I NID ADVICE

@poster 4 him being ur 1st guy nd d person dat took ur virginity its gonna be kinda difficult 4 u to 4get him..bt its berra u let him go coz i don't fink he still loves u, mayb he jst wanna b usin u as his sex machine as per he was d person dat disvirgind u.. since u don't luv any of d oda 3 guyz u dated..my advice 4 u is jst 2 giv relationship a break nd get hooked up wif sumfin else..i know d guy will fink u will olwayz come back 2 him due 2 d fact dat he was d 1st person.. bt my dear dat guy doesn't worth u nd d issue of him postn on fb..is such a childish act..jst try 2 4get about him 4 now nd stay away frm relationship nt until u've fully recovered..nd ready 2 love again..

I MADE IT DIS  LONG SO U LL B ABLE TO UNDERSTAND SO  IM BEGGING YOU 2 TAKE D TIME 2 READ IT COS I NEED YOUR HONEST ADVICE.i dated dis guy 4 a year,he was d first guy i fell in luv n who took my virginity,we had dis SMALL quarrel we culdnt resolve cos he wasnt willing 2 talk bout it,then he startd putting sm silly stuffs on his facebook status lik 'he wantd 2 b left alone'or flirting wiv oda gurls on fb.dere was 1 of his status dt i saw dt made me vry angry n i textd him dt i culdnt take anymore of it dt its so over wiv us.he didnt reply d txt he only emailed a reply(as if we were online lovers)dt if dts wot i wantd dere no problem.so i had 2 cal him d nxt day n went 2 see me.he was lyk 'so wot if he put up sm silly stuff on his status,does dt mean he was refering 2 me' n dt d affection isnt working 4 us anymore dt we av 2 break up n deres anoda girl,we had sex n i left..it has been 8 mnths afta d breakup n av dated 3 guys afta him,they were all gud guys beta dan him in evry aspect buh i jst didnt luv them.the problem is now dt me n  my exboyfrnd(he has a girlfriend who i think he loves)are now talking again(sm few calls,he cald me lyk 2 times n i cald him lyk 2 times)buh mostly we only see each oda online.he told me he wantd 2 see me again abt 3wks ago, we arranged a place 2 meet n we met,we talkd abt general stuff(skul,music etc)he wantd 2 say sory abt d breakup buh i didnt let him.i txtd him 4 days afta didnt buh reply(i wasnt xpecting him 2 anyway)buh i still luv him,i av dated 3 guys who ar far beta dan him buh i culdnt luv dem.shuld i tell him i stil care abt him vry much n he shuld giv our relatnshp a 2nd chance even though he has anoda gf?

P.s.. Wuld he try 2 meet me again after 8 mnts,if he doesnt want me back?.meaningful advice ll b well appreciated..thank yu