HELP! He Wants To Marry Me But Doesnt Want My 5 Year Old Son - Confused Lady Seeks Advice

We have been dating for almost two years and he has now proposed to marry me.

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But he says he doesn't want my 5 year old son to live with us when we get married.

He also doesn't want me to receive child and financial support for the child from the father.

He says the boy should go to his father. .
When he met me, I had broken my relationship with the father of my son because he was unfaithful and made other women pregnant. .
I've brought up my son alone and the boy literally has no relationship with his father. But the father occasionally sends money or clothes to support the boy but he won't take the child.

I love my son and I wish to continue to bring him up as my own. I also don't have my own mother who I probably could have taken the child to.

But he says that the boy makes him uncomfortable as he looks like his father(the father to the boy is well know in Lusaka).

Please advise me. Do I give up this child to my aunties or break the relationship ?

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Posted: at 23-09-2019 08:36 PM (4 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Please if he doesn’t accept ur child den leave dat relationship one time.

Posted: at 23-09-2019 09:21 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac

He doesn't love you

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Posted: at 23-09-2019 09:31 PM (4 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Posted: at 23-09-2019 09:46 PM (4 years ago) | Newbie

My dear lady,  I would like to advise you to break up that relationship,  your child is your first joy,  any man who truly love u will also love your child,  else if u enter into that relationship,  trust me he will treat you like an animal without a direction,  and then u will see the real man he is made up and the relationship will still break up. That man never love u. Take it or leave.  

Posted: at 24-09-2019 12:57 AM (4 years ago) | Newbie

YOU BETTER KAWASAKI.....

Posted: at 24-09-2019 08:00 AM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac