What Can I Do

Date: 16-09-2010 8:52 am (14 years ago) | Author: Oyehyehmih Arogundance
- at 16-09-2010 08:52 AM (14 years ago)
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 :'( Hi Guys, Pls I want to seek your advise concerning my relationship. I am in love with this guy who claims to also love me too. He cheated on me sometimes ago & I am finding it so difficult to trust him again. When I demanded for his reason for cheating, he said it's  because I was not giving him wat he wanted from me, now I give him all he wants, but then he is taking a piss, by demanding too much, and I have been unable to refuse him, because I'm scared of losing him. What can I do about him pls, because I feel like he is using me for his own pleasure, coupled with the fact that he knows how  much I love him so much. I need help urgently.  :'(

Posted: at 16-09-2010 08:52 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- bittersweet at 16-09-2010 08:53 AM (14 years ago)
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Oh,boy!
Dear,your answer is in the text you wrote!
Posted: at 16-09-2010 08:53 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 16-09-2010 08:55 AM (14 years ago)
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1st, tell me how rich dat bloke is so i can know d genuineness of d love u claim to have 4 him
Posted: at 16-09-2010 08:55 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 16-09-2010 08:56 AM (14 years ago)
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He is taking your love for him for granted.  I think you need a break from him to re-organise your self.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 08:56 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- tmusowoya at 16-09-2010 09:13 AM (14 years ago)
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Dear ladies, pls be wary of guys demanding sex as proof of luv; same with guys here. U risk being used and ignored in the end as seems to be the case with the poster!!!
Posted: at 16-09-2010 09:13 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gimac at 16-09-2010 09:25 AM (14 years ago)
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what is that he is demanding,then cheat him back,infact do me i do u
Posted: at 16-09-2010 09:25 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 16-09-2010 09:29 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: gimac on 16-09-2010 09:25 AM
what is that he is demanding,then cheat him back,infact do me i do u

Do me, I do you?  Huh?
Revenge in that way?  Undecided
Come on!
Not good!
Posted: at 16-09-2010 09:29 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 16-09-2010 09:41 AM (14 years ago)
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If you cheat on him bc you want to revenge, you will end up messing your life up.  Better  forget about him and move on.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 09:41 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- gimac at 16-09-2010 09:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 16-09-2010 09:29 AM
Quote from: gimac on 16-09-2010 09:25 AM
what is that he is demanding,then cheat him back,infact do me i do u

Do me, I do you?  Huh?
Revenge in that way?  Undecided
Come on!
Not good!

u want her to kill,the poster dont want acknowledge that the are in lust not love
Posted: at 16-09-2010 09:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 16-09-2010 09:45 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: gimac on 16-09-2010 09:42 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-09-2010 09:29 AM
Quote from: gimac on 16-09-2010 09:25 AM
what is that he is demanding,then cheat him back,infact do me i do u

Do me, I do you?  Huh?
Revenge in that way?  Undecided
Come on!
Not good!

u want her to kill,the poster dont want acknowledge that the are in lust not love

I'm just saying that that kind of revenge it's not an option!
Posted: at 16-09-2010 09:45 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- gimac at 16-09-2010 09:58 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 16-09-2010 09:45 AM
Quote from: gimac on 16-09-2010 09:42 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-09-2010 09:29 AM
Quote from: gimac on 16-09-2010 09:25 AM
what is that he is demanding,then cheat him back,infact do me i do u

Do me, I do you?  Huh?
Revenge in that way?  Undecided
Come on!
Not good!

ok ask her to change,look for another guy

u want her to kill,the poster dont want acknowledge that the are in lust not love

I'm just saying that that kind of revenge it's not an option!
Posted: at 16-09-2010 09:58 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 16-09-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago)
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Give them a metre and they demand for a mile..........He knows you are scared of losing him and he is taking advantage........one who takes advantage of you is not worth your love, he doesnt deserve you..........why are you scared of losing him?......was he there all your life?....when he wasnt there, didnt you cope?......oh come on gal, stop opening yourself up for someone to use you............show him dat you can do without him and he will sit up.........and that reminds me, you are in a HIGH MAINTENANCE RELATIONSHIP, that puts you in a MINUS situation...........
Posted: at 16-09-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 16-09-2010 10:43 AM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm omo this one pass me
Posted: at 16-09-2010 10:43 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 16-09-2010 11:53 AM (14 years ago)
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You need to think about wat you really want.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 11:53 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 16-09-2010 12:16 PM (14 years ago)
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So for d rest of ur life u wan giv em everytin he need cuz u r scared to lose him??

 he is playin with ur feelins... he knw tht ur luv for him is BIG tht is why he's actin like dis...
Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:16 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jukkiebukwes at 16-09-2010 12:41 PM (14 years ago)
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act like u dont luv him anymore, refuse to give him what he wants...
Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kinzremedy at 16-09-2010 12:44 PM (14 years ago)
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oh lass, you need to come back to your senses ..................... the guy doesn't love you again.......... he might loved you some times ago, but now FORGET he doesn't love u again............ he knows you really loves him and you don't want to loose him...... try and keep yourself from him ....... to know what his WISHES for you ..... it may take so long to discover that
Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:44 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 16-09-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Slimme on 16-09-2010 08:52 AM
:'( Hi Guys, Pls I want to seek your advise concerning my relationship. I am in love with this guy who claims to also love me too. He cheated on me sometimes ago & I am finding it so difficult to trust him again. When I demanded for his reason for cheating, he said it's  because I was not giving him wat he wanted from me, now I give him all he wants, but then he is taking a piss, by demanding too much, and I have been unable to refuse him, because I'm scared of losing him. What can I do about him pls, because I feel like he is using me for his own pleasure, coupled with the fact that he knows how  much I love him so much. I need help urgently.  :'(

U made the biggest mistake giving in to him and letting him have what he wants. That would have been Ur collateral.

The best thing I feel u can and should do now it stop giing him anything. "pikin" wey U spoil go make U cry in the long run. Stop making a man without self control out of the boy U "love."

Ps: Stop making it sound like U don't enjoy giving him what ever it is U are giving him.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- gimac at 16-09-2010 05:02 PM (14 years ago)
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passing
Posted: at 16-09-2010 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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