:'( Hi Guys, Pls I want to seek your advise concerning my relationship. I am in love with this guy who claims to also love me too. He cheated on me sometimes ago & I am finding it so difficult to trust him again. When I demanded for his reason for cheating, he said it's because I was not giving him wat he wanted from me, now I give him all he wants, but then he is taking a piss, by demanding too much, and I have been unable to refuse him, because I'm scared of losing him. What can I do about him pls, because I feel like he is using me for his own pleasure, coupled with the fact that he knows how much I love him so much. I need help urgently. :'(
Posted: at 16-09-2010 08:52 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 16-09-2010 08:53 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Oh,boy! Dear,your answer is in the text you wrote!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 16-09-2010 08:53 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
tmusowoya at 16-09-2010 09:13 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Dear ladies, pls be wary of guys demanding sex as proof of luv; same with guys here. U risk being used and ignored in the end as seems to be the case with the poster!!!
Posted: at 16-09-2010 09:13 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
divineproject at 16-09-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Give them a metre and they demand for a mile..........He knows you are scared of losing him and he is taking advantage........one who takes advantage of you is not worth your love, he doesnt deserve you..........why are you scared of losing him?......was he there all your life?....when he wasnt there, didnt you cope?......oh come on gal, stop opening yourself up for someone to use you............show him dat you can do without him and he will sit up.........and that reminds me, you are in a HIGH MAINTENANCE RELATIONSHIP, that puts you in a MINUS situation...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 16-09-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
kinzremedy at 16-09-2010 12:44 PM (14 years ago) (m)
oh lass, you need to come back to your senses ..................... the guy doesn't love you again.......... he might loved you some times ago, but now FORGET he doesn't love u again............ he knows you really loves him and you don't want to loose him...... try and keep yourself from him ....... to know what his WISHES for you ..... it may take so long to discover that
Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:44 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
:'( Hi Guys, Pls I want to seek your advise concerning my relationship. I am in love with this guy who claims to also love me too. He cheated on me sometimes ago & I am finding it so difficult to trust him again. When I demanded for his reason for cheating, he said it's because I was not giving him wat he wanted from me, now I give him all he wants, but then he is taking a piss, by demanding too much, and I have been unable to refuse him, because I'm scared of losing him. What can I do about him pls, because I feel like he is using me for his own pleasure, coupled with the fact that he knows how much I love him so much. I need help urgently. :'(
U made the biggest mistake giving in to him and letting him have what he wants. That would have been Ur collateral.
The best thing I feel u can and should do now it stop giing him anything. "pikin" wey U spoil go make U cry in the long run. Stop making a man without self control out of the boy U "love."
Ps: Stop making it sound like U don't enjoy giving him what ever it is U are giving him.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero