06/2019
YORUBA PEOPLE WANT TO IMPORT THIS WHITE MENTALITY OF RAPE TO NIGERIA AND IT WILL LATER BECOME A BUSINESS TO THE IGBOS
You are on another level of STUPID !!!

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