HE WANTS TO TAKE HER AWAY FROM ME

Date: 08-09-2010 5:47 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Master John Adikpe
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- at 8-09-2010 05:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Please read to the end and help me out.

This guy approached my girl friend for a relationship. My girl reported
the case to me and equally told me that she refused the guy's request.

The problem now is that, the guy keep calling her phone and a times,
visits her at home. He always asked my girl questions such as: "do you
know whether you are the only girl he has?" "If he can spend for you,
why can't he spend for other girls out there?" He equally told her that,
there is nothing wrong with having two guys at the same time. She is
really confused and seems to no longer trust me.

I reside in the same area with the guy and he claimed to know me very
well. To be sincere, I may know him but, I don't know him by name, so
even if should meet him on the way, I may not know him. I have been trying
to meet him but, he keeps running away from me.

I am worry because my girl insisted that she wanted to be a friend to him,
which I don't like because she always gives good compliments about him
in my presence. So, I felt something is really going on between the both
of them. What should I do? Please guys, I need your advices.

Posted: at 8-09-2010 05:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- esonu at 8-09-2010 05:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on  8-09-2010 05:47 PM
Please read to the end and help me out.

This guy approached my girl friend for a relationship. My girl reported
the case to me and equally told me that she refused the guy's request.

The problem now is that, the guy keep calling her phone and a times,
visits her at home. He always asked my girl questions such as: "do you
know whether you are the only girl he has?" "If he can spend for you,
why can't he spend for other girls out there?" He equally told her that,
there is nothing wrong with having two guys at the same time. She is
really confused and seems to no longer trust me.

I reside in the same area with the guy and he claimed to know me very
well. To be sincere, I may know him but, I don't know him by name, so
even if should meet him on the way, I may not know him. I have been trying
to meet him but, he keeps running away from me.

I am worry because my girl insisted that she wanted to be a friend to him,
which I don't like because she always gives good compliments about him
in my presence. So, I felt something is really going on between the both
of them. What should I do? Please guys, I need your advices.

is obvious u cant read de handwriting on de wall..her heart now yearns for another!!!!!!well u can pretend as if u be mugu, monitor her closely, see de way she does things but dont give her de impression dat u are watching her..am sure what u gonna find out will make u quit de relationship

Posted: at 8-09-2010 05:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 8-09-2010 05:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Wait.your girl insist she wants to be  friends wit him after all those things he said?.Hmmmmmmmmm,ok.Listen when a woman loves you ,I mean when a woman really loves you and want to be wit you ,trust me no other prince charming or tony blair will steal her heart and she will listen to you.But the fact tht she insist on be friends with him is kind of weird.or maybe she's keeping him as "PLAN B".Or she does not want to leave you, cos you spend on her and maybe tht guy has got no more money to spend on her.Well,tell her you dont feel comfortable wit her new friend around her and if she still insist and refuse to listen then you have to start thinking twice.
Posted: at 8-09-2010 05:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 8-09-2010 06:00 PM (13 years ago)
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why do she wanna be friend with a guy she is not interested with?

Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 8-09-2010 06:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on  8-09-2010 05:47 PM
Please read to the end and help me out.

This guy approached my girl friend for a relationship. My girl reported
the case to me and equally told me that she refused the guy's request.

The problem now is that, the guy keep calling her phone and a times,
visits her at home. He always asked my girl questions such as: "do you
know whether you are the only girl he has?" "If he can spend for you,
why can't he spend for other girls out there?" He equally told her that,
there is nothing wrong with having two guys at the same time. She is
really confused and seems to no longer trust me.

I reside in the same area with the guy and he claimed to know me very
well. To be sincere, I may know him but, I don't know him by name, so
even if should meet him on the way, I may not know him. I have been trying
to meet him but, he keeps running away from me.

I am worry because my girl insisted that she wanted to be a friend to him,
which I don't like because she always gives good compliments about him
in my presence. So, I felt something is really going on between the both
of them. What should I do? Please guys, I need your advices.



Why asking for advise when you already knows what is going on ... the best meter to measure problems like this is yr heart and head, I bet you got the answer already with you.

First your girl said she doesn't want him, but the guy is already calling her phones, if i may ask, how did he got her number ? and also he's visiting her already... hehehehe.

Your girl na big playa she be.

Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 8-09-2010 06:10 PM (13 years ago)
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That's weird!
Why she would insist on their friendship with that guy,after all those?
Seriously, think a little!

Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Adikpe at 8-09-2010 06:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on  8-09-2010 05:54 PM
Quote from: Adikpe on  8-09-2010 05:47 PM
Please read to the end and help me out.

This guy approached my girl friend for a relationship. My girl reported
the case to me and equally told me that she refused the guy's request.

The problem now is that, the guy keep calling her phone and a times,
visits her at home. He always asked my girl questions such as: "do you
know whether you are the only girl he has?" "If he can spend for you,
why can't he spend for other girls out there?" He equally told her that,
there is nothing wrong with having two guys at the same time. She is
really confused and seems to no longer trust me.

I reside in the same area with the guy and he claimed to know me very
well. To be sincere, I may know him but, I don't know him by name, so
even if should meet him on the way, I may not know him. I have been trying
to meet him but, he keeps running away from me.

I am worry because my girl insisted that she wanted to be a friend to him,
which I don't like because she always gives good compliments about him
in my presence. So, I felt something is really going on between the both
of them. What should I do? Please guys, I need your advices.

is obvious u cant read de handwriting on de wall..her heart now yearns for another!!!!!!well u can pretend as if u be mugu, monitor her closely, see de way she does things but dont give her de impression dat u are watching her..am sure what u gonna find out will make u quit de relationship


THANKS GUY, IT'S TAKEN.
Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 8-09-2010 06:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  8-09-2010 06:00 PM
why do she wanna be friend with a guy she is not interested with?

IT TIRE ME O!
Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 8-09-2010 06:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on  8-09-2010 05:58 PM
Wait.your girl insist she wants to be  friends wit him after all those things he said?.Hmmmmmmmmm,ok.Listen when a woman loves you ,I mean when a woman really loves you and want to be wit you ,trust me no other prince charming or tony blair will steal her heart and she will listen to you.But the fact tht she insist on be friends with him is kind of weird.or maybe she's keeping him as "PLAN B".Or she does not want to leave you, cos you spend on her and maybe tht guy has got no more money to spend on her.Well,tell her you dont feel comfortable wit her new friend around her and if she still insist and refuse to listen then you have to start thinking twice.

Good one from you. Thanks dear.
Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 8-09-2010 06:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on  8-09-2010 05:47 PM
Please read to the end and help me out.

This guy approached my girl friend for a relationship. My girl reported
the case to me and equally told me that she refused the guy's request.

The problem now is that, the guy keep calling her phone and a times,
visits her at home
. He always asked my girl questions such as: "do you
know whether you are the only girl he has?" "If he can spend for you,
why can't he spend for other girls out there?" He equally told her that,
there is nothing wrong with having two guys at the same time. She is
really confused and seems to no longer trust me.

I reside in the same area with the guy and he claimed to know me very
well. To be sincere, I may know him but, I don't know him by name, so
even if should meet him on the way, I may not know him. I have been trying
to meet him but, he keeps running away from me.

I am worry because my girl insisted that she wanted to be a friend to him,
which I don't like because she always gives good compliments about him
in my presence. So, I felt something is really going on between the both
of them. What should I do? Please guys, I need your advices.


Bros, nothing do the guy. Na market him enter and e be like Ur market woman wan sell to am.

Obviously ur gf is digging the guy otherwise she would simply tell him off.

The best advice i have for U is to just go mute. Start avoiding her and be friendly about it.

See the thing with most girls is U have to be ready to let go at anytime. When they start misbehaving and ur struggling to keep them, they only get encouragement from Ur caring so much to go and test the waters cos they think if U care so much U will forgive easily.
Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Adikpe at 8-09-2010 06:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  8-09-2010 06:10 PM
That's weird!
Why she would insist on their friendship with that guy,after all those?
Seriously, think a little!

OK
Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 8-09-2010 06:40 PM (13 years ago)
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I doubt this is about money. Seems to me like the other guy tells her stuff that excites her more than U do. Just stick to the other plan. Don't try to out do him.
Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- tyabo at 8-09-2010 06:53 PM (13 years ago)
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menhh no time here ooo..jst lay low 4 d time being..reduce wuheva u've been doing 4 her nt untill u know her real stance..
Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 8-09-2010 06:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Gbam.
Posted: at 8-09-2010 06:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Adikpe at 8-09-2010 07:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: tyabo on  8-09-2010 06:53 PM
menhh no time here ooo..jst lay low 4 d time being..reduce wuheva u've been doing 4 her nt untill u know her real stance..

THAT'S RIGHT.
Posted: at 8-09-2010 07:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 8-09-2010 07:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Grin Grin no time !!

Posted: at 8-09-2010 07:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 8-09-2010 07:35 PM (13 years ago)
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hurt the girl before she did

Posted: at 8-09-2010 07:35 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Michro at 8-09-2010 11:06 PM (13 years ago)
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I swear ur picture is not longer in her mental album.
Try get another babe and let her go.

Posted: at 8-09-2010 11:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 8-09-2010 11:16 PM (13 years ago)
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U've got no problem son! Just get urself a new gal and tell dat slutty galfriend of urs how much u fancy ur new gal

Posted: at 8-09-2010 11:16 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 8-09-2010 11:41 PM (13 years ago)
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poster just put on ur thinking cap....
Posted: at 8-09-2010 11:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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