WHAT CAUSES ARGUEMENTS DURING MARRIAGE?? (Page 2)

Date: 13-08-2010 12:16 am (13 years ago) | Author: omorewa
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- lonelysnow at 13-08-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago)
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for the married men and women.  just passing
Posted: at 13-08-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omorewa at 13-08-2010 03:38 PM (13 years ago)
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you will get married one day now Tongue

Posted: at 13-08-2010 03:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 13-08-2010 04:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: lonelysnow on 13-08-2010 03:13 PM
for the married men and women.  just passing

Posted: at 13-08-2010 04:33 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- enc4life at 13-08-2010 04:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 13-08-2010 12:12 PM
lolz
Posted: at 13-08-2010 04:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- JAZZLYNN at 14-08-2010 03:49 AM (13 years ago)
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No marriage is perfect everyone has their fault, so in marriage there are going 2 b arguments, disagreements and so on, but the important thing is how u deal with them.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:49 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Amamus at 14-08-2010 05:57 AM (13 years ago)
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I is not uncommon or abnormal to have disagreements when married(because you are 2imperfect pple coming together), infact you are more prone to upset eachother at this point cos you spend a lot more time together as opposed to when you are dating and as such u see somethings which u must've seen while u guys were dating.

The key is how u handle it. Both parties have to be understanding and have the resolve and commitment to work it out...it is work people!

Hopefully u learn and grow and things get smoother till it is reduced to the bearest minimum.

Time waits for no one, why waste it(being bitter and resentful). enjoy every moment with the one you love
Posted: at 14-08-2010 05:57 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 14-08-2010 10:33 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on 13-08-2010 12:16 AM
i thought that couples should understand themselves before marriage..
so what is the point of getting married and later you are fed up or filing for divorce Huh?

arguements during relationship is getting to know each other but arguements in marriage i dont quiet get....

thank you!!

We don't fully know ourselves and understand readily how we would respond to certain things in certain new circumstances so there's no fully understanding other people either. that's just ideal and it's thots like that that lead to messier fights in marriage. U think U will never have disagreements cos it's all hay and sunshine before U get married. when u eventually do fight U start thinking of the marriage as a totally wrong decision and before u know it the devl is suggesting divorce and U are buying into it.

Couples fight cause bonding requires friction. Some fight for other reasons sha.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 10:33 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Beauti4 at 14-08-2010 04:22 PM (13 years ago)
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if u refused to open up for the other partner to knw who u r durin courtship; then there will always b arguments after the other. some doesn't even take time to knw each other well enough b4 marriage. there are some healthy arguments(to strengthen the both of u, that is if u r compatible) and sickel arguments (it will crumble your feet to bottom of the marital mountain and there is no way u can climb up again, if u r infatuated this pple; marryin some1 based on what he/she has.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:22 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- omorewa at 14-08-2010 06:00 PM (13 years ago)
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interesting....... Cool

Posted: at 14-08-2010 06:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 14-08-2010 06:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Infidelity is the key cause

Posted: at 14-08-2010 06:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omorewa at 14-08-2010 06:39 PM (13 years ago)
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okay

Posted: at 14-08-2010 06:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 14-08-2010 06:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Poster When l get married l'll Come and reply 2 dis message when me and her Argue

Posted: at 14-08-2010 06:51 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- omorewa at 15-08-2010 02:43 PM (13 years ago)
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u no serious kennee.... oya go marry now now Smiley

Posted: at 15-08-2010 02:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 16-08-2010 12:03 AM (13 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy No Shaking... l hope say yu get Sweet Sister for me  Cool

Posted: at 16-08-2010 12:03 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 16-08-2010 12:57 AM (13 years ago)
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peeping
Posted: at 16-08-2010 12:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- omorewa at 19-08-2010 11:33 AM (13 years ago)
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lolzzzzzzzzz kennee

@ceejay peep well

Posted: at 19-08-2010 11:33 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- justloveme at 20-08-2010 10:55 AM (13 years ago)
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Na money dey cause am.  if get too much na walla (women go luk 4 u) if u no get na walla
Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- omorewa at 20-08-2010 11:51 AM (13 years ago)
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tell me about it.........

Posted: at 20-08-2010 11:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 20-08-2010 10:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on 19-08-2010 11:33 AM
lolzzzzzzzzz kennee

@ceejay peep well

Is dat a Yes?  Cool

Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mazi at 20-08-2010 11:19 PM (13 years ago)
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hardly will any r/s be free of one form of argument or the other. it comes wit the package!
but it takes more than jst argument to divorce.
Posted: at 20-08-2010 11:19 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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