hi pals thanks for your usual advise i pray God continuous wisdom never depart from you all...my pals I'm here again wit something trouble m in which i have to understand..i have been dating dis guy for 3month now ,,the first time we had was 2weeks back...i love him but i don't trust him be cos after my past experience ,,i don't think i can trust guys any longer. i don't double date but i have much male friends...it is just of recent i collected my friend phone and i wen through her message and i found out my boyfriend sent her a txt which was written,,,I'll be coming to you end on Saturday,so by sat day 4pm, let me see Wat excuse you would use in balling yourself wit..i really don't understand the text,,,,i guess we would be see each order on sat morning..i did not tell him anything neither did i ask my friend about it....i just brought it first to you my pals...i really need some words of wisdom
Posted: at 16-09-2010 07:02 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Hmmm ask her wat's her plan for saturday and see if she will say anything. Then ask her about the text but if you smell sumthing funny,my dear just cut off your relationship wit her and your boyfriend(guys no dey finish for this world).The problem here,is not the guy but your friend.I guess she's been your friend for years now,right?.Becos 3months is too early to strt trusting a guy.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 07:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
cosign with onyin...ask your friend her plan for d wkend..if you feel anytin sneaky..investigate further,,,(like one of them cheaters episode..)if you have enuff proof..then you decide..to stick on or to bounce...cos alone you no how much you like or want the bloke.just my point...
Posted: at 16-09-2010 08:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Which word of wisdom? like you wanna know what to do or what? I don't think you are a minor so its time you think it through and make that decision on your own. No one here can help with that.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 09:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Sweetheart, my usual advice will never cease. Cool down, shine ur eyes, examine men b4 u agree with them. though, very rare, there are still faithful one out there.
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent
Posted: at 17-09-2010 06:05 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
tmusowoya at 17-09-2010 08:13 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Some good lady here gave me a piece of her mind when I generalised a particular negative issue to all women the way the poster has done with her statement: "CAN'T TRUST BOYS AGAIN".
I got the point and wish to share with the poster. HOW MANY FEMALE CRIMINALS DO YOU HEAR OR READ ABOUT? Of course many! DOES THAT MAKE EVERY FEMALE, INCLUDING YOU, A CRIMINAL?
You'll do well not to consider all the boys in your life, now and in future, to be the same. One of them will be custom made for you and and you alone!!
Posted: at 17-09-2010 08:13 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Treasure2 at 17-09-2010 09:10 AM (13 years ago) (f)
YOU ALREADY KNW THE TIME HE WILL BE GOING TO SEE YOUR FRIEND. GIVE YOUR FRIEND A SURPRISE VISIT @ 4.20 AND SEE THINGS YOUR SELF. BUT DNT MAKE TROUBLE IN CASE YOU ............................................
Posted: at 17-09-2010 09:10 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Some good lady here gave me a piece of her mind when I generalised a particular negative issue to all women the way the poster has done with her statement: "CAN'T TRUST BOYS AGAIN".
I got the point and wish to share with the poster. HOW MANY FEMALE CRIMINALS DO YOU HEAR OR READ ABOUT? Of course many! DOES THAT MAKE EVERY FEMALE, INCLUDING YOU, A CRIMINAL?
You'll do well not to consider all the boys in your life, now and in future, to be the same. One of them will be custom made for you and and you alone!!
This is a salient truth but it should be handled with some discretion. I never really thought of this obvious fact that generalization includes me and mine that I would readily defend... Ha!
Posted: at 17-09-2010 10:38 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac