Graduate Girls and Eleventh Hour Marriage! Why? (Page 7)

MAY BE THEY GAT NO CHOICE

Posted: at 10-08-2010 06:24 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Passing.

Posted: at 10-08-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Hhmmmmmmmm... Not a good enough Excuse for me tho... At least she has my number

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Posted: at 10-08-2010 10:26 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Abi? Hopefully

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Posted: at 10-08-2010 10:43 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

You really do like to preach around here,  don’t  you?  Anyhow, i think your preaching contains some element of truth  most of the time.  However, what keeps me wondering this time is how you came to the conclusion that any woman would consider being nicely asked a favour by her man as bossy.  You know what my opinion is: it’s like trying to give a dog a bad name in order to hang it. Just so you know, a  lot of women are not daft, whether educated or otherwise.

Since you’ve brought it upon yourself to lecture us on female submissiveness/subservience, i’m really interested in what else you’ve got to say in this area.

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Posted: at 10-08-2010 11:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

   I'm not trying to preach or do anything or that sort. I was just stating the obvious. Women like to be pampered by their men, but they don't want to return the favor by pampering their men. I try to live and see my life in a Godly way. It is required that men LOVE their wives and Women should RESPECT their husbands. Also, maybe you do not know that God gave husbands the power to either Bless or Curse their wives. My point here is that most educated women think that doing things for the husbands are demeaning. For example making breakfast and serving him before he goes to work, OR cleaning up the house, Or even cooking dinner for the family after a day of work. Because you are educated shouldn't take away the responsibilities you have as a wife, (and please do not give me that excuse of why can't the man help in cooking or doing laundary or cleaning up the house) because I know that when your car breaks down or when the sink starts leaking or when it is time to cut the lawn, it is the man that is called upon to do these things. I feel sorry for the lady saying "she put her husband in his place." I hope that very soon he will put her in her place which is out in the streets.

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Posted: at 11-08-2010 12:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

one of the reason why majority of Nigerian girls dont want to married on time is that most of them are looking for mr right and some of them are not ready to take instruction from a man more so some of them lack of respect

Posted: at 11-08-2010 08:05 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

I was not bragging, just stating a fact. No one rules over anyone. We compromise. But I do not let anyone run over me.  Why would a woman let a man rule if he does not know what he is doing?  If the woman has the knowledge about something, wouldn't you listen to her? Or would you let your ego befall you?

Posted: at 11-08-2010 09:30 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

I was here

Posted: at 11-08-2010 09:50 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Amen, bless every one both friends and enemies and curse no one is my preaching or rather what I preach.

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Posted: at 11-08-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac